:( ive been with my boyfriend for two
years and hes the first person ive had sex
with, the sex is good but I cannot for the
life of me orgasm during sex,
I can orgasm during oral sex or by his
hand, I can even do it myself! But it
doesnt feel the same when we are having
sex, and I cannot climax, not even
close..
Ive tried to really be into it because
they say its all in a girls mind but that
didnt work, I dont want to touch my self
and play with myself during sex because I
dont want my boy friend to feel like hes
not doing it right...
Please help with some good adivce
thanks
|
diamondsz
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Oct 2005 Posts: 3257 Location: , Candyland-Canada
Thanks: 87
Thanked:128
online
Posted: 10-18-05 08:55am
Hey
men dont mind the thought of a female
touching themselves and it doesnt make
them feel bad its better they know they
made you happy then by not having an
orgasm at all. Some female cant have
orgasm just be penetration but need to to
stimulate their clit
too....................My buddy is having
this issue and decided just to go gay.
|
Tan21
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Oct 2005 Posts: 11
Posted: 10-19-05 16:23pm
It all depends on what you like. From
the way you describe it, it sounds like
you enjoy clitoral stimulation more than
anything. For me, penetration is the
only way I orgasm, can't get it with oral
or anything so I know what you mean. I
know for me its just a combination of
penetration & clitoral so if you push
your pelvis up when you're on top I find
that works for me. Aim your clitoris
more towards him and it might work for
you. I know it does for me
