As most of you know I had posted about me
being late on my period and getting some
common pregnancy symptoms...Well I got
what I thought was my period on wednesday
december 3rd but it wasn't like most of my
normal cycles...The first day I had
minimal cramping and the blood was really
dark and not even liquidy. Yesterday( my
2nd day) I woke up with absolutely
horrible cramps, so bad I had to stop and
bend over...They made me feel so sick too,
after I was able to get up I went into the
bathroom and noticed an abnormally big,
what looked like jello(sry for being
graphic) peice of what I thought was a
blood clot.(went through about 4 pads in
an hour because so much came out) it didnt
seem normal so I called my best friend up
and told her what was going on, then I had
to call her back because I doubled over in
pain again and went back to the bathroom
only to find another mass of jello looking
stuff. It definitely wasnt a blood clot
because it wasn't smooth and liquidy. It
was clumpy and really dark, it didnt even
look like blood, it looked like small
amounts of tissue clumped
together...Usually by my second day my
flow is pretty heavy and bright red...I
called my friend back and told me she
thinks I was having a miscarriage, because
that wasnt normal..And her aunt had just
had one last month and she described it
the same exact way...So I looked it up
online and it's saying I had an early
miscarriage, because I wasn't far enough
along, all I got was really bad cramping,
sharp pains,i was late and had a heavy and
clumpy jello like "discharge"...Today I
feel shot down and weak, I was in the
shower and got out and almost fell down,
and now im having a bright red, heavy
flow......Im calling my doctor in a little
bit to confirm this, because im in
complete denial and don't believe it..I
dont even know what to think.. I'll
update after I get a solid answer to
this.
Vanessa
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nikki_caro
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Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 12-05-03 13:00pm
Ok let us know. I dont know how could you
be pregnant if youve never had sex. Have
you done it with him yet?
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CrombieChic16
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Oct 2003 Posts: 745
Posted: 12-05-03 13:07pm
We havent had full blown sex, but we had
"dry sex" a couple times without a condom
on a while ago, and there was visible
precum afterwards, he put it in for a
little bit and then put a condom on...Im
such a worrier so I was just like
whatever, its no biggie....But the one
time I think that, is the one time where
there's reason to worry.. My friend's
aunt(nurse) even said that much precum
getting put inside, even just a little,
and then me orgasming, makes it very
possible for me to have gotten preg
because the orgasm pushes the sperm up
higher....And I was thinking about it
yesterday,and if I ever did get pregnant
right now, I dont think my body could
handle it because im on the verge of
anemia again, I havent been eating
right...My body can barely take care of
itself right now, let alone another human
being on top of it...I dont know, I have
mixed feelings, like I said, I dont
believe it, but we're calling my doctor
later to see what they say.
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insurancegirl
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Joined: 25 Sep 2003 Posts: 5286
Posted: 12-05-03 13:08pm
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CrombieChic16
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Oct 2003 Posts: 745
Posted: 12-05-03 13:11pm
Jennifer,
isn't a d&c where they clean you out?
If this was a miscarriage, wouldn't my
body do it itself, since it was so early
on? Oh my god, I can't believe this is
happening..
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CrombieChic16
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Oct 2003 Posts: 745
Posted: 12-05-03 13:12pm
I mean I would have only been around 3
weeks along, would that really be needed?
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insurancegirl
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Joined: 25 Sep 2003 Posts: 5286
Posted: 12-05-03 13:14pm
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Darling
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Sep 2003 Posts: 875
Posted: 12-05-03 14:09pm
You might not need a d&c however going
to the doctor is necessary.
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CrombieChic16
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Oct 2003 Posts: 745
Posted: 12-05-03 14:51pm
I'm so scared right now, I don't even know
where to start...I just got in from going
out with my best friends because I was
such a mess over this, I was hysterical,
they said that I can either tell my mom
and have her take me to my doctor, or they
said they'll take me to the clinic to get
me checked out, either way I have to
choose one of them...I told them I dont
want to go to the doctors because 1, I
dont know what they're going to say or do,
and 2, I dont want to hear them tell me I
had a miscarriage...Ive wanted to be a
mother for as long as I can remember, and
knowing that something was inside me, but
my body couldnt hold it, will be too much
for me. I'm so scared, I don't want to
have to get a d&c, I dont even know
what they do, but I dont want it...You
guys I dont know what to do.
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nikki_caro
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Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 12-05-03 14:53pm
Go to the clinic. You need to find out
whats wrong. I know your scared but be
brave. If you tell your mom shes be upset
you were with an older guy. Or just tell
her and go to your regular doc. You need
to find out. Dont sit and think over it,
its not gonna get you better. Please do
it for your safety, quick.
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CrombieChic16
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Oct 2003 Posts: 745
Posted: 12-05-03 15:29pm
Is there any way of knowing by myself if I
was pregnant? I mean if I took a hpt
would it show even if I did miscarry? I
didn't want to tell tom because I don't
know how he'll react, but my friends told
me he deserved to know...He called me a
little bit ago and I told him we have to
talk later, then he called me 10 mins ago
to see if I wanted to talk then so he
knows somethings up...But I dont know how
to tell him...I mean how do I start? I
feel like he's either not going to believe
me and think im psycho or freak out on
me...Im just so confused right now, im
sorry to vent on you guys, but I seriously
feel like this isnt even happening...And
that d&c procedure scares the crap out
of me....They have to dilate your cervix
as if you were giving birth and then
suction everything out...I don't know if I
can go through with that...My first
reaction is to call tom again and just
explain everything, but I cant, I dont
know what to do...My mom knows somethings
wrong and told me I can tell her anything,
so I dont know how im going to tell her,
if I do....And as more time goes on the
more its becoming real, I read up more on
it and it said something about a foul
smelling discharge..And even though im
still bleeding, I noticed a smell to it
that I never get...So thats got me
thinking...And I shouldnt even be bleeding
today because its my 3rd and usually last
day....But im bleeding so heavily....After
I got out of the shower today my towel was
soaked with blood....Why is this happening
to me??? I cant take it!
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Darling
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Sep 2003 Posts: 875
Posted: 12-05-03 18:51pm
Listen very carefully. You are in extreme
need of medical attention. Like nikki
said be brave and tell her. This is your
life we're talking about. You could be
hemmoraging (which could be deadly) and
you are losing vast amounts of blood.
Right now what happened in the past is of
no importance, you need to get help now
(caps). I really hope your ok and that
you go to the hospital
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CrombieChic16
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Oct 2003 Posts: 745
Posted: 12-05-03 19:31pm
Darling,
the bleeding has come to a minimum and now
I only need to wear a panty liner, because
there's just spotting now....I talked to
my friend(her whole fam. Is made up of
drs) and she said everybody seems to think
that I miscarried....Tom's in philadelphia
all weekend and my 2 best friends are
working, one of them told me she would
take me tomorrow to the clinic if they're
open, and if not, possibly the
hospital....Im not bleeding extreme
anymore and my only complaints right now
are nausea, tiredness,slight
aches/cramping, and being bloated...But
then I have bad anxiety so of course all
of this is gonna make me go nuts, so the
nausea is more then likely caused by my
nerves...I just talked to tom and told him
to call me in a little bit after he
settles in so we can talk....Im planning
on talking to my mom tomorrow morning
after I talk to him and let him know whats
going on....I also talked to one of my
teachers(im homeschooled right now) and
she gave me the #s to call to find the
closest planned parenthood...She also
didnt seem too concerned with my
symptoms...I mean they're not so extreme
to where im immobile, but abnormal enough
to make me notice somethings
different.....I need sleep, so I think im
going to bed soon....Ill keep u posted
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Darling
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Sep 2003 Posts: 875
Posted: 12-05-03 19:40pm
Oh im so glad you posted and your alright.
I didn't mean to overreact but it really
did sound like it was something worthy
going to the hospital over. Hang in there
till tomorrow honey and stay strong! Your
so brave. Everything will be ok
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CrombieChic16
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Oct 2003 Posts: 745
Posted: 12-05-03 20:08pm
I'm going to get a hpt tonight(if I can
get a ride \ )
and see if it shows that I was even
pregnant in the first place....There's a
possibility that it will come up negative
even if I was because my hcg levels would
be low...But if I get a test that tests
for low hcg levels then it'll come up
positive if I was in fact pregnant(thanks
to jess and her helpful advice!
)....Oh man, this is becoming more
real...I'll post after I take the
test...If not tonight, then first thing
tomorrow morning(i have a feeling it'll be
then)....And thanks guys for all of your
support...You've really pulled me through
this, without you guys i'd probably be
going crazy right now....So thank you to
everybody who's thrown in a few words of
advice and support...It's helped
tremendously...Hugs to everybody!
Vanessa
and darling, I felt like crying after your
last post...Thank you so much for your
concern with all of this, im truly
thankful to have someone like you around!
I am so stunned at the sincerity you all
have shown....I love all of you as if you
were family...Im gonna cry now! I'll keep
you all updated if anything changes or
when I take the test...Whichever comes
first!
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Jessika Adriana
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Nov 2003 Posts: 133
Posted: 12-05-03 20:20pm
love ya girlie!!
Glad that me and my mom could help!
Much love
-jessika-
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CrombieChic16
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Oct 2003 Posts: 745
Posted: 12-06-03 11:36am
Just wanted to let everybody know that im
still here and doing okay! I was up half
the night thinking about the hpt...My
friend's on her way over now to take me to
get one...I'm so nervous, I don't know
what to think. I told tom last night and
he really surpassed my assumptions. At
first he was like I dont get it, we never
had sex, but then it could have been
possible because of the contact we
had....So he didn't deny it, and didn't
make me feel guilty whatsoever(i thought
he would)...He told me that at least I was
okay and if there was anything I needed to
call him...Well my friend's here...Ahh
wish me luck! Ill post when I get back...
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Darling
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Sep 2003 Posts: 875
Posted: 12-06-03 14:52pm
Patiently waiting for your
answer...........
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CrombieChic16
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Oct 2003 Posts: 745
Posted: 12-06-03 17:20pm
Hey everybody,
sorry for keeping you all waiting...Well,
I went to cvs and got a hpt and looked at
it for about 20 minutes before I actually
took it...I was so nervous...I did the
whole pee thing and sat and looked at it
for about 2 mintues....Well, I was so
nervous I was looking at the wrong side!
Lol, but when I finally realized I turned
it over and saw 1 pink line....Meaning if
I did miscarry, I was too early on for the
hpt to detect the hcg levels....So either
way it made me feel so much better just
knowing it was negative....But, im still
bleeding a little bit off and on, so if it
doesn't stop entirely by tomorrow im going
to talk to my mom and get in to see the dr
on monday....I think I might go either
way, because it's going to kill me not
knowing if I lost a little one or not, I
just have this gut instinct that my
intuitions were right....I'm still pretty
tired and weak from all of this, so i'm
just taking it easy and letting my body do
what it needs to and i'll go from there.
Thanks to all of you girls who supported
me through this, I couldnt of done it
without you all....I told tom and he is
just happy that i'm okay, I can't wait to
see him again so that I can just hug
him....Thats what I need right now...I'll
post more after I feel a little better..
Much love,
vanessa
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Lildreamer
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Sep 2003 Posts: 144 Location: CALI
Posted: 12-07-03 03:13am
Crombie..Im sorry im late on knowing about
this whole thing! I hope everything is ok
with you and that everything turns out
fine. Take care of yourself......
\ )
and see if it shows that I was even
pregnant in the first place....There's a
possibility that it will come up negative
even if I was because my hcg levels would
be low...But if I get a test that tests
for low hcg levels then it'll come up
positive if I was in fact pregnant(thanks
to jess and her helpful advice! 
)....Oh man, this is becoming more
real...I'll post after I take the
test...If not tonight, then first thing
tomorrow morning(i have a feeling it'll be
then)....And thanks guys for all of your
support...You've really pulled me through
this, without you guys i'd probably be
going crazy right now....So thank you to
everybody who's thrown in a few words of
advice and support...It's helped
tremendously...Hugs to everybody!
love ya girlie!!
Glad that me and my mom could help!
