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Pregnancy And Immature Ppl Posted: 10-19-05 13:58pm
Im sorry if people want to have children
at 15/16 they should be allowed and you
should be happy about their choice as
birth is beautiful.
If one of these girls were your daughter
would you call them a f%%%ing retard?? No
you would probally sit down and have a
chat and maybe seek help for them.
For people my age and older have you never
learned treat others the way you would
want to be treated
i understand that alot of people dont
agree with teen pregnancy but instead of
name calling why dont you explain the
actual cr@p they will have to go through
instead of calling stupid,idiots and
f***ing retards and you wonder why they
continue on as you push them down a slope
because they have nowhere else to turn
this board is to help people and give
advice on teen pregnancy !!!!!
Instead of " you cant even spell you
f&&&ing retard"
why not try
do you really know what ur getting
yourself in (how hard is that to say) and
maybe explain the actually pyshics of
taking care of kid
it is hard having a kid but they also have
positives they grow and do new things
everyday and when you see a smile all that
hard work is worth but its not easy
jess
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jaydynsmomi
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Joined: 19 Jul 2005 Posts: 118
Posted: 10-19-05 15:45pm
Yeah your on the wrong board
most of the people on here are fakes...
Ive been here for two years, on and off, I
know these things..You obviously dont!
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Kourtney08
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Joined: 08 May 2004 Posts: 937 Location: Alaska
Posted: 10-19-05 15:49pm
Uhm, 15 year olds can't even get a
lincense, so why should I support them if
they want to have a child? I'm sorry, I
wont. Too bad. I'll support them if they
accidently get pregnant. But for someone
who hasn't finished school, and can't even
legally drive to want a child, is stupid,
and I wont support it, or be nice about
it.
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Posted: 10-19-05 16:50pm
Jaydynsmomi wrote:
81.78.165.116
81.76.250.150your from northern ireland!
Thanxbye
this from other post by the way where I
live you can get a license at 14 and you
finish school at 16/17 gotta love
rules!!!!!!!
A moderator wouldnt be so immature
the two ips below are from two different
places and modems or could be one company
two separate name
modem-1396.Javan.Dialup.Pol.Co.Uk
modem-2710.Iguana.Dialup.Pol.Co.Uk
81.78.165.116
81.76.250.150
by the way im not from ireland lol far
from it!!!
I hope ur not posting ur own ip that
wouldnt be too smart cause some can hack
it easily minus the fact it is dial
really smart and by the way cuase u didnt
even get it right lol!!! You should go
back to school they do teach it in school
remeber what comes around goes around if
you did post someone elses ip like one of
ur buddies you can and may be
charged......................
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jaydynsmomi
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Joined: 19 Jul 2005 Posts: 118
Posted: 10-19-05 18:50pm
Ok ur dumb! I was talking bout the "11"
year old that was trying to get pregnant,
you need to learn to read properly
oh and by the way, thats not my ip, its
hers! Thank you
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Kourtney08
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 May 2004 Posts: 937 Location: Alaska
Posted: 10-22-05 14:24pm
diamondsz
wrote:
jaydynsmomi wrote:
81.78.165.116
81.76.250.150your from northern ireland!
Thanxbye
this from other post by the way where I
live you can get a license at 14 and you
finish school at 16/17 gotta love
rules!!!!!!!
A moderator wouldnt be so immature
the two ips below are from two different
places and modems or could be one company
two separate name
modem-1396.Javan.Dialup.Pol.Co.Uk
modem-2710.Iguana.Dialup.Pol.Co.Uk
81.78.165.116
81.76.250.150
by the way im not from ireland lol far
from it!!!
I hope ur not posting ur own ip that
wouldnt be too smart cause some can hack
it easily minus the fact it is dial
really smart and by the way cuase u didnt
even get it right lol!!! You should go
back to school they do teach it in school
remeber what comes around goes around if
you did post someone elses ip like one of
ur buddies you can and may be
charged......................
did you just really tell someone to go
back to school, with your post full of
horrible grammar, and spelling?
Looks like you need to go back to school
too, you don't have a damn clue what
you're talking about, you look like an
fool. So run along now little girl.
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diamondsz
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Posted: 10-22-05 18:25pm
Did you just really tell someone to go
back to school, with your post full of
horrible grammar, and spelling?
Looks like you need to go back to school
too, you don't have a damn clue what your
talking about, you look like an fool. So
run along now little girl.[/quote]
actually my sister is 13 and pretty damn
smart!! My sister uses my account but my
father has his own computer company and
she is helping with tech support lol!!!
My fathers company has enriched our lives
when it comes to computers as we have come
by jobs that we would need a college
degree but have gotten away with job
expierence (i build computers and work as
tech analyst.) by the way our first
language is french and our second is
english and I speak other language on the
side as my sister doesn't . So yes my
sister is a little girl but with alot of
potential and people who speak multiple
languages are considered to have more of a
iq than the average person.
Maybe you should know a person before you
judge and maybe you need to to attend
school for manners and human moral or
maybe you just failed. I dont judge but
I offer assistance to those in need!
Jess
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Kourtney08
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 May 2004 Posts: 937 Location: Alaska
Posted: 10-22-05 19:23pm
diamondsz
wrote:
did you just really tell
someone to go back to school, with your
post full of horrible grammar, and
spelling?
Looks like you need to go back to school
too, you don't have a damn clue what your
talking about, you look like an fool.
So run along now little
girl.
actually my sister is 13 and pretty damn
smart!! My sister uses my account but
my father has his own computer company and
she is helping with tech support lol!!!
My fathers company has enriched our lives
when it comes to computers as we have come
by jobs that we would need a college
degree but have gotten away with job
expierence (i build computers and work as
tech analyst.) by the way our first
language is french and our second is
english and I speak other language on the
side as my sister doesn't . So yes my
sister is a little girl but with alot of
potential and people who speak multiple
languages are considered to have more of a
iq than the average person.
Maybe you should know a person before you
judge and maybe you need to to attend
school for manners and human moral or
maybe you just failed. I dont judge but
I offer assistance to those in need!
Jess[/quote]
ohh, the old "someone else used my
computer" excuse.
I'd call my daughter a doing it retard
& then i'd let her do it & let her
experience how hard it is & how I told
her you couldn't look back once you had a
baby, because babies are forever.
Its obvious if you're 15/16 wanting to
have a baby then your not mature enough to
handle such situations that a baby brings
anyways.
End of.
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diamondsz
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Posted: 10-23-05 15:20pm
Ohh, the old "someone else used my
computer" excuse.
Nice.
I don't believe a word you said.
Kthxbye.[/quote]
believe what you want honey, I dont have
to explain myself! Anyways im sick of
arguing with children and well ill be the
mature person and stop the conversation.
You're the one who thinks a child having a
child is okay. It's obvious you're too
mentally messed up in the head to realize
this.
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Kourtney08
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Joined: 08 May 2004 Posts: 937 Location: Alaska
Posted: 10-23-05 22:04pm
Not once did I say you had to explain
yourself, you did that all on your own.
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diamondsz
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Posted: 10-24-05 06:50am
dalicialynn
wrote:
sick of arguing with
children?
You're the one who thinks a child having a
child is okay. It's obvious you're too
mentally messed up in the head to realize
this.
if a teen mother or pregnant teen can
support herself and her child, providing a
roof over the childs' head,food on the
table and clothes then I believe they are
somewhat ready for a child. As long as
you can provide an environment of love and
patience then you are ready for one!
I got married in my teens, had my child
when I was a teen and had everything it
needed on top even luxuries. I make more
money than the common person and im
opening up a business in a year after
having #2 and i'm 21!!!!!
Why should I tell a teen that having a kid
is bad, when I did it and have never
looked back with regrets (its like telling
your kid smoking is bad when you do it
yourself.) the only thing is if you cant
support it then dont have
it.................................
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babyrae
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Joined: 19 Jan 2004 Posts: 2957 Location: Manitoba, Canada
Posted: 10-24-05 07:39am
Okay.. So say i'm 14 years old.. Have
a nice 23 year old boyfriend who I believe
I love.. I moved in with him into our
own place and I dropped outta school and
am now working fulltime. Now i've
followed everything u believe that someone
should have in order to have a child.
Would u tell me, given the infor I just
told you, that its okay for me to have a
child? No! Just becuz ur environment
around u is good doesnt mean u have the
mental maturity to go through it all.
Sure people say "well way back when, my
grandma got married at 14 and had kids"
but back then it was their job to do
that.. Now u need a diploma and even
college to get far in life. So it doesnt
matter how nice of a place you have and
how well u can do on your own, the biggest
thing is if you are mature enough and able
to take care of a child.
Last edited by babyrae on 10-24-05 11:23am; edited 1 time in total
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Kourtney08
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 May 2004 Posts: 937 Location: Alaska
Posted: 10-24-05 09:14am
diamondsz
wrote:
dalicialynn
wrote:
sick of arguing with
children?
You're the one who thinks a child having a
child is okay. It's obvious you're too
mentally messed up in the head to realize
this.
if a teen mother or pregnant teen can
support herself and her child, providing a
roof over the childs' head,food on the
table and clothes then I believe they are
somewhat ready for a child. As long as
you can provide an environment of love and
patience then you are ready for one!
I got married in my teens, had my child
when I was a teen and had everything it
needed on top even luxuries. I make more
money than the common person and im
opening up a business in a year after
having #2 and i'm 21!!!!!
Why should I tell a teen that having a kid
is bad, when I did it and have never
looked back with regrets (its like telling
your kid smoking is bad when you do it
yourself.) the only thing is if you cant
support it then dont have
it.................................
your reasoning is very messed up. You're
not going to tell a child, something thats
true, because you did it yourself? You
wouldn't tell your child smoking is bad if
you smoked? You're a doing it fool.
Period. The end.
Plus, I thought you weren't going to
"argue with children" anymore? *raises
eyebrow*
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BrianBaby
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Joined: 19 Jan 2005 Posts: 1383
Posted: 10-24-05 13:14pm
Umm, i'm not going to support a 11, 12,
13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22,
23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31...(you
get the point) year old girl/woman in
getting pregnant if they get on here
saying that they want a baby and all
they're friends thinks they're ready.
No....No way. I'm not going to support
them when they say that they don't need an
"edukation" or can finish school later.
No. I'm not going to support someone
that says "i'll blame my parents". No.
I'm not going to support someone that says
"i can love this baby soo much". No.
I'm not going to support someone that says
"i love to babysit and I have a baby
doll". Hell no. Absolutley ridiculous.
Things happen and mistakes are made...In
that case, yes....People need support.
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diamondsz
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Posted: 10-24-05 16:01pm
Hey brian
okay were thinking on the same line
then, what im trying to get across this
board is for moral support for people who
are prego..
I will not support someone who doesnt have
a job or education, now I mastered two at
the same time but every person is
different at multitasking.
I guess what I should have said is I have
a good freaking job but I worked hard to
get it and I have my education, i'm with
someone who shares my dreams of a family
not because of some stupid reason, we are
just ready to sacrifice and give all our
attention to our daughter and child to
come. We are both young parents but are
beliefs are different so not everyone can
base their sitiuation on mine, as life
has been really kind to me.
For those who dont understand this ill put
it in english
if you dont have a job or education
wait........
If you are not ready to sacrifice your
life with friends....Wait
if you think your parents are going to
support you get a life!
Basically if just want to do it to rebel,
to feel loved, milk the system, ditch
school, trying to tie your boyfriend to a
non existent relationship.......Your
having a kid for the wrong reasons which
you will regret
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poohbear101
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Nov 2004 Posts: 383
Posted: 10-24-05 17:08pm
Most of these kids who are on here who
want babies just want them so they have
something who will love them and because
they think babies are cute. Something to
play with when they're bored. They don't
think anything through and don't listen to
those who have had children at young ages
and are trying to give them advice. They
think all their problems will be solved by
having kids when really all their problems
will just be beginning. Yes, there are
some mature teens out there but just
because your mature doesn't mean you
should have a baby.
