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Severe Anger During Pregnancy? Posted: 12-05-03 17:43pm
This morning my cousin who lives with me
was pms'ing I guess and we got into an
argument. It always seems like she is
trying to tell me tha negative side of
things and I usually get pissed off and it
starts and argument well today I couldn't
get my mom to take me to my doctors and
started crying -- thanks to my hormones :\
-- my cousin made a smart remark about how
it was my fault that im in this situation
and she wouldn't help me either. Things
got really heated and I felt this rush of
complete anger & before I could even
blink I took what was in my hand (the
phone) and threw it across the room the
phone shattered into like 10 pieces, there
were wires and plastic everywhere. Then
she told me to grow up and I took the
chair and threw it against the wall and
threw the remote control out the window,
slammed the door the room (mine) looked
like a mad man destroyed it and now I feel
guilty. Although it made me feel better
at the time, I have never acted like that
before and im worried.....Has anyone
experieced this or know whats going on
with me lol
Last edited by LiDdLe_MoMmY_704 on 12-05-03 18:16pm; edited 1 time in total
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nikki_caro
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Posted: 12-05-03 18:06pm
Well ive never heard of that nor have I
experienced it, but I think you owe an
apology to your mom. Not only did you
yell at her, but you trashed her things.
Its not your home to trash. You need to
control your anger and walk away from
things that will set off your short fuse.
If you want to hit things, hit a pillow.
For now I suggest you fix the things you
broke and offer to either pay for it or
work it off. Concentrate on making things
better, not making it worse. You keep it
up and your mom wont take you anywhere you
ask. Why should she with the was you are
acting? Im sorry but if you were my kid
and you did that, id smack you. You
should respect your mom more, and depend
on other rides. Because you are in this
mess not her and if your mom wont take
you, you need a backup plan. Like a cab
or a bus. Im sorry to be hard on you, but
your temper is way out of hand.
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LiDdLe_MoMmY_704
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Joined: 01 Dec 2003 Posts: 27 Location: Washington, D.C
Not to Be Mean But.... Posted: 12-05-03 18:12pm
How could u say that? I said in my post
that it was my cousin who was home, not my
mom. And it was my phone that was broken
and the dent was in my wall, in a small
area. Maybe I made it seem worse then it
was but we live in a small area (a 2
bedroom apt.) so it wasn't that bad. I
asked for help with my anger not for
someone to criticize it. I have never
acted like that before and I didn't take
it out on my mom. I think you took it too
seriously.
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nikki_caro
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Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 12-05-03 18:20pm
Ohh im sorry, I saw you mentioned your mom
so I took it you yelled at her, threw a
phone, and a chair. I apologize for that.
Well maybe you should ignore your cousin.
Even though you were upset, you should
have walked away, not throw a phone.
Maybe you can call your doctor and see
what you can do. I dont think there is
much because your hormones are acting
crazy but who knows. Im sorry I read your
thing wrong.
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LiDdLe_MoMmY_704
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Joined: 01 Dec 2003 Posts: 27 Location: Washington, D.C
That`s Ok Posted: 12-05-03 18:51pm
I used to be on zoloft. I was so used to
being happy and now I can't take it so I
think my body is also trying to adjust to
that as well. Are there any anti
depressants that you can take while
pregnant?
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nikki_caro
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Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 12-05-03 18:55pm
You really need to consult with your doc
on that one. Because anything you take,
your baby takes too. And most things do
not reccomend you take it while being
pregnant. But you can call and ask them
or what for your next appointment with
questions. Write down all your questions
now, then read them off to your doc so you
wont forget anything ok.
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Darling
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Joined: 22 Sep 2003 Posts: 875
Posted: 12-05-03 18:55pm
Actually zoloft is safe for women to take
during pregnancy. Why did you go off of
it?
I'm on it and I know when I tried to get
off of it once....Watch out!!!!!! I was
meaner then anything and very angry!
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LiDdLe_MoMmY_704
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Joined: 01 Dec 2003 Posts: 27 Location: Washington, D.C
Omg! Posted: 12-05-03 19:40pm
Such a big relief thanks for telling me
that darling. I stopped taking it because
my mom told me it was probaby not a good
idea to continue it. I wish I would have
asked my doc. First I could really use it
right now! I am gonna call him tomorrow
and double check and if he says yea then
i'm definetly getting back on!
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Darling
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Joined: 22 Sep 2003 Posts: 875
Posted: 12-05-03 19:42pm
Your mom shouldnt have told you to stop
taking it! You can get horrible withdrawl
(i know I do when I forget to take it)!!!!
I'm so glad your going back on it! I
know my life would be horrible without
zoloft! Its my saviour! How much are you
on?
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LiDdLe_MoMmY_704
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Joined: 01 Dec 2003 Posts: 27 Location: Washington, D.C
Posted: 12-05-03 19:51pm
I know! Zoloft is the best! I am just so
happy when i'm on it, nothing could make
me upset lol i'm on 50 mg a day, you??
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Darling
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Posted: 12-05-03 20:24pm
I'm on 350mg! Lol
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LiDdLe_MoMmY_704
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Joined: 01 Dec 2003 Posts: 27 Location: Washington, D.C
Posted: 12-05-03 20:33pm
Omg are u serious sometimes I would take
100mg but 350!!! Dayum girl u must be on
pink clouds!!! How long have u been on
it?
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Darling
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Sep 2003 Posts: 875
Posted: 12-05-03 21:16pm
I started about 4 years ago on 25 and they
have bumped it up ever since. And it's
amazing but still doesnt work as well as
they hoped. My therapist would like to
switch meds but I dont think thats a good
idea! Last time I tried to go off of it I
went into a deep depression!
