I Need Any Help I Can Get... Sory That It Is Long... Posted: 10-19-05 15:38pm
Alright, to start off, I am new at this
forum. I have been to many other forums,
but it seems that they are all about
games. I am hoping someone can truly help
me with the issues I am having. This
might be a little long, but I thank the
ones that spend the time reading it.
Alright, I am now 23 days late for my
period!!! I was having sex in the
beginning of the month of aug. To the
beginning of sept. In aug. After having
sex, I received my period, ( on the same
day I usually get it, on the 28th, regular
7 day flow, everything was normal).
However, I was continuing having sex, even
when I was bleeding. Since the start of
my period in aug., my boobs have been sore
and still have been since. They swell,
itch, twigging feeling, just over all,
uncomfortable pain. This pain is not
consistent, but I must say, comes ever so
often. Never the less, that was, I should
say, the first feeling of pregnancy I had.
I actually didn't think to much into
pregnancy until I was explaining the
uncomfortable pain I was having in my
breast area that someone asked the
question " could you be pregnant?". I
really wasn't thinking that much into it
but it was always in the back of my head.
I figured alright, I am going to wait
until I get my period and see if I don't,
then alight then il go from there. Well,
on sept. 23rd. I came home from an
outing and I used the restroom. When I
whiped, I seen the brightest coloring.
Bright pink!!! I didn't know what was
going on. This bright coloring, which led
to bright red and pink, continued for
about three days. I was scared to death,
because one, the coloring was horrible
and was something I have never experienced
in my life. And also, I was a week before
my period, so I shouldn't of had any sign
of bleeding. Well, when my period was
suppose to stroll around, guess what? It
didn't! I was scared, after seeing that
bright coloring of blood, I thought
something might be wrong with me. I
waited about a week or so, and went to the
$ store and bought two cheap tests. It
was late in the afternoon when I took the
first one, which in less then 5 seconds,
resulted in a negative. I was shocked,
because since the time frame of my boobs
beginning to swell, and the time I took
the first test, I was having many symtoms
of pregnancy. Frequent urination, eating
habits have increased, tiredness, back
aches, head aches, sometimes nausea,
cramping in my tummy area( something like
a pulling sensation) and also the feel of
ocean waves in my stomah( wich that was
off and on) just many of the symptoms you
would think of, I was having. Well, I
waited another week or so, watching to see
if I recieved any sign of bleeding,
nothing! I then took the spare preg tests
that I bought and made sure I took it in
the morning. It resulted in a positive
about 15 second compared to the first one,
which was less then 5, but soon faded into
a negative reading! I didn't know what to
take that as. That left me more confused
then anything. I was talking to a couple
people and they said that you should take
it as a negative but it could of been a
positive but just the cheap brands are not
good enough. So I had been watching my
doings since then. Taking good care of
myself, more then doing just at the
thought of pregnancy. I waited about 5
working days and I went and bought a first
response early hpt. I took it in the
morning, and it appeared negative. I just
do not get it, because I am so late now,
and still have not received any signs of
bleeding, and I still have the same
symptoms. What is going on? I have an
extra first response test, when should I
take it? Could there be a chance I am in
fact preg? Has any one been through this
experience before and resulted into a
positive, healthy pregnancy? Someone help
me out, thank you so much. Again, sorry
for this post being so long. Thanks again
to all!
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Nevaeh_Iilena
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Oct 2005 Posts: 27
Neveah Posted: 10-19-05 17:40pm
I understand that my post is long and I am
sorry for the inconvenience but I would
really appreciate it, if someone could
share some advice*comments*experiences
with me to put me at ease.
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El
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Mar 2005 Posts: 476 Location: Melbourne, Australia
Posted: 10-19-05 18:00pm
I think you might have to go to a doctor
with this one. 3 negative tests are
pretty conclusive-although, i've seen a
lot of women on this forum get a few
negatives before finally testing opsitive,
but that's usually because they are
testing too early. 23 days late should
not be too early.
You should definately see a doctor, who
could determine whether you are pregnant
and if not, find out what's causing the
problems.
Make an appointment to see someone, and
have a check-up.
Good luck.
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Nevaeh_Iilena
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Oct 2005 Posts: 27
Neveah Posted: 10-19-05 18:17pm
Thank you so much for your comment. I
have actually made an apt with my Dr. In
about a week or so. But the apt is for a
gyno. Which I need to go to as well, but
i'm really desiring a full, head to toe
checkup)!
I have herd plenty of stories that a gyno
can/can not tell if you are preg by a
paps. I truly do not know the accurate
answer so what I was planing on doing, is
taking the last test that I have and no
mater what the result would turn up, go to
the Dr. And get a check up. I really
would like to have that last test be dealt
with, and see what answer appears. I
guess you can say, just for the fun of it.
I find these tests interesting because
when my mother was pregnant with me, she
went to the dr( being 2 weeks late for her
cycle) and requested a blood draw. On her
way home, for the hell of it, she picked
up a home preg test kit which she did the
next morning and resulted into a negative.
A couple days late, she received the
blood results and hear I am today. Do you
think that there is a chance that if I am
in fact pregnant, the accurate answer
wouldn't appear because I had bleeding?
Never the less, do you think that if I am
in fact pregnant, I could have a healthy
pregnancy? Yes, I completely understand
that I need to see a physician and ask
away with my questions but until then, id
like to ask away with my questions and
concerns on a forum of this type. Thank
you again.
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mia7
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Sep 2005 Posts: 378
Posted: 10-19-05 18:36pm
I am three months pregnant and I have been
bleeding for over 2months now, so bleeding
doesn't necessarily affect the results of
a pregnancy if you are pregnant.
As for something you said about a little
pains like "pulling" I experienced that
also quite a bit at the beginning and a
little here and there now.
I would suggest to have the doctor take a
blood test and ask if you can have an
ultrasound done (i had one done two days
after I found out because they wanted to
make sure my baby was still in there and
alive)
sometimes pinkish coloured blood or
brownish colored blood can mean
implantation bleeding. This usually
occurs close to the time when you should
be getting your period (maybe a few days
early) bleeding can sometimes cause
miscarriage if it comes with bad cramps or
bloodclots or it could mean a threatened
miscarrieage (which is what I have) where
the only thing they can tell me is to take
it easy and get plenty of rest. That
means no working, excersice or heavy
lifting.
Those are the probable signs of pregnancy
that I am aware of when you have had
bleeding, and since you have missed your
period please go see a doctor asap to find
out it is not good to stress out or worry
over things like this.
I hope this helped, let us know how you
are doing
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El
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Mar 2005 Posts: 476 Location: Melbourne, Australia
Posted: 10-20-05 18:22pm
Ok, gyno question first..
My friend actually found out she was
pregnant with her first daughter at her
bi-annual pap smear test, so yep, I guess
they can tell.
The test thing, well, sometimes they can
show a negative if there is not enough
hormone to test in urine yet- like if
uit's too early, or the urine is
dilute-like if you've had a lot of water
to drink etc. That's why they advise you
do it first thing in the morning, when the
urine is concentrated (under the asumption
that you didn't drink a litre of water
during the night iof course !!)
and yes it's not unusual to bleed during
pregnancy, anything from light spotting to
an almost normal period is not unco9mmon-
my freind is pregnant with her 2nd, in
both pregnancies, she had a last period,
when she was actually two weeks pregnant
already.
I say good call with the full check up,
especially if you are going to go no
matter what result you get from the test-
it never does any harm to have a check up.
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