Revealing Too Much, Too Soon? Posted: 10-19-05 23:38pm
Ok guys, when is a woman revealing too
much too soon!?!? I am askin the guys
that are seriously wanting a
relatioship..Not the guys that just want a
piece of a$$. My g/f and I have been
dating for 6 months, and I still get
uneasy bout her exposing her breasts..I
know it's the fact that is comfortable
with me and loves me..It's just weird,
since she's my first to have sex with, and
she's my first to see breasts. However, I
enjoy them..Just makes me have mixed
feelings.. Ne comments would be
great..Thanks!!
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saglamh23
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Jun 2005 Posts: 61 Location: Türkiye
Posted: 10-20-05 04:48am
Hey enjoy it! Think, what if she
hesitated to show them to u. Would it be
better that showing willfully (which means
that she trusts u n she loves u)
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TysonH
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Sep 2005 Posts: 52
Posted: 10-20-05 18:47pm
This is true. Like with sex and all
though...Or even fooling around too
soon..I didn't watn to think of her as
easy, ya know. After 2 whole months of
dating, she kinda wanted to fool around.
It just kinda made me uneasy to think like
that..
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discreet
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Oct 2005 Posts: 4 Location: Fort Myers, FL
Posted: 10-31-05 20:35pm
Either direction you go, a person is
revealing too much too soon when the
partner isn't ready for it. I believe
strongly in sex in the bonds of marriage
only. Why? Because at the point that the
two are ready to stick together forever,
then they will both be ready to share
their bodies in like kind. You may, and
probably do disagree with that belief. Be
that as it may, it's too soon if you
aren't ready.
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TysonH
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Sep 2005 Posts: 52
Posted: 11-02-05 17:20pm
Well the thing is, is that we both enjoy
it..I mean I look forward to it too. Just
that I know she's had sex with other
guys..And it just sucks thinkin bout
that..Ya know. But I also don' twant her
to want to have sex alllll the time...So
yea, in a way I kinda want her to slow
down too..But not completely stop.
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gta67
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Nov 2005 Posts: 8
Posted: 11-03-05 22:28pm
Usually it is the male who is more
sexually aggressive and she may see your
lack of interest as a challenge.
Personally I don't think 6 months is too
soon for her to reveal her breasts to you.
You should embrace the fact that she is
in love with you and thoroughly enjoy your
time together. Don't worry about the
other men she has been with because the
older you get the more men your girlfriend
at the time will have been with.
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