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honeycoco

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Baby Never Developed
Posted: 12-06-03 01:16am

I went to the emergency room last night because I was having pain in my vaginal area I was afraid I was having an ectopic pregnancy. The doctor took blood and gave me a ultrasound the lady said the baby didnt form just the sack. I am so hurt and at a very low point in my life. The doctor said I was only 6 weeks. But when I first found out I was pregnant another doctor took blood and said I was 8 weeks thats why I think I had an ectopic pregnancy because the levels go down. The ob gyn wants be to come in monday to do another ultrasound but I cant bear to look at that screen and see nothing. I dont wish this on anyone it is a very low point in someones life.

Chrystal
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sparklypixie12

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Posted: 12-06-03 15:49pm

Thats very sad 2 hear.My thoughts r with u
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A-Lil'Mama*2

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Joined: 03 Nov 2003
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Location: The Sunshine State
I Am So Sorry, But Hang In There.
Posted: 12-07-03 23:01pm

Chrystal-
i am truly, truly saddened by the events that have just taken place in your life. Although we have never met, I feel the need to apologize to you. This may be hard to understand, but I am 20 years old, and have been through a hell of a lot. I have two babies, one of whom is disabled. When I first realized the severity of my sons disabilities, I felt so much hurt and anger that I did not want to live. I have never said this aloud before, and I am now very ashamed of it, but for a moment, I was not sure if I wanted my son to pull through. We have been through months of therapy and visits to the children's hospital. And with much prayer, ethan has improved tremendously. Now I cry at the thought of either of my babies not being here. Chrystal, I guess what i'm trying to say is that even though I wanted a healthy baby, god gave me a disabled child. When I no longer wanted to be his mother, god pushed me. And when I was finally able to cope with the situation, god helped our family to grow and love one another- no matter what. God has his reasons. He has a reason for letting this happen to you. You can noy let this pull you down. Take time to greive, and then, get back out there and live your life girl! Everything always happens for a reason. Stay strong, and let me know how it goes on monday. Good luck.
Marissa
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Darling

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Joined: 22 Sep 2003
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Posted: 12-07-03 23:06pm

Chrystal...My utmost sympathies...I'm not sure what to say as I know nothing will make you feel better at this time in your life. I would give you a big hug if I could. I know how your feeling...I lost a child hours after birth 6 years ago. Stay strong, someone has a plan for you and you'll make it through this
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Mommy_2_b

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Joined: 01 Oct 2003
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Location: Brookfield, N.S.

Posted: 12-08-03 06:49am

Im so sorry, sweetie, things will get better after this hard time im sure. Keep in touch. Melissa
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insurancegirl

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Posted: 12-08-03 10:40am

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nikki_caro

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Posted: 12-08-03 15:41pm

I am so sorry chrystal! Hang in there! You are a wonderful person! I wish I could give you a hug!
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