Joined: 30 Jul 2005 Posts: 78 Location: Philadelphia
I Need Help! Posted: 10-22-05 01:22am
Ok here's the story on me: I am 40 years
old but I look like 30.
I'm always thinking of sex. I look at a
girl in a store and I am in love.
Girls always look at me and I dont know if
I should make a move or not.
I am married and it wouldnt be right to
make a move. Right?
But then I always have these sexy
thoughts. I just want to make love to
every cute girl I see. I get erections
throughout the night. I make love to my
wife almost every day. A lot of times she
is not up to it and I cajole her into it
at all hours of the night.
I dont know whats wrong with me. Are guys
my age supposed to be like this? Always
thinking of sex and looking at pretty
girls. Or am I just naturally cursed?
Someone please tell me what my problem is
or what I should do?
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teach486
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Aug 2005 Posts: 276 Location: US
Posted: 10-22-05 09:08am
There is nothing wrong with looking at, or
being aroused by a pretty woman. That is
only human nature. However, if you act on
it while married, that is definately
wrong!!!! It sounds like your wife is
doing a great job in trying to keep up
with your needs. Your name says it all.
Spank it. Yank it. Whatever. If you
love your wife masturbate to help eleviate
the need, and save the actual act for her
only.
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cd998776
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Aug 2005 Posts: 996 Location: Ohio
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Posted: 10-22-05 18:07pm
I agree with teach486's advice...
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Spanky2005
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Jul 2005 Posts: 78 Location: Philadelphia
Posted: 10-23-05 22:57pm
At this point, I dont even know if I love
her...
Her attitude leaves a lot to be desired.
She is not a pleasant person.
I hate her more and more but I am stuck
with her.
I can't even find anyone else. Its like
being locked up in jail with the key
thrown away...
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cd998776
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Aug 2005 Posts: 996 Location: Ohio
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Posted: 10-23-05 23:04pm
Well, you should probably asses whether or
not you do still love her and whether it
is time for you to go your seperate ways.
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Spanky2005
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Jul 2005 Posts: 78 Location: Philadelphia
Posted: 10-24-05 19:12pm
Im so mad at her right now that I feel it
is time to go our separate ways.
Im sleeping in the basement!
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Human
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Sep 2005 Posts: 89
Posted: 10-27-05 12:31pm
She's either gotta have a good personality
or give you great sex. If you got
neither i'd leave. Yeah it sounds stupid
and immature and oversimplified but can
you really tell me i'm wrong? At that
age if she hasn't hammered out the kinks
in her personality then it'll never happen
buddy.
Also, you can find someone else, many
women would kill for a horny yet mature
guy like you.
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Spanky2005
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Jul 2005 Posts: 78 Location: Philadelphia
Thanks Human Posted: 10-28-05 21:44pm
I read another post of yours where you
gave good advice.
Now I can confirm that to be true (i.E.
Your advice)
your first line was so true...
Im just not sure what to do...We will see
what happens.
