I agree with last post. After I lost my pregnancy in mid july, my doctor suggested that I use protection and not get pregnant again until I had two full menstral cycles. I asked why I had to wait and she said if you get pregnant again right away you are at much higher risk of a micarrige.
Also if your doctor isnt compassionate about your situation then I think it is a good idea to change doctors.
When I was pregnant the first doctor I went to was an ass. I was really emotional that day (duh) and crying some during my visit- I was just really overwhwelmed even though I planned to get pregnant, also I quit smoking cold turkey so I was a little freaked out. He asked my 3 times during my visit if I was sure I didnt want to terminate the pregnancy.
That was my first and last visit with "dr. Death" as I like to refer to him.
My next doctors office was wonderful, even though I lost my baby I will go back to them because they treated me so good.
Good luck to you sweetie. And im so sorry for your loss. I know it is hell.