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Lilypad

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Location: Ohio, USA

Posted: 11-04-05 09:03am

sadmommy wrote:
that is all true , but it is a good tool to use because it pinpoints when you most likely will ovulate..... Everything man made has its conditions regarding accuracy. Nothing in life is 100% but everything is worth trying.....Good luck girls!


T~

good luck to you too sad mommy dont be sad!
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sbslove

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Location: Vail, IA

Posted: 11-04-05 11:37am

sadmommy wrote:
that is all true , but it is a good tool to use because it pinpoints when you most likely will ovulate..... Everything man made has its conditions regarding accuracy. Nothing in life is 100% but everything is worth trying.....Good luck girls!


T~


i think some of the ppl on here are right when they say ppl are here on way to quick to jump down someones throat. I never said anything to offend anyone and I sure didn't ever say that the test strips didn't work. All I did was correct u in saying that they don't tell u when u are ovalating cause they don't, all it does is tell u when u have ur lh surge and just cause u have that does not mean ur are ovalating. I think that ppl have a right to know that cause how would u feel if u didn't know that and u still weren't getting pregnant with it. It's only supposed to be used as an aid along with checking ur temp, cervical mucus, ect. I even use them.
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SadMommy

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Sbslove
Posted: 11-04-05 14:21pm

I am really sorry if you are sensitive to what I had written, I was kinda surprised by your reponse. I really wasn't bashing anything you had to say sugar, I was just putting advise in as well. All I can say is sorry becaue I really dont see were I was jumping down your throat?????

But, I truley am sorry if you took it that way, best wishes

tammy
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SadMommy

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Lilypad
Posted: 11-04-05 14:59pm

I forgot to say thanks lilypad for the good luck wishes!!!!

Love, tammy
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jenn_smithson

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Joined: 15 Nov 2004
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Location: Texas
Re: No Baby Yet :(
Posted: 11-04-05 20:33pm

kitty2luv wrote:
i am still trying for a baby , its been 5 months now .. My b/f thinks that on the 8th month of us being together I am going to get preg.. But I dont think so .. Me or him might have something wrong with us to not b able to have a baby , my gyno said everything looks fine for me but he's never been to a "man" doctor when should we decide to see a doctor?
generally, doctors advise that you try on your own for a full year before seeking help from a fertility specialist. To maximize your chances of conception, I would suggest that you invest in one of those ovulation monitors which can tell you the days when you are most fertile. Basal body temperature, taken in the mornings, can be used to indicate the day you ovulate. Before ovulation, in the mornings, your temperature tends to be lower. On the day of ovulation, your temperature tends to spike somewhat and stay elevated until after your period is over. Bbt used to be a widely used method but newer ovulation monitors can tell you then entire week, not just the day, when you are most likely to be fertile thereby cutting down your conception time dramatically. Best of luck!
Peace,
jenn
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Lilypad

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Joined: 10 Oct 2005
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Location: Ohio, USA
Re: No Baby Yet :(
Posted: 11-05-05 04:09am

jenn_smithson wrote:
kitty2luv wrote:
i am still trying for a baby , its been 5 months now .. My b/f thinks that on the 8th month of us being together I am going to get preg.. But I dont think so .. Me or him might have something wrong with us to not b able to have a baby , my gyno said everything looks fine for me but he's never been to a "man" doctor when should we decide to see a doctor?
generally, doctors advise that you try on your own for a full year before seeking help from a fertility specialist. To maximize your chances of conception, I would suggest that you invest in one of those ovulation monitors which can tell you the days when you are most fertile. Basal body temperature, taken in the mornings, can be used to indicate the day you ovulate. Before ovulation, in the mornings, your temperature tends to be lower. On the day of ovulation, your temperature tends to spike somewhat and stay elevated until after your period is over. Bbt used to be a widely used method but newer ovulation monitors can tell you then entire week, not just the day, when you are most likely to be fertile thereby cutting down your conception time dramatically. Best of luck!

Peace,
jenn


i have heard the same about waiting a year for seeking fertility help, but someone I work with's friend was only trying for 3 months and wanted to speed things up and her doctor put her on clomid, and now she is pregnant with triplets...
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jenn_smithson

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Re: No Baby Yet :(
Posted: 11-05-05 20:35pm

lilypad wrote:
i have heard the same about waiting a year for seeking fertility help, but someone I work with's friend was only trying for 3 months and wanted to speed things up and her doctor put her on clomid, and now she is pregnant with triplets...
it's also largely dependent on age. If your friend was older or nearing 35, they advise cutting the time down to 6 months. A good doctor who is interested in the .Woman's health and a healthy pregnancy generally will not cut down the time anymore than that. Some doctor's do whatever their willful patients want and this may pose problems later on. Othertimes, a patient may, in their understandable desperation, lie to the doctor on when the couple started trying to conceive. This tends to undermine the doctor/patient relationship and can pose problems later on.

If you are relatively young and healthy, the best thing that you can do is to adhere to trying for the full year before you start seeking professional help to ensure the safest, healthiest pregnancy possible. While your friend is probably delighted, pregnancy with multiples does tend to be harder on the body and she may be very lucky to be able to carry to term without losing any of them. I know that you are feeling frustrated but it really is healthy if you try to become pregnant on your own without all of the drugs and fertility medication. Best of luck!
Peace,
jenn
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