Joined: 22 Oct 2004 Posts: 1089 Location: with my love
Help Posted: 10-24-05 12:55pm
Me and my b/f been together for 7 months
and we fight alot over stupid stuff im 18
and he's 20 and we are trying to make it
last , we want a baby so we are trying for
that and its been stressful maybe that y
I havent got preg :( what are some
suggestion to help me and him out ?
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Joey9725
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Oct 2005 Posts: 24 Location: Sydney
Posted: 10-24-05 23:09pm
Do you want help getting pregent? Or do u
want help in your realtionship? Sorry bit
confused. What are you two fighting over?
Take care
jn
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Jennifer23
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Oct 2005 Posts: 76 Location: Texas
Posted: 10-25-05 17:56pm
If you two are fighting over stupid stuff
- I think the last thing y'all need to try
for is a child. Bringing a child into
this world when the relationship is on the
line is not the best thing you could do
right now. Plus, it will just make
things between you guys more difficult.
(not to mention, hurting the child in the
long run).
I think you guys need to establish
communication and figure out what's
causing all the fighting. Once you have
stabilized your relationship, then you can
move on to other things that are more
serious.
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kitty2luv
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Oct 2004 Posts: 1089 Location: with my love
Posted: 10-27-05 12:21pm
I just turned 18 and I want some free dome
from him , I live with him n his mom and
brother .. The main reason we fight is
becuz of that house , I mean him mom n
brother are lazy and dont clean up after
them self , I grew up in a clean house im
not used to living in a mess , then
sometimes he gets made cuz I say I want
sex one min. And dont want it the next ,
so he gets pissed for that , he should
just be happy he is getting it right? We
have two 8 month old puppies and he is
supposed to take them out , and I ask him
to and he's like yeah i'll do it and 10
mins later he's still sitting on his butt
so I get mad a bring them out , they are
70 lb dogs and im tiny they pull me and
everything I have a bad neck cuz of a car
accident , and he is self-fish he needs to
act more like a 20 year old and not like a
12 year old , I guess we are two different
people , oh and another thing is he wants
to get married in the next year and I dont
want to get married till things are good ,
and we can afford to get out on our own ,
he's working but only 500.00 every two
weeks and he's getting another job next
month and ive been trying to get one but
no1 will hire me .. Im stressed out ! We
need help ....
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rdy4one
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Oct 2005 Posts: 45 Location: Chicago
Posted: 10-27-05 12:35pm
With that being said, if you two can't get
along with 2 8 month old puppies, what
makes you think you two will get along
with a baby? Food for thought
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kitty2luv
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Oct 2004 Posts: 1089 Location: with my love
Posted: 10-27-05 12:57pm
That is true .......... Its hard talking
cuz we both get mad 2 eachother ,
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Liz26
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Oct 2005 Posts: 51
Posted: 10-29-05 02:23am
You definetly do not want to bring a baby
into that. It will not make you closer,
it will make things worse. Also, you are
both so young and really haven't been
together that long.
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kitty2luv
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Oct 2004 Posts: 1089 Location: with my love
Posted: 11-04-05 11:36am
Well me n my b/f been spending time apart
nm we still have our lil fights but not
big fights where I would get mad and hit
stuff .. My hand is hurt and I hurt my
foot .. But hopefully we can get over our
stupiedness n have a baby ;)
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