Joined: 10 Oct 2005 Posts: 1043 Location: Ohio, USA
Re: Ttc Without Husband's Permission Posted: 11-13-05 08:04am
nenis
wrote:
am I bad? I am 21 and
married to a wonderful man. He just
loves children and I am sure he will be a
great father. But he doesnt think we
should have any yet. I just cant wait to
be amother. Talked to her and told him
that he should take care if he doesnt want
children because I just do. What do you
think. Am I
bad?
when you said you talked to him and you
told him he should just take care if he
doesnt want children because you just do,
did you mean you want to leave him?
Is your question of being bad about
leaving him if he doesnt want children or
are you bad if you get pregnant anyway?
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Nenis
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Oct 2005 Posts: 67
Sorry For the Confusion Posted: 11-13-05 16:28pm
I meant for him to use protection if he
doesnt want any...But that was a while
ago. Right now I just want to wait for
when he is ready...We are being very
careful..
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Lilypad
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Oct 2005 Posts: 1043 Location: Ohio, USA
Posted: 11-14-05 00:43am
Ahh I see. I bet it is frustrating.
For me and my husband we kind of had the
opposite problem at first. He was
wanting to have a baby before we were even
married! It took me about a year to
decide to try.
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askara
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 May 2005 Posts: 229 Location: South East England
Posted: 11-16-05 09:27am
A chlid should be raised by parents who
are joined in ideals and all that ground
work.
If a joint decision was not taken to
create that child then its gone wrong
rigth from the start.
If hes says hes not ready.. Then hes
not.. If you push him he may flee.
