Hi, me and my boyfriend have been having
sex without using a condom, but he's been
pulling out. Last night we were doing it
and we had like 15 mins. Or so and then
my belly started hurting but I didn't told
him anything. We changed position and he
was behind me, and when we were doing it
like that my belly started hurting even
worst so I told him to stop and continue
doing it as we were. We tried again and
again it did hurt. A few days ago my
belly started hurting everytime i'm laid
down and then I get up. What is this
supposed to mean? Do I have to go check
with my gyno
please this is very important to me! I
need help.
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Forum Girl
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Oct 2003 Posts: 207 Location: Orlando, Florida
Posted: 12-06-03 22:32pm
I don't know what exactly could be causing
your pain but pain is your body's way of
telling you that something is wrong so it
would probably be in your best interest to
have it checked out.
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Darling
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Sep 2003 Posts: 875
Posted: 12-07-03 03:12am
I'd like to add that pulling out is not a
method of birth control and unless you
want to get pregnant or are on the pill I
suggest you buy a box of condoms!
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Michelle0519
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Dec 2003 Posts: 2
Posted: 12-08-03 21:43pm
First of all, by the looks of it, you must
be too young to be having sex anyway. I
honestly think you should focus on your
education first. You are going down the
wrong path with this boyfriend of yours.
If he really loves you, he wouldn't
persuade you into having sex. If you
don't care about yourself then at least
use some condoms!
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TX_momy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jan 2004 Posts: 120 Location: TX
Posted: 03-22-04 03:48am
Yes
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sammisa
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Jan 2004 Posts: 250 Location: Washington, State
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Posted: 03-22-04 07:06am
She posted a very serious question, and
all you do is condone her for being
intimate at what you believe is a young
age. What is wrong with that ?????????
I think its very serious, you should not
have that much pain in your stomach ever,
unless something is wrong !!!!.. Since
this was first posted in dec. You
probably have already been looked at.. Is
everything ok ???? Keep us posted...
Sandi
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
Posted: 03-23-04 11:25am
You should have told your boyfriend that
it hurt, dear. He probably would have
stopped, which you should have.
Sometimes your stomach hurts during sex
because of muscle spasms or the position
you are in. But it could be an
infection, he is large and you are small,
a cyst or a tipped uterus or all kinds of
things. I would definately go to the
doctor though to rule out anything
serious. And when you are at the doctor,
speak about birth control. I don't know
about texas, but here in pa, if you are
under 18, (which none of us really know
that now do we?) you can get free pap
test, b/c and condoms. And they will not
call your parents under any circumstances.
But, at least get checked out and make
sure everything is o.K, and get condoms.
Children are a blessing, but only when you
are ready for them. And hey, maybe you
want to get pregnant, we don't know and
who are we to judge? But, if you are not
ready for a baby, then use condoms.
Plus, you don't want any std's either.
There are some real nasty ones out there!
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BbyBlu0602
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Feb 2004 Posts: 822 Location: Virginia
Posted: 04-08-04 12:20pm
Your vagina, uterus and everything may be
tilted sideways. I know several people
who have that problem and they all say
they have pain in their stomach during or
after they have sex.
please this is very important to me! I
need help.