18 And Ready to Be a Mommy...please Help? Posted: 10-24-05 15:55pm
I'm 18 going on 19 and recently my
boyfriend(21) and I have been talking
about marriage and a child. We're both in
college, work, and live together. We're
not rushing because we want a life or our
child. We don't want to bring a baby in
this world and have to depend on our
parents for help. (who both his and mine
would be very supportive even if it
happend now.) everything sounds good
right??? Well since I was in my early
teens my two oldest sisters became young
mothers so my dad put me on birth control
to prevent me from making the same
mistake. His worst fear happend i'm
allergic to every kind out there. So when
it comes to sex i've always been safe.
Until now!!! My boyfriend and I have been
having unprotective sex for a year now and
nothing. Every month my period still hits
me. I've gotten to the point where I cry
thinking I may never be able to have a
child of my own. :( all my friends have
kids, which makes me sick because most of
them don't even take care of their
children. If anyone out there is going
through the same thing or anyone can help
me make my dream come true please reply.
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LUV4KYLE2007
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Oct 2005 Posts: 107 Location: PA
Posted: 10-24-05 18:58pm
Having a child is a big responsability and
if you and your partner are ready for a
child I see no harm in it at all. It took
me 12 years to get pregnant with my second
child. I am 16 weeks today...Wish you
lots of luck and just remember it'll
happen and if it dont theres always other
ways to have children.
I am also 18 going to be 19 january 26
before my little one is here..April 11th
is when he or she is due...I am going to
be gettin married also on november 3rd..To
my fiancee drew who is a lot older then I
am..Anyways age aint nothing but a
number...I know how you feel...It took us
almost eight months to get pregnant. I
thought I couldnt have kids...Til on
august 3rd I took a test and boom I was
pregnant..Just dont give up hope..Keep
trying...If you worried you cant get
pregnant go to your doctors to see what
test they can do to see if you can which
you probably can...You body probably isnt
ready...I guess that is how mine
worked...I got pregnant when my body was
ready to take on the challenges..Anyways
(srry for caps)plus I was going to wait
til I graduated june 3rd so it was a great
timing...Well hey if you need any help
feel free to im me on yahoo messager...
