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BillyBob
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Joined: 25 Oct 2005
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Girl Im Dating Is Pregnant And Its Not Mine?
Posted: 10-25-05 01:17am
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I'm dating this girl just started, and
where both fallin head over heels for each
other, shes a little skinny girl, and shes
5 months pregnant, with another mans babe,
not mine of coarse because I didn't know
her at the time. She hates the guy, but
she will not kill one of gods creatures
she will have the baby no matter what, she
hopes its a girl we find out soon, she
wants a girl because she doesn't want the
father to be in her life, and if its a boy
shes scared that he might wanna see his
kid, when she hates him! Anyway, I guess
im taking it with a grain of salt, its not
my baby but im going to sure as hell love
it like it was!
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Lilypad
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Location: Ohio, USA
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Posted: 10-25-05 01:27am
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I think that is really cool of you to be
so supportive of your girlfriends
pregnancy, since its not yours. I am
pretty sure that if she doesnt put his
name on the birth certificate he basically
wont have any rights to the baby, unless
he went to a hell of alot of trouble to
prove thru the courts-dna testing.
On the other hand be careful of taking
any legal responsability of this child,
like putting your name on the birth
certificate unless you are getting married
because if for some reason the
relationship doesnt work out then you
could be left with a 18 years of child
support payments for a child that isnt
even yours.
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justacanadiangirl
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Posted: 10-25-05 01:28am
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Ur a good man to do that. Lots of guys
won't get involved with pregnant girls.
And a lot of guys run when their girl gets
pregnant and the baby is theirs. So I
think ur doing a really good thing.
Congrats. And good luck.
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LUV4KYLE2007
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Location: PA
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Posted: 10-25-05 21:03pm
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Yeah I agree you are a very responsable
man to take care of another mans baby!
Love it like it was ur own! There should
be more men out there like you!
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michelle1981
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Posted: 10-25-05 21:55pm
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I agree with lily, vee and teresa....But I
can't help think that this baby deserves
to know who his/her father is. You said
she doesn't want the baby's father to see
him/her, why? Also, why would it make a
difference whether it's a boy or girl???
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michelle1981
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Posted: 10-25-05 21:58pm
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Sorry luv4kyle2007, I thought your name
was teresa....What is your name?
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Lilypad
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Location: Ohio, USA
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Posted: 10-26-05 06:11am
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That is a good point about the rights of
the biological father. Also just
wondering why she hates him so much. Was
he abusive, a drug user or something like
that causing her to not want him to be in
the picture???
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OaTmEaLfAiRy
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Joined: 13 Oct 2005
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Location: Iowa
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Yay For You!
Posted: 10-26-05 06:53am
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A friend of mine basically had the same
story, except that she was the mommy in
the picture. The biological father still
denies the baby, even though they had a
court-ordered paternity test proving his
involvment. He's also gotten another girl
pregnant since this happened. But my
friend and her boyfriend and her baby girl
are the cutest little family. You
wouldn't know that he isn't her biological
father because she does sort of look like
him. My friend read somewhere that you
look like who you grew up with, and I have
2 cases in which it seems to be true. He
couldn't love that baby anymore if she
were physically his.
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LUV4KYLE2007
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Posted: 10-26-05 07:01am
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Awwww thats so cute oatmeal
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mia7
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Joined: 09 Sep 2005
Posts: 378
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Yeah!
Posted: 10-26-05 11:20am
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There's a picture of my stepfather's
adoptive father that he has in a frame at
his house and everyone who sees the
picture looks at it and comments on how
much he looks like his father, and he's
not really his father!
My brother's friend was also adopted and
you could never tell. He looks a little
like both of his adoptive parents.
It's so amusing to me!
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OaTmEaLfAiRy
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Location: Iowa
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Looking Like Your "real" Parents
Posted: 10-26-05 12:41pm
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When I use the word "real" for describing
parents, I mean the ones that raised the
child.
My other case of the baby or kids looking
like who they grow up with is this little
girl and her big sister in my church. The
little girl is 2 and her sister is 4 (i
think) and everybody comments on how much
they look like "grandma". The funny part
is, she's not their biological
grandmother. Their dad is a child from
the first marriage of "grandpa". So these
kids have none of her blood in them. But
it's cute because they do sort of look
alike.
These kids have had a hard life, and now
they're being raised by grandma and
grandpa, so it's plausible.
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justacanadiangirl
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Posted: 10-26-05 14:55pm
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I know two cases of that too. My friend's
dad (actually her stepdad) has been in her
life since she was 5 and everyone always
says how she looks like him when really
that's not possible. And also these two
girls that I know are both adopted from
russia but they're not actually blood
related and they still look a lot like
each other and they look just like their
mom. It's insane! I thought they were at
least blood sisters but they're not.
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BillyBob
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Joined: 25 Oct 2005
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Posted: 10-26-05 20:22pm
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Well im am happy to info, you all that we
found at it's going to be a little girl,
she couldn't be happier, as for the birth
cert, I understand that. I could prove
its not my child that be a snap, but right
now im just so happy, I think its sucks
the sperm giver couldn't be the one with
all the joy, I really don't understand why
he just didn't stand up! Anyway, I am
very happy for her and very excited!
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michelle1981
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Posted: 10-26-05 20:42pm
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Well....Congrats on the little girl!
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Lilypad
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Joined: 10 Oct 2005
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Location: Ohio, USA
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Posted: 10-27-05 01:48am
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Congratulations to you! She is so lucky
to have you. Any baby names yet???
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jma1
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Joined: 21 Oct 2005
Posts: 85
Location: Alabama
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Posted: 10-27-05 08:53am
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Congratulations billybob! I admire such
men like you. I hope you two workout, you
seem like you love her and that baby alot.
We need more in this world like you!
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