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mumof2
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Feb 2004 Posts: 307 Location: Australia
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Test For Wanna Be Young Mums
Posted: 10-25-05 07:07am
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There have been a few posts on here from
children ( and yes thats what you are if
your mum and dad still buy your food and
pay your bills) who want to have
babies............ Now for those of us
who already have or are going to have
children I am not having a go at
you......... We are responcible for our
children and we do a damn good job of
raising them, but really,,, a twelve year
old wanyting a baby??????? So here is a
question to test if those young people who
say they want a baby and they would look
after it and they know what they need to
do to keep a baby alive really know what
they are talking about..................
I'll tell you the answer once some one
replies......... And id love to know what
the one's who are deliberatly trying but
still rely on mum and dad to support them
answer so please leave your age.........
Your on a plane with your baby, suddenly
the engines stop, oxygyn levels drop and
the air masks come down, who gets the mask
first?You or your
baby???????????????????????????????
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ellie_pl
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Jun 2005 Posts: 24
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Test
Posted: 10-25-05 07:59am
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Kourtney08
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 May 2004 Posts: 937 Location: Alaska
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Posted: 10-25-05 09:16am
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Actually, as a travel agents daughter, I
know that they tell you to put the oxygen
mask on yourself, before helping anyone
else. I find that caca though, and if my
daughter was on a plane with me and that
happend, she'd most likely be the first to
get oxygen.
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justacanadiangirl
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Nov 2004 Posts: 1803
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Posted: 10-25-05 12:15pm
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Ur supposed to give urself oxygen first so
u can help the others ur with. What use
are u to the baby if u can't breathe?
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Happiness03
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Jul 2005 Posts: 333
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Posted: 10-25-05 12:43pm
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Yes, in the video they show you before you
take off, it specifically states to always
put the mask on yourself first, and then
help with other people. I would think
that out of natural, human instict, anyone
who loves their baby more than anything in
the world would get thier baby first.
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Kourtney08
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 May 2004 Posts: 937 Location: Alaska
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Posted: 10-25-05 14:22pm
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I would, I know I can hold my breath
longer then my child can.
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ellie_pl
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Jun 2005 Posts: 24
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I'd Put It On My Kid 1st Amnyway
Posted: 10-25-05 15:15pm
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ellie_pl
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Jun 2005 Posts: 24
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I'd Put It On My Kid 1st Amnyway
Posted: 10-25-05 15:16pm
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DaliciaLynn
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Jul 2005 Posts: 2322 Location: Missouri
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Posted: 10-25-05 15:47pm
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That question is common sense, a child has
common sense on the same level that people
our age do, they just don't use it
properly.
I think you need to worry about yourself
instead of other people, because no matter
what you say if a child wants a kid
they're gonna have one regardless what
people on the internet have to say.
They'll end up having one & have to
learn for themselves, so quit waisting
your time and everyone quit posting stupid
posts like this.
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jma1
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Oct 2005 Posts: 85 Location: Alabama
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Posted: 10-26-05 00:29am
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Its only stupid to people that got knocked
up themselves. Yes you may be right;if
they want a child bad enough, they will
have one. You are wrong though, someone
with really good advice except for yours
dalicialynn may actually get through to
some of these girls and guys. If they
didn't want help they wanted be asking for
it.
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OaTmEaLfAiRy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Oct 2005 Posts: 192 Location: Iowa
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Wanting a Baby?
Posted: 10-26-05 12:58pm
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I think a better way to explain it would
be that a baby is not a puppy. It's not
about feeding it, walking it, and cleaning
up it's piddle. This is for 18 long, long
years. I admit i've wanted a baby since I
was 13, but I also have the common sense
to know that i'm not ready for one. For
all those people out there who are like,
"get a doll", shut up already! It's not
the same thing, the better suggestion
would be to get a babysitting job.
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DaliciaLynn
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Jul 2005 Posts: 2322 Location: Missouri
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Posted: 10-26-05 14:57pm
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So you think because a child comes on here
saying they want a baby is asking for
help? It's not.
Oatmealfairy, you think it ends when their
18? It doesn't, kids are forever and when
I say forever I mean forever. My sister
is 19 & I have a brother who is 21,
you think just because they are over 18
they just leave & part from their
parents? Think again lol. I'm only 17
and am the only one so far to start my own
life.
A person who comes on here who is 11 &
12 saying how much they want a baby just
needs their ass beat, that's all there is
to it. Young girls are so retarded these
days, all they need is a good beating to
knock some sense into their little heads.
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OaTmEaLfAiRy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Oct 2005 Posts: 192 Location: Iowa
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Posted: 10-26-05 15:14pm
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| dalicialynn
wrote: | so you think because a child
comes on here saying they want a baby is
asking for help? It's not.
Oatmealfairy, you think it ends when their
18? It doesn't, kids are forever and
when I say forever I mean forever.
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the hard part, being responsible for the
child's well-being. After they're 18, if
you don't like them, you can kick their
butts out. But you don't have to give up
your dreams and money for them after that.
I don't doubt that it continues after 18
years, but most of the reasons that
teenagers have for not wanting a baby, are
usually gone by the time the kid turns 18.
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DaliciaLynn
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Jul 2005 Posts: 2322 Location: Missouri
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Posted: 10-26-05 18:21pm
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You don't have to give up your dreams
before they're 18 either, everyone thinks
that just because you have a baby means
you have to give up school & what you
wanna make out of life but it's not
true.
I'm pregnant, live on my own & am
about to graduate & go off for
college.
I'm only 17.
You choose what you want to make out of
yourself, I did.
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OaTmEaLfAiRy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Oct 2005 Posts: 192 Location: Iowa
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Giving Up Stuff
Posted: 10-26-05 20:50pm
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But generally, if a girl dreams of being a
world famous dancer. She's not going to
get there by being pregnant. Like right
now I think my sister is planning to go
off to cali for college and do whatever
she wants. Those are her "dreams". But
if she keeps this baby, she'll probably
have to stay nearby for support and won't
be able to do whatever she wants.
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DaliciaLynn
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Jul 2005 Posts: 2322 Location: Missouri
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Posted: 10-26-05 22:06pm
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The only way she won't be able to do
anything she wants is because people
telling her she can't is getting bashed
into her head over & over again, a lot
of girls get an abortion just for the fact
that it's a myth young girls who have
babies make nothing out of themselves.
I was a model before I got pregnant, that
was my dream, everyone told me I wouldnt
be able to do it anymore because i'd be
fat. I'm 5 months pregnant now & am
doing commercial pregnancy photography.
You can still have your dream, but
experience more out of it. All you have
to do is set your mind to it & do what
you think is best, and not what everyone
else thinks.
But then again i'm not a child. I don't
count on my parents when its my
responsibility, which is what a child
usually does. I live on my own, I have a
car, a job & go to school everyday.
Know why?
Because I know I can do it. I don't need
anyone else to tell me differently.
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poohbear101
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Nov 2004 Posts: 383
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Posted: 10-26-05 22:38pm
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I actually have to agree with dalicialynn.
Just because you have a baby doesn't mean
you have to give up all your dreams. You
just have to compromise a little bit.
After you have your child it becomes your
number 1 priority, but continuing on with
your life will not only benefit you but
your child as well. I had a friend who
got pregnant at 16 and everyone told her
that she'd have to rearrange her life and
put off going to university because of the
baby, but because she knew she could do it
she did. She graduated from highschool on
time, moved away from home to go to uni
and worked all while taking care of her
child. She now has a very promising
future in a career she loves and she did
it all while people where telling her it
wasn't possible. She just had to find
ways that fit her new life, like the uni
she went to had a daycare program so she
could attend all her classes and not have
to worry about babysitters.
It's not impossible to have a life when
you have a baby, it's just a little harder
than it would have been if it had only
been you.
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DaliciaLynn
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Jul 2005 Posts: 2322 Location: Missouri
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mumof2
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Feb 2004 Posts: 307 Location: Australia
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Posted: 10-31-05 04:52am
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The answer is you...... You get the air
first, than your baby....... If you pass
out who's going to hold the bag to the
babies face? So in thinking about
yourself first you may save your
baby........ If u die so does she.
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