Joined: 19 Sep 2005 Posts: 288 Location: Amherst VA
No Way...i Can't Believe This!! Posted: 10-25-05 15:13pm
I'm so freaking out right now and I really
need to vent!! Okay, for those of you
who do not know my story, I will tell you.
After knowing my boyfriend (now
husband) for little over a week, we began
to have protected sex (with a condom).
Well, one night we didn't have a condom
and decided to use the "pull out" method.
I thought nothing of this because (not
to sound like a promiscuous person) but
prior to meeting my husband I stupidly had
sex with other guys unprotected without
even using the pull out menthod and never
became pregnant. Well, a few weeks
later I started having bad cramps along
with spotting, I went to the hospital and
found out I was pregnant but
miscarriaging. We were very sad for the
lose of our un born child but at the same
time a little relived, seeing as though we
were not ready for children. After the
miscarriage, I got on the pill (ovcon35).
Well, the pill must not have worked
correctly becasue I then got pregnant with
my son... Who is now 3 months. So,
needless to say it doesn't take much for
my husband and I to make a baby. Since
our son was been born, we have been very
careful, always using condoms. Now,
here is what I am freaking out about...It
is also a little embarrasing. Last
night my husband and I were having sex and
it had lasted probably about an hour
before he came (so the condom was a little
worn out.). When he was in the middle
of cumming, (i was on top) the condom
slipped off! The condom was inside of
me...And so was lots of his cum. I
started freaking out!! I went and peed
(after pulling the condom out) and got
right into the bathtub trying to get as
much of it (cum) out as possible. The
only reason I am so scared is because like
I said, I get pregnant very easily...And
we can not have another baby right now.
Sorry this was so long..I'm just scared.
Also, this may just be all in my head,
but I was having light period like cramps
all morning this morning (my period just
ended about 6 days ago.) i'd really
appreciate any advice of any kind, and
support.
Thanks so much,
teresa
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lisaboo
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Sep 2005 Posts: 108 Location: colorado
Posted: 10-25-05 17:10pm
I wouldn't worry right now if I were you.
The odds of you feeling the symtoms of
pregnancy 12 hours later are, well I have
never heard of them. The sperm haven't
even traveled all the way through the
uterus yet. So no worrys right now.
Chill for a few weeks. Are you close to
your ovulation or period or do you know?
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wife2jason_mom2ryley
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Sep 2005 Posts: 288 Location: Amherst VA
Posted: 10-25-05 17:38pm
Thanks so much for your reply lisa!! My
period just ended about 6 days ago...And
i'm not sure when I ovulate!?!? I figured
the cramps were just all in my head.
Thanks again so much for replying...It's
nice to have someone to talk to about
this.
Teresa
how do I know when I am ovulating??
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LUV4KYLE2007
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Oct 2005 Posts: 107 Location: PA
Posted: 10-25-05 20:13pm
Wait a few weeks and then if you dont get
ur period then I would test but try not to
stress right now. You should ovulate
around nov 2nd
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wife2jason_mom2ryley
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Sep 2005 Posts: 288 Location: Amherst VA
Posted: 10-31-05 15:20pm
Thanks for all the advice and support
ladies. To tell the truth, I haven't even
really been thinking much about it. If my
period doesn't come around the 10th of
november....Then i'll start worrying and
take a test. Thanks again so much to all
of you!!!
