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wife2jason_mom2ryley

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No Way...i Can't Believe This!!
Posted: 10-25-05 15:13pm

I'm so freaking out right now and I really need to vent!! Okay, for those of you who do not know my story, I will tell you. After knowing my boyfriend (now husband) for little over a week, we began to have protected sex (with a condom). Well, one night we didn't have a condom and decided to use the "pull out" method. I thought nothing of this because (not to sound like a promiscuous person) but prior to meeting my husband I stupidly had sex with other guys unprotected without even using the pull out menthod and never became pregnant. Well, a few weeks later I started having bad cramps along with spotting, I went to the hospital and found out I was pregnant but miscarriaging. We were very sad for the lose of our un born child but at the same time a little relived, seeing as though we were not ready for children. After the miscarriage, I got on the pill (ovcon35). Well, the pill must not have worked correctly becasue I then got pregnant with my son... Who is now 3 months. So, needless to say it doesn't take much for my husband and I to make a baby. Since our son was been born, we have been very careful, always using condoms. Now, here is what I am freaking out about...It is also a little embarrasing. Last night my husband and I were having sex and it had lasted probably about an hour before he came (so the condom was a little worn out.). When he was in the middle of cumming, (i was on top) the condom slipped off! The condom was inside of me...And so was lots of his cum. I started freaking out!! I went and peed (after pulling the condom out) and got right into the bathtub trying to get as much of it (cum) out as possible. The only reason I am so scared is because like I said, I get pregnant very easily...And we can not have another baby right now. Sorry this was so long..I'm just scared. Also, this may just be all in my head, but I was having light period like cramps all morning this morning (my period just ended about 6 days ago.) i'd really appreciate any advice of any kind, and support.



Thanks so much,

teresa
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lisaboo

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Joined: 15 Sep 2005
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Posted: 10-25-05 17:10pm

I wouldn't worry right now if I were you. The odds of you feeling the symtoms of pregnancy 12 hours later are, well I have never heard of them. The sperm haven't even traveled all the way through the uterus yet. So no worrys right now. Chill for a few weeks. Are you close to your ovulation or period or do you know?
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wife2jason_mom2ryley

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Joined: 19 Sep 2005
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Location: Amherst VA

Posted: 10-25-05 17:38pm

Thanks so much for your reply lisa!! My period just ended about 6 days ago...And i'm not sure when I ovulate!?!? I figured the cramps were just all in my head. Thanks again so much for replying...It's nice to have someone to talk to about this.

Teresa

how do I know when I am ovulating??
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LUV4KYLE2007

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Joined: 23 Oct 2005
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Posted: 10-25-05 20:13pm

Wait a few weeks and then if you dont get ur period then I would test but try not to stress right now. You should ovulate around nov 2nd
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wife2jason_mom2ryley

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Joined: 19 Sep 2005
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Location: Amherst VA

Posted: 10-31-05 15:20pm

Thanks for all the advice and support ladies. To tell the truth, I haven't even really been thinking much about it. If my period doesn't come around the 10th of november....Then i'll start worrying and take a test. Thanks again so much to all of you!!!

Teresa
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