Do You Think You Are Pregnant? Posted: 10-26-05 00:10am
I do not understand why young ladies like
yourself are getting pregnant. Everything
in your life changes, everything. I am
married and I have a 17 month old and it
is the best thing that could ever happen
to me, but really who will be taking care
of these babies. Are you out of school?
Do you have a job? Do you have your own
car? Are you married? Is the father
going to be around? Do you have a home (
not your moms or grandmas). Do you
understand how tough it is, how
sacrificing you will become to this child.
You have so much more of a life left.
Mature young adults would never think
about getting pregnant at such a young age
because there are too many
responsibilities involved. Mature adults
wouldn't be having unprotected sex, it is
unsafe. Girls just think if this
pregnancy test would be an aids test. You
would be horrified, scared and alone.
Dont play with your life like this. If
you don't take care of yourself and
protect yourself he sure wont. Please be
wise!
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janae1805
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Oct 2005 Posts: 4 Location: Indiana
Posted: 10-29-05 09:09am
Amen
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Jennie25
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Oct 2005 Posts: 418 Location: Ontario
Posted: 11-01-05 16:46pm
Its not that I don't agree with you. Just
some of us took precautions and
still..Here we are. I was on birth
control, but things can still go wrong.
We know how are its going to be (well,
atleast I do..Sort of). Life isn't always
beautiful, but all we can do is our best
and hope for the support and understanding
of others. Babies are miracles. They
aren't mistakes just bad timing.
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Jennie25
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Oct 2005 Posts: 418 Location: Ontario
Posted: 11-01-05 16:48pm
..I meant to say "how hard" not how
are...Just to clarify
the only reason young girls usually dont
finish school & etc, is because they
think they can't because of what other
people tell them.
"your life is ruined"
bullsh*t my life is ruined, I have it
better than most people do & it's all
because of my own choices.
How easy is that? So freakin' easy.
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babyrae
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2004 Posts: 2957 Location: Manitoba, Canada
Posted: 11-02-05 08:49am
I know why some girls dont finish school..
Some dont have money for daycare and some
have to work.. But the system up here
makes it so that girls can afford to put
their kids in daycare and even have a
part-time job while going to school. Tho
I see some girls use it as an excuse not
to go to excuse and it saddens me to see
they think they'll be by just fine (tho
some might) but hardly many will.
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diamondsz
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Oct 2005 Posts: 3173 Location: , Candyland-Canada
Thanks: 73
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Posted: 11-02-05 09:08am
I have to agree with dalicialynn
everything you do is based on choices
you make, either your lazy and live off
mom and dad or you work hard and
accomplish great things. I was in the
same boat as her and im living really well
but that was the choice I made cause I
wanted my child to have everything...
I give credit to dalicialynn and others
who are able to succeed its not easy but
just keep pushing and you will make it!!
You can still go to school, im still doing
my school because I transfered from a
french school to an english school.
Everything you do in life is made by your
choices and we learn from doing the wrong
thing but children are beautiful and im
sick of people saying how hard they are
cause I wouldnt be having # 2 if it was
that bad!!!
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