Joined: 29 Sep 2005 Posts: 59 Location: vic australia
the Boyfriend Is Getting Upset Posted: 10-26-05 02:36am
Right here the deal. I been hanging out
with this chick (just a friend) the past
few weeks and we been having a blast like
off tree rave stile, just being the loony
that we are. Like the kind of people you
see down the street that are just so happy
they talk to anyone and everyone yeah.
But here is the problem. Her boyfriend (a
mate of me also) he thinks that I am
trying to crack on to her. But I told him
many many times that I just like hanging
out with her and I don't think of her in
that way. But he don't belive. Like I
don't want to lose him as a mate but I
have a blast hanging with her.
If anyone got some tips for me. Cheers.
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justacanadiangirl
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Nov 2004 Posts: 1803
Posted: 10-27-05 00:49am
I think u just have to deal with it and
know that ur right and he's just upset
over nothing. Sometimes I know my bf gets
jealous when I go out with other guys.
Like sometimes i'll mention that i'm going
out for coffee or something with an old
male friend of mine and he won't say he's
jealous but he always tenses up when I
mention anything like that. Some guys are
just naturally jealous like that...
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hellburn
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Sep 2005 Posts: 59 Location: vic australia
Posted: 10-27-05 01:19am
Thats half the problem. Been doing that
and he doesn't want to talk about it. And
his more of a brother then a mate. We
been friends of going on 8 years. I told
him his being a child about it and that I
don't look at her in that way, but he
doesn't listen.
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~baby~g~
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Jul 2005 Posts: 221 Location: Ohio
Posted: 10-28-05 16:27pm
Hun, my bf is the same way! Whenever I
mention being around anybody he always
questions who it is- guy or girl. It's
just a guy thing I suppose & guys
don't want another guy getting 2 close to
their girl because maybe their scared they
will take them away from him. If that
makes since?? Try hanging out with both
of them together if you haven't already.
Mention all 3 of you going out to dinner
& a movie or something. This could
show her bf that you & the lady are
just having fun together...
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hellburn
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Sep 2005 Posts: 59 Location: vic australia
Posted: 10-30-05 00:44am
Not working. We(me, her and him) hang
out yesterday. Went cruzing, watched a
movie, went down the street. And in the
end he just got more pissed. I think it
mite be that we just go insane and he is
the quiet kind of person and he just
pissed because me and sara have our own
little world that we go into and party non
stop and he is to scare to be a loony like
us. Me and sara went down the street in
our pj's I had horny devil pj'son and she
had the powerpuff girls. And had the
bear feet slippers on. And we did just
for a laught. But he just walked a long
looking sad behind us like we tried to
cheer him up and get him to join in but he
wouldn't.
Joined: 29 Oct 2005 Posts: 52 Location: UK, Liverpool
Posted: 10-30-05 07:28am
Tell her about it? And let him know.
This seems normal, he is probberly jealous
and thinks your getting away with her, try
not touching her, hugging her infrount of
him.
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Galodis
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Sep 2005 Posts: 17
Posted: 10-30-05 22:54pm
Well id be a be pissed if my gf started
hangin out with another guy. U gota think
from his point of view, how he is feeling.
Guys get jealous ez and its probly ez to
loose a friend over something like this.
Happened to me and my friend.
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hellburn
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Sep 2005 Posts: 59 Location: vic australia
Posted: 10-31-05 23:05pm
Well I think we have fixed the problem.
He has got it through his head that we
just friends that go a bit loopy when we
hang out. But I think he is just a tinty
bit pissed still. Not sure. Keep you's
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