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redheadonfire212

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Possibly Pregnant And Not With the Guy Nemore!!!
Posted: 10-26-05 08:27am

:oops: ok this is kind of hard to admit, but I think I might be pregnant... Im pretty nervous! I've only had this scare once before (but the guy lied to me and said that I had to be- apparently he was trying to scare me into not breaking up with him... My period was just late)... Now this month is almost over and I still havent got my period. My friend (as a joke) said that I should see if im pregnant... I laughed about it at first but then I realized- after my period was this late- that maybe I was. I used protection when I did it... Me and the guy were together for a loong time! I have some symptoms but im not looking into it too much, but if I am, im not with the guy anymore... We still love each other but it just wasnt working for us, we both had too much on our plates... If I am I wont have an abortion, im completely against that stuff... I took the responsibilty of sex into my life so why punish someone that is wasnt its fault... The guy kind of knows that I might be, he says he'll support me through it all, he got a job and everything... I just dont know what to do... How would I tell his parents and mine???
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henrysbabygirl08

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Joined: 27 Oct 2005
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Posted: 10-28-05 17:53pm

Hey sweetie im kinda in ur situatioin im 15 and I think I am most likely pregnant my boyfriend and me love each other but all we ever do is fight and it sucks but we promised we would never break up although my boyfriend is 19 I havent told my parents yet cause im scared that they'll try and put henry in jail its great that ur baby daddy (if prego) says he'll support u and im so glad he actually got a job mine is still a home guy any advice for me? If u ever need to talk just write me or im me ill be there.........Good luck sweetie!
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poohbear101

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Joined: 30 Nov 2004
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Posted: 10-28-05 21:49pm

First off i'd find out for sure or not if you're pregnant before saying anything to your parents. You don't want them to be worried and possibily angry for nothing. You need to buy a hpt. Have your bf, or ex-bf, there with you when you take it if you want and if it's positive then tell the parents. I wasn't going to tell my mom until I had been to the doctors, even though my test came out positive, but she knew something was up without me having to say anything. Even though i'm almost 21 I thought she'd be pissed but she took it very well and is excited about it. Just take it one step at a time and find out for sure or not.
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redheadonfire212

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Joined: 26 Oct 2005
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Posted: 10-29-05 12:17pm

Well im glad someone actually took the time to reply to my post. I still havent got my period... Kind of freaky, but my ex (who asked me out yesterday... But im not sure if he was actually asking so I didnt say yes/no), is eager for me to actually be pregnant!!!

To henrysbabygirl08:
im so glad that I have someone in my boat thats my age that I can talk to... It suxx that ur parents r like that... My mom is too! But my ex is my age... I want to go and take the test but im sooo scared to! From all the signs I think I am but I dont want to take it... Not that I wouldnt be excited if I was, I dont plan on abortion... If you take the test and you are you can e-mail me... :d its: persian_strawberrie171@hotmail.Com< /a>

to poohbear101:
i dont plan on telling my parents anything at all... Even if I am... I will go to my doctor up until I am 4/5 months... Then i'll tell them... My mother would try to force an abortion on me... Knowing her she'd try to sedate me and do it herself! (jk) but she had my bro at 16 and she says it was sooooo hard. I think thats just because she didnt look at it as a challenge that she could overcome... Im very excited for you that you're pregnant... If I got pregnant at 21 my mom wouldnt be mad... As long as I had a stable lifestyle... So anyway congrats to you!!!
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