to Oatmealfairy And the Others That Thought I Was Judging Posted: 10-26-05 13:31pm
I am not preaching to the already
pregnant, if you would see oatmealfairy
that I also posted that note as a topic.
If people aren't on their own and making
it by themselves I don't see why they want
to get pregnant. Why do you want to start
a family in your familys home. That
doesn't make sense to me. Who wants their
mom all in their business and still having
a say so in their lives if they have their
own to care for now. I am not judging
anyone, I didn't say one that they are
going to hell and they are low worthless
people! I am trying to get through to
some of these stubborn girls. I used to
be one of them girls, wanting a baby
because I had a void in my life, but that
doesn't mean I wasn't smart enough to look
at the consequences. Luckily I had
someone there to preach to me. I am not
judgmental at all! I care for people and
look to help anyone I can. I dont
thinkthat sitting outside of an abotion
clinic would do anything for the girls
that are killing their unborn, what I was
saying is real stuff that happens.
Oatmealfairy if you have children then you
will know what I mean when I say it is
self-sacrificing!
Just keep in mind jma1, not all teens
purposely get pregnant.
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jma1
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Oct 2005 Posts: 85 Location: Alabama
Posted: 10-27-05 22:35pm
You are right some don't want to get
pregnant. My reason for writing this was
because I seen a 15 year old and a 13 year
writing and saying they want to get
pregnant. If it doesn't apply to
you-don't get defensive (when I say you I
am not meaning anyone person in
particular). Anyone that decides to have
sex young or old should know that if you
are having sex there is always a
possibilty that you could get pregnant.
They only 100% birth control is
abstinence. If these teens don't want a
child-dont have sex! We focus so much on
pregnancy-think also about stds! The same
rule applies. Nothing is
100%!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
I agree with you that nothing is 100%
except abstinence....However we, as
females, take that chance anytime we have
sex, protected or not!
In my opinion(i'm sure i'll get slack for
this), most girls aren't emotionally ready
to have sex the first time they do...I
know I wasn't.
So maybe instead of pointing out the
obvious(sex can lead to pregnancy) we
should support and applaud these young
girls for taking on the
responsibility.....I do!
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jma1
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Oct 2005 Posts: 85 Location: Alabama
Posted: 10-28-05 10:26am
I do agree with you on that. As a mother
I understand how hard it is to be one. I
do admire these girls for not giving up
and having abortions. I am proud of them
for standing up for they are
respnsibilties. I understand stuff
happens, but when I am reading mail from
kids talking about getting pregnant I was
mad. These aren't accidents happening,
these are girls trying to get pregnant.
They have no idea what it takes to be a
good mother. Someone posted that it
didn't matter if you didn't have money and
a job and the things needed in life all
you need is love. I was trying to tell
them that love will not feed your kid and
it want house your child neither. Young
girls are so stupid sometimes.
