I am 17, my boyfriend is 26 and we have
been dating almost a year. We stopped
using condoms about 3 months into our
relationship and havent had but one scare
which was when we did use a condom and it
broke. He has 4 kids and says he dont
want anymore. But, about 2 and a half
weeks ago we had sex and when he pulled
out he said he didnt cum. We were in a
weird situation so we didnt finish. Then
he was having a conversation with a friend
and he said that he had one more kid on
the way and referred to me being its
mother. He knows I dont want kids yet.
Now again about a week ago we had sex
unprotected and the same thing happened,
he said he didnt get his. But 15 mins
later he "joked" with me and said he
really did, inside of me. Now its a day
before my period and it will be messed up
if he did this on purpose. Whats a dumb
girl to do?
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~baby~g~
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Jul 2005 Posts: 221 Location: Ohio
Posted: 10-28-05 16:17pm
Hmm, it sounds like he's not really
telling you whats going on sweetie. If
he's telling his friends one thing but
telling you he didn't cum, then it sounds
to me as if he's lying. Confront him
about it. If he is lying & your are
pregnant then well that's your decision
what you do, not his..Get away from him
also if he's lying. Good luck! <33
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henrysbabygirl08
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Oct 2005 Posts: 33 Location: Mo
Posted: 10-28-05 16:59pm
Honey he is lying to you it sounds to me
that he is trying to get u pregnant but
not letting u know and if thats the case
dump him he aint worth the pain so
confront him and hope he has a good
explanation
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SadiyahBaby
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Oct 2005 Posts: 27
Posted: 10-28-05 18:39pm
I'm confused why would he try to get you
pregnant.... When he told you he didn't
want anymore kids.... He sounds kinda on
the physco side to me... I never heard of
a guy so happy to tell his friends, about
the fact he got a girl pregnant.....I can
this get anymore weird...... :?
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janae1805
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Oct 2005 Posts: 4 Location: Indiana
Posted: 10-29-05 09:00am
Yeah I think the same as all of u and its
kinda messed up. Well not kinda. But I
dont think he told his friend in that
manner, mind u his ex girlfriend and
brother were standing right there too when
he said it. I dont know but I went and
got a pregnancy test yesterday. It was
negative but it might be too early to
tell. It could also be the worrying im
doing. Oh yeah about confronting him...
I called him and asked him last night if
he got his nut either time and he asked
"why have u been freaking some1 else" I
told him to just answer the question and
then he said " I have no minutes call me
later I love u". So I never got my
answer but I will be callin him again
today. Thanks for your help
