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dah34

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We Want to Have a Baby
Posted: 10-29-05 02:23am

I am 18 my girlfriend is 17

she is about to move out of the house and we already plan to get an apartment together.

She has a ton of money in an account because she was raped when she was younger and got a few million dollars out of the civil suit.

I have a stable income (making $15 an hour as a karate instructor. Which btw I work exclusively with children ages 3-11. And I have been doing it for over 4 years.) and I work a little under 40 hours a week.

Neither of us are stupid (i scored a 1530 on the sat) I recently dropped out of stanford because I felt like college just wasn't for me.

We have been talking about it a long time and we want to get married and have one.

What do you guys think?
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henrysbabygirl08

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Posted: 10-29-05 07:26am

Awwwwwww....... Thats so sweet well I say if ur both ready for the commitment go for it...Good luck
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lil_blaze2004

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Posted: 10-29-05 08:31am

If you guys think you are ready, go for it. Money is not everything though and even though you work with children having one of your own is very different. It takes tons of patience and love. Good luck.
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chrissy721

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Posted: 10-29-05 09:52am

Yea, good luck. College isn't something that's a must. Alot of people didn't go to college where i'm from and we are all doing okay. My husband and I both have good jobs and neither of us went to college, so don't let that bother you. :) as long as you care for that baby 100 percent you will be fine. Give it all your love and support. Money is really important for the physical side of it, but love and support is more important.
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babyrae

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Posted: 10-29-05 12:06pm

Well financial wise u do seem set and u do seem to have everything thought out. I will only say one thing. Just be sure that you to plan to be together and that you're sure this is what you want. And even tho she has money in the bank, make sure she can get a stable job in case something ever happens. Its always good to have an education to fall back on! Other than that, good luck!
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DaliciaLynn

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Posted: 10-29-05 15:43pm

Go for it.
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Happiness03

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Posted: 10-29-05 21:17pm

I hope the best for you two. Sounds like you have everything planned out. Just be sure to set aside a budget! Good luck!
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mum2bubba

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Posted: 10-29-05 22:01pm

If you're both ready and in a stable relationship then I say go for it, I hope everything goes well for you both.
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kalibethsmommie

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Posted: 10-30-05 11:52am

I say go for it. Starting a family is the most wonderful thing a couple can do.
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