Joined: 30 Oct 2005 Posts: 9 Location: New England
How Do I Tell Him?! Posted: 10-30-05 07:58am
My boyfriend and I have been together for
3 years. We we first got together he
told me in a couple of years he wanted
children. He said he wanted them then
too. At that time I didn't so I :cry:
shamefully shot his idea down. Now 2
years later I am ready.
How can I tell him about this. I feel
like I might scare him for some reason.
Is it normal that he doesn't want to
marry? He said it just complicates but
then why would he want a baby?
Please, any feedback would be more than
welcomed.
Thank you, kk
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Lilypad
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Oct 2005 Posts: 1043 Location: Ohio, USA
Posted: 11-24-05 03:36am
Just my opinion so dont take offense but
if he doesnt want to get married then
maybe he just doesnt want to marry you...I
think you deserve someone who cant wait to
get married to you.
I was in a similar situation with someone,
he didnt want to get married and I was
ready... It didnt work out so I am so
glad I didnt have children with him. Now
I am married to someone so wonderful I
thought it wasnt possible for someone this
great to exist.
Dont rush into having a baby with someone
who doesnt want to commit.
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LITTLE LISA
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Nov 2005 Posts: 30 Location: CROYDON, SURREY, UK
Posted: 11-24-05 04:37am
Introduce the idea again of having
children slowly into conversations
