Joined: 30 Oct 2005 Posts: 9 Location: New England
How Do I Tell Him? Posted: 10-30-05 08:03am
My boyfriend and I have been together for
3 years. We we first got together he told
me in a couple of years he wanted
children. He said he wanted them then
too. At that time I didn't so I :cry:
shamefully shot his idea down. Now 2
years later I am ready.
How can I tell him about this. I feel
like I might scare him for some reason.
Is it normal that he doesn't want to
marry? He said it just complicates but
then why would he want a baby?
Please, any feedback would be more than
welcomed.
Thank you, kk
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Sarah1978
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Sep 2005 Posts: 123 Location: NZ
Posted: 10-30-05 22:58pm
It sounds like yous need to sit down and
have a good old heart to heart. Just tell
him how you are feeling and that you would
like to start a family if/when he is ready
too. He deserves to know what you want
and he needs to tell you what he want
aswell
not everyone needs to be married. Some
people don't beleive that they need a
piece of paper to say they love each
other. Were his parents married? And if
so are they still happily together?
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SadMommy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Sep 2005 Posts: 194 Location: California
Posted: 10-31-05 18:24pm
Yup, you should really talk to him about
everything. It is good to communicate
even if you don't agree on things. I
don't think it is normal for him not to
wanna get married but to wanna have a
baby. It is a commitment both ways?????
I would be confused also girl........
Good luck,
t~
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Lilypad
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Oct 2005 Posts: 1043 Location: Ohio, USA
Posted: 11-02-05 00:38am
About the readly or rather not ready for
marraige thing may I ask how old you guys
are??
