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pinkdragoneye
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Joined: 30 Oct 2005
Posts: 32
Location: surrey
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I'm So Scared
Posted: 10-30-05 13:21pm
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Me and my boyfriend have been trying for a
baby for about 3-4 months but I am not
getting pregnant.. I think I could have
stds in which case I have had them for
over a year and I could be infertile.. My
vagina hurts internally during sex then
after and during urination (urination
straight after sex) my vagina really
burns.. Please could someone help me with
whats wrong because i'm so scared.. Thank
you
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a_mashburn
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Location: Alabama
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Posted: 10-31-05 15:48pm
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I would go to the doctor std's is a very
serious matter and you need to be treated
and get the care that you need. With
medicine that we have today if you did
have std's then you could still have a
baby and a safe pregnancy. Plus keep
yourself safe in the process.
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Liz26
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Posts: 51
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Posted: 10-31-05 15:54pm
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Do you plan on marrying this guy? If not,
it isn't a very good idea to be trying to
have a baby with him. You need to go to
the doctor if you think that you have
std's.
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pinkdragoneye
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Location: surrey
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Posted: 11-01-05 08:55am
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Yes I love this bloke and yes we will be
getting maried.. It wasn't him I caught
them from if I do have them it was my ex
boyfriend
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19mommy
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Posted: 11-01-05 09:56am
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| pinkdragoneye
wrote: | | yes I love this bloke and
yes we will be getting maried.. It
wasn't him I caught them from if I do have
them it was my ex
boyfriend |
i feel that you should have went to a doc.
Asap because now you possibly have
infected your bf. And also are you 100%
sure it was from your ex rather than your
current bf? Because std's dont have an
accuracy date n they cant be tested for
who gave it to u. I hope you dont have
one, and I hope you do get your baby.
Also it could be that your bodies arent
ready yet. How old are you
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pinkdragoneye
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Posted: 11-01-05 11:04am
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Im 17 he is 16.. He was a virgin before
he got with my and my ex boyfriend slept
around alot.. I am making a docters
appointment as soon as I can
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19mommy
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Posted: 11-01-05 11:08am
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| pinkdragoneye
wrote: | | im 17 he is 16.. He was a
virgin before he got with my and my ex
boyfriend slept around alot.. I am
making a docters appointment as soon as I
can |
oh kay im sorry for assuming. But your
pains could be from a bladder infection,
or a ovarian cyst (that could be a reason
you cant get pregnant) because it could be
blocking your fallopian tubes. But are
you both sure you can handle the
finiancial, and emotional costs of having
a child??? And unless your relationship
is really strong, it may not last if your
pregnant, your hormones may make you guys
fight alot! But do get the test asap. If
it comes up negative, get a pap smear and
an ultrasound and see if the doc can
determine why your having pains. :d
good luck and best wishes to u
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pinkdragoneye
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Posted: 11-01-05 11:15am
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Me and my boyfriend never did oral before
sex.. The last like 5 times we have done
it I have pretty much stopped burning it's
really strange.. I'm still going to see
my docter though.. And yeah were strong
were cope and me and my boyfriend have
been through so much so many fights yet
were meant to be you know yeah were both
scared that a baby could put alot of
stress on us but we both want this.. We
have only been trying for just over 2
months so alot of time yet
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pinkdragoneye
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Posted: 11-01-05 11:16am
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Me and my boyfriend never did oral before
sex.. The last like 5 times we have done
it I have pretty much stopped burning it's
really strange.. I'm still going to see
my docter though.. And yeah were strong
were cope and me and my boyfriend have
been through so much so many fights yet
were meant to be you know yeah were both
scared that a baby could put alot of
stress on us but we both want this.. We
have only been trying for just over 2
months so alot of time yet
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19mommy
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Posted: 11-01-05 11:23am
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| pinkdragoneye
wrote: | | me and my boyfriend never
did oral before sex.. The last like 5
times we have done it I have pretty much
stopped burning it's really strange..
I'm still going to see my docter though..
And yeah were strong were cope and me and
my boyfriend have been through so much so
many fights yet were meant to be you know
yeah were both scared that a baby could
put alot of stress on us but we both want
this.. We have only been trying for just
over 2 months so alot of time
yet |
sry you and your bf never did oral or did
oral? If you did that shouldnt make you
burn unless hes has oral with someone else
(before you). And the burning stoping
could mean you have bladder infection, I
had it b4 and did think it was an std so I
got tested for all std's and had a urine
and u/s done, they found only the bladder
infection and I was clean so goodluck im
hoping your clean too!
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Rachelelizabeth
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Joined: 01 Nov 2005
Posts: 1
Location: west chester pa
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Possible Uti Infection
Posted: 11-01-05 16:46pm
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It sounds like a urinary tract infection,
I would make an appt with your doctor asap
and try not to get yourself freaked out
about it. It def sounds more like a uti
then any stds.
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pinkdragoneye
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Posted: 11-02-05 10:11am
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Thank you so much for the help i'm making
an appointment asap it's really put my
mind at rest.. And no my boyfriend never
did anything sexual with another girl
before me I was his first at everything
except kissing
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sherry101
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Location: Cochrane
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Posted: 11-02-05 10:41am
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I"m 17 also and I actually had the same
thing as u but in my case I could also be
pregnant. Only because we didn't use a
condom and I forgot my pill i'm telling u
right now that wanting a baby and actually
careing for a baby wont be that easy. I
aint trying to tell u no to have a baby
because I can;t only because I might be
having one i'm just saying I seen my
brother and his gf and he got a full time
job making really good money and they
still sometimes find it hard. We should
trade e-mails and talk more
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pinkdragoneye
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Posted: 11-02-05 16:34pm
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Thanks sherry I know it wont be hard but
me and my boyfriend want bring a baby in
to this world and just be so happy
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aprilb
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Posted: 11-02-05 22:47pm
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I am 25, married and we both have great
full time jobs. But a baby cost a lot of
money. And it gets worse as they get
older. Are you sure that you are ready?
You bf is only 16 years old!!! How do
you kow that it won't be too much for him
and he leaves you after the baby comes?
Guys don't mature as fast as girls and he
might decide he wants to finish high
school and leave you. Are you ready to
raise a baby alone? Even as a married
women in a strong christian relationship I
still have to ask myself can I do this
alone if my husband were not here and you
know what I would probably have to move
back in with my parents if my husband were
to ever leave me and I have a great job
with a college degree! Please think about
your future- when I was 17- which hasn't
been that long ago- I wanted things in my
life that were totally dirrerent than what
I want now. Please think about your
future.
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