Joined: 03 Nov 2003 Posts: 89 Location: The Sunshine State
Been Wondering For Awhile... Posted: 12-08-03 13:13pm
I am 20, and I have 2 kids. My husband is
26, and has a child from a previous
relationship. ( probably irelevant)
whenever we have sex, (great sex I might
add), he asks me if it still feels big,
(which it does), and sometimes, he would
rather me suck it during sex, than finish
intercourse. I dont mind b/c he always
pleases me, and I think I always please
him, but by him asking those questions,
does that mean that I am too big for him?
I have had two kids, so I dont know if
that matters. He says sex is great, but I
orgasm atleast 3 times compared to his 1.
Is this a true concern, or is it all in my
head?
Thanks,
marissa
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4922 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 12-10-03 16:13pm
Hey marissa I think its all in your head.
A guys ego usually needs to be told that
its still big and not shrinking. Its just
to let him know you arent disappointed.
And while you come 3 times to his 1 is
always normal. During intercourse women
have multiple orgasms and men only have 1.
Unless you do it again later, he can come
again. Its no big concern, your fine.
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A-Lil'Mama*2
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Nov 2003 Posts: 89 Location: The Sunshine State
Thanks Posted: 12-10-03 16:25pm
I did not know that women usually orgasm
multiple times to a mans one time. I kind
of thought I was weird. Is is also normal
to not have an orgasm at all or have lots
of tiny ones?
Thanks,
marissa
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Sara1023
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Nov 2003 Posts: 23 Location: orange county, CA
Posted: 12-10-03 16:56pm
Yes, it is normal to have lots of tiny
ones... I wouldn't say it is "common" to
have multiple orgasms...We few women are
just blessed:) it is probably more common
to not have any at all. Have fun girls!
Sara
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4922 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 12-11-03 16:39pm
Yeah not all women have multiple ones, but
women only have multiple ones, not men.
But like sarah said, its more common not
to have one at all. It just depends.
Little ones are normal too.
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saturn24
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Nov 2003 Posts: 205 Location: Pittsburgh, Pa
Posted: 12-14-03 23:18pm
I would not worry about being "loose" if
that is what you mean. Yes, children
stretch and having sex all of the time
stretches it. However, if you go for a
week without sex, your muscles are going
to tighten back up. Being "loose" is
only a temporary thing anyway.
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Diablo69
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Jan 2004 Posts: 12
Posted: 01-05-04 21:09pm
Men can have multiple orgasms buddy, I do.
I don't know how it happens or why but
it just happens sometimes.