Long Distance Relationship... Heart Borken... Lonelieness! Posted: 10-30-05 19:05pm
I posted this on single and unhappy....
Didnt realize that I was at the wrong
one...
:!: I am 16. I fell in love with my
husband to be in an awkward way and time
of my life.
I was coming out of a relationship for 3
years, loved the guy so much, but was
played for a fool. I was giving up on
life. Young, but giving up. So many
problems in my life, I just said screw all
of it. I felt that I was going to be
lonely without any real friends or any
caring people in my life. And that is
when my soul mate came into my life.
We have had many problems in our
relationship due to having a long distance
relationship. But going through break ups
after break ups, things are starting to
become clear to us now on how much we
really do mean to each other. We see each
other every 4 months!
On dec. 15 is going to be our 1 year
anniversary. I am so excited!!! But the
thing that is becoming harder for me now
is trying to fight back the tears of
loneliness. Its not that I cant hang in
there, its that I just miss him so much!
I just recently went out for the night
with some family and surronding me, was
couple!. Loving couples... With
baby's... Just being in love. Its hard
for my eyes to see, because my heart is
trying to hide that feeling of sadness and
lonely ness but when seeing what my heart
wants, my eyes appeal to that and in the
end, tears began to roll down my cheeks.
I just would like if someone is going
through the same thing to share their
experience and the love that they feel for
there loved ones. I just love my man so
much I just wish that I could be with him
all the time. When he comes, he stays up
to 3 weeks but leaves again and every
time, breaks my heart even more!!! :(
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hellburn
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Sep 2005 Posts: 59 Location: vic australia
Posted: 10-30-05 20:12pm
Well i'll tell you a story. Love is hard.
The end. It kind of the same for me now
I found out that my x was cheating on me
with a good mate of me for to weeks before
she broke up with. Now when I see my mate
I just realy want to put his face into my
fist. I have no idea what this has to do
with your topic so. Yeah bye
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tarbaby
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Jun 2005 Posts: 19
Posted: 11-03-05 22:01pm
I've been in a long distance relationship
for 2 1/2 years. We live in different
countries and have met only once. It is
very hard. I love him like no other. I
can't imagine being with anyone else. So
yes I know exactly what you are going
through.
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Cambion
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Nov 2005 Posts: 747
Thanks: 3
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Posted: 11-09-05 13:06pm
Hey don't feel bad, girl - i'm in college
and i'm in a long-distance relationship
with my boyfriend, who remains in my
hometown 500 miles away. It's so hard to
be without him and I cry so much out of
loneliness. I know anyone else probably
would just dump him and go find a guy on
campus to date, but I know damn well no
guy would ever love me like my boyfriend
does.
One of the hardest things to go through is
a long-distance relationship, which is why
so many people don't think they're worth
the pain and just break off a relationship
before they can experience the distance.
But if there's true love, a long-distance
relationship can withstand the test of
time as well as distance and it'll be
worth it in the end when you can be with
the person that you love so much.
Hey if you ever want to talk about said
things you can always private-message me.
I know I didn't offer much advice, but if
you ever need to vent, all us internet
junkies are here to help however we can :)
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babygirl200518
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Nov 2005 Posts: 41 Location: Arkansas
Hey I Know How You'll Feel Posted: 11-13-05 00:49am
Hi my name is margret and my and my b\f
for two months have been dating and we are
going though so hard times but we are
trying to make it. I real love him and I
want to be with him for the rest of my
life but I don't think it going to happen
so ya I real hope that you find out the
real guy you so call you are in love with
so girl list to me before you go and do
something you will have deal with for the
rest of your life.
