Okay I'm Like Sooo Confused..help Me Please Posted: 10-30-05 19:56pm
Okay let me start you off with may....I
used to have sex(alot) w/ my ex and this
one time we didn't use a condom and then I
thought I was pregnant but I don't think I
was but I dunno and then we then kept
having un protected sex about like 5 times
and I got my period late and then I barely
got my period the next month and I have
been having very lite bleeding till
now...Though my parents don't know but
they have been saying I was looking
fatter...I used to be one of those girls
who always did crunches and work out.I had
a nice flat stomach I was 115 lbs now im
133 lbs , I think I have been feeling
kicks...I should be 6 months rite??And I
keep having a craving to eat and before
i'd eat but just the modest 3 meals but I
didnt really eat lunch and I never ate
breakfeast but I think I ate normal and
like now I can't miss 3 meals im eating a
big breakfeast,snacking all the time,a big
lunch,and more snacks,and a big dinner and
not feel like really full, and like you
know how some people get those signs like
you have a feeling your pregnant and like
you turn around and you see the t.V
talking about babies and this stuff has
been happening to me alot so i'm like
excited and confused...I have no problem
with having a baby(the babys daddy is very
cute) and like I have been getting mood
swings , I have been peeing alot ,i have
been breaking out in acne,and I think my
doctor thinks im pregnant b.C I went into
the office saying I think I have a hernia
and he was checking my stomach and putting
that heart beat thingy on it and then he
checked my ankles , and when your pregnant
aren't your ankles supposed to be swollen?
So yea please tell me what you can i'd
really like your info!! :d
kisses
nicole
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issej
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Posted: 10-30-05 19:59pm
It sounds like you're pregnant to me, but
I don't really know, i'm wondering if i'm
pregnant myself, and i'm only about a
month along. I would think that you would
be showing a little more than now, but
some people don't start showing right
away.
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inloveanddeath
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Posted: 10-30-05 20:07pm
Thank you i'm starting to hope i'm
pregnant lol...I know this girl that was
like 6 months I saw it on t.V and she was
like only feeling alittle
bloated..Everyone is different..Last yr
this girl was pregnant and I had noooo
clue until she was like
9months..Insane...But yea...Thank you for
replying..Best of luck to you as well
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issej
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Posted: 10-30-05 20:14pm
I'm starting to hope i'm pregnant to, as
crazy as it sounds, i'm only 20, and not
ready to have a baby, but I want one. I
think i'm having a girl. I always thought
I wanted a boy first, but now I think i'm
having a girl, and that's what I really
want. There is a special bond between a
mother and a daugther.
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inloveanddeath
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Posted: 10-30-05 20:20pm
Yea I really want a girl...I have been
thinking of names and I really like chole
and landon or aiden for a boy...I like the
idea of dressing a girl in like dresses
and like doing all the girly stuff..And w/
a boy you can't really do that.
My mom is into like astrology..She said
that I would most likely have a girl but
it can also mean I can have a boy that
acts girly..(oh my ha)...But yea...I
forgot to mention I did take a test a
while back like 2 days after I may 26 and
it said negitive but I have heard of soooo
many women getting false negitives but
rarely false positives , i'm really
thinking of buying a new test to make
sure...Have you taken a test?
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issej
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Posted: 10-30-05 20:24pm
No, I haven't taken a test yet, i'm
supposed to start my period in a few days,
and I want to wait and see if I start or
not before I take one. I've been waiting
for 2 weeks, i'm getting so anxious now.
I can't wait, ecspecially to tell the
daddy and see what he says. He's black
and i'm white, so this will cause some
problems in my family, but I think i'm
ready for it. I hope so anyway.
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inloveanddeath
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Posted: 10-30-05 20:40pm
Well I hope the best for the both of you!!
Um i'm really hoping I can start being
closer friends with my ex , we spilt do to
my parents really not liking him for some
reason...And we don't really talk..He was
my first love...And like I do miss him
alot , he's with another girl and she has
been such of a ass to me whenever i'd try
to talk to my ex ...B.C she thinks when I
have the baby he will come running back to
me..Well I hope it happens b.C this girl
is ruining him by cheating on him and
making him upset..But yea...I think once I
have the baby I can sort things out...Good
luck with you though I hope things go well
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inloveanddeath
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Posted: 10-30-05 22:11pm
Okay well im laughing at you ...Maybe you
shouldnt be such of a dick about things I
joined this to get help... Okay...And if
you think im just trying to get laughs
your effing wrong.. I was upset in the
beginning but now im dealing with it..Oh
and me saying the babys daddy is cute..Im
thinking positive and no I dont plan these
things and the doctor thing me and my mom
went to go see if I was and get a blood
test but he forgot and I was put on
depression pills that day and my mom asked
if it was safe for me like as in pregnancy
and he said yes I asume he thought I must
be pregnant..I can't believe people like
you...Im confused and i'm trying to get as
much help as possible I have no one else
to talk to about this so I came opon this
site for some help..And I was doing just
fine till you commented...
Goodnight
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issej
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Posted: 10-30-05 22:13pm
Well, i'm not a phoney, i'm pretty sure
i'm pregnant and i'm about a month along.
I'm very excited and very scared at the
same time. It's all I can think about,
and I have no one to talk to about it
until I know for sure. My boobs hurt, my
stomach hurts, my vision is blurry and I
have butterflies all the time. I'm very
scared, and for some reason i'm sure i'm
having a girl.
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inloveanddeath
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Posted: 10-30-05 22:19pm
Thank you jlee77 for saying your sorry , I
know how it must sound , and im really not
a fraud , and im sorry for anyone else who
read this and thought the same , I am
going through a tough time and im trying
to figure things out be positive and think
more about the future , im going to the
doctors soon I will deff. Ask , im pretty
sure I am I will post when I visit. And
i'm sorry for being health forum to you
jlee77
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inloveanddeath
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Posted: 10-30-05 22:21pm
Issej I don't think your a phoney I
believe you and I really hope the best
works out for you , and I am not a phoney
as well , I don't lie about serious things
like this b.C its just not rite at all...
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inloveanddeath
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Posted: 10-30-05 22:23pm
Thanks and I will ask him deff. Im 16
...If I happen to go to the nurse in my
school could she possibly know at all or
give me any advice? I know I seen alot
of teen pregnancys in my school ..But idk
if the nurse could like actually tell if I
am...I really want to get a test as
well...
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issej
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Posted: 10-30-05 22:25pm
Well, i'm glad you don't think i'm a
phoney, inloveanddeath. Keep me posted on
how everything turns out, and i'll keep
you posted, to. Good luck to you, and let
me know if you're having a girl.
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inloveanddeath
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Posted: 10-30-05 22:27pm
issej
wrote:
well, i'm glad you don't
think i'm a phoney, inloveanddeath. Keep
me posted on how everything turns out, and
i'll keep you posted, to. Good luck to
you, and let me know if you're having a
girl.
thanks I really hope I have a girl...Good
luck!!!
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issej
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Posted: 10-30-05 22:28pm
If you go to the nurse at school and tell
her, you can take a pregnancy test in her
office. I went to a high school where
there were a lot of pregnancies and alot
of them found out at the nurse's office.
Ask her tomorrow at school and let me know
how it goes.
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inloveanddeath
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Posted: 10-30-05 22:30pm
issej
wrote:
if you go to the nurse at
school and tell her, you can take a
pregnancy test in her office. I went to
a high school where there were a lot of
pregnancies and alot of them found out at
the nurse's office. Ask her tomorrow at
school and let me know how it
goes.
okay thanks i'll deff. Do that...
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inloveanddeath
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Posted: 10-30-05 22:32pm
jlee77
wrote:
inloveanddeath
wrote:
issej
wrote:
well, i'm glad you don't
think i'm a phoney, inloveanddeath.
Keep me posted on how everything turns
out, and i'll keep you posted, to.
Good luck to you, and let me know if
you're having a
girl.
thanks I really hope I have a girl...Good
luck!!!
woah, don't jump the gun hun! First find
out if your pregnant. And
remember....Boy, girl, it doesn't matter.
As long as your love is healthy. Take
care of yourself, you only get one chance
with this baby. Be good to the baby
please. I give you a ton of respect for
taking on the responsiblity and not taking
the easy way out. Props to
you.
thanks jlee77 if I find out im 100% sure
im pregnant...I will try my best to be a
great mother .. Thanks for your advice...
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issej
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Posted: 10-30-05 22:32pm
Thanks alot, and I won't jump the gun.
Either way, I will love my child, no
matter what gender s/he is. I'm scared
and excited and anxious and..Did I mention
scared, all at the same time. This is not
the right time for me to have a baby, but
I still think I can do it. Does that make
sense?
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inloveanddeath
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Posted: 10-30-05 22:34pm
issej
wrote:
thanks alot, and I won't
jump the gun. Either way, I will love my
child, no matter what gender s/he is.
I'm scared and excited and anxious
and..Did I mention scared, all at the same
time. This is not the right time for me
to have a baby, but I still think I can do
it. Does that make
sense?
i totally understand you...Its not the
right time for me either...I have school
and all...But im here for ya if you ever
wanna talk my email is xxx
andwedancedxx@aol.Com
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issej
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Posted: 10-30-05 22:43pm
Thanks. I sent you an email as you may or
may not know by now. :d
