Joined: 30 Oct 2005 Posts: 11 Location: Kansas City, Mo
15 And Pregnant Posted: 10-30-05 21:07pm
Im 15 and 28 weeks pregnant I didnt intend
for this to happen I was taking birth
control. Im having a girl im due on
january 23,2006. I am still with my soon
to bes babys daddy we have known each
other for 3 year and almost been together
for 2 years off and on after we found out
that I was pregnant we split up for a
little while because he was getting mad
that I never wanted to do anything because
I had morning sickness really bad. But we
got back together he is 18 we plan in
getting married in april. Any body else
got any stories that relate to this or
been throught labor already because that
is what im scared of.
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NiNi
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Oct 2005 Posts: 41
Posted: 10-30-05 21:30pm
Hey mama! Wow..It seems like you been
through alot..Well I never been through
your situation, but I do wish you and your
baby the best in life! Be safe .. If u
need anyone to talk to .. Pm me! <3
xo
1. You're 15 and wanting to get married?
Uh yeah okay.
2. Your boyfriend's age & yours is
illegal, which means when you give the
hospital the fathers name they'll arrest
him for child molestation in the 2nd
degree.
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19mommy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Oct 2005 Posts: 179
Posted: 10-31-05 02:17am
dalicialynn
wrote:
1. You're 15 and wanting
to get married? Uh yeah okay.
2. Your boyfriend's age & yours is
illegal, which means when you give the
hospital the fathers name they'll arrest
him for child molestation in the 2nd
degree.
thats not child molestation, thats
statutory rape. And I doubt he can be
arrested unless charges are pressed
against him. And if her parents do give
consent then she can get married at her
age.
I just wanted to say even though you are a
bit young I wish you all the best with you
soon to be husband and your baby :d good
luck and even though things and people
will get you down just know what really
matters you and that baby :d
The state will find out because she has to
give them the fathers name when she gives
birth, if the father does not live with
her, he'll have to pay child support.
The hospital nurse she has will report it
to social services because thats their job
to do so, its not up to the parents, if
the law finds out he's edit
it depends the age difference to say it's
child molestation or statutory rape.
End of
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Baby_Girl12306
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Oct 2005 Posts: 11 Location: Kansas City, Mo
Posted: 10-31-05 17:29pm
Ok well for one my parents do know and
they are not gonna get him for rape and
the state already knows dumb edit and im
waiting til I am 16 to get married and
making sure that everything is ok with me
and him so that way it doesnt seem like I
am just doing it for the baby. And I am
going to continue to go to school because
they have a daycare there that will help
me out!
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Kourtney08
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 May 2004 Posts: 937 Location: Alaska
Posted: 10-31-05 18:11pm
dalicialynn
wrote:
1. You're 15 and wanting
to get married? Uh yeah okay.
2. Your boyfriend's age & yours is
illegal, which means when you give the
hospital the fathers name they'll arrest
him for child molestation in the 2nd
degree.
1. Edit
2. Edit
are you edit kidding me? You think after
her pushing out a baby they're going to
call the cops and have him arrested?
You're out your mind.
Do you know how many underage girls I know
that slept with 19, and 18 year olds?
Infact, I know of one that just had her
daughter a couple days ago.
You're talking out of your ass, don't
scare this girl. I don't agree with 15
year olds wanting to get pregnant, but
this girl was obviously trying to prevent
it.
You're only 17 years old, so don't even
act like you're better than her.
That caca was ridiculous.
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CHERYLANNB
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Oct 2005 Posts: 31 Location: MA.
Re: 15 And Pregnant Posted: 11-01-05 00:04am
baby_girl12306
wrote:
im 15 and 28 weeks pregnant
I didnt intend for this to happen I was
taking birth control. Im having a girl
im due on january 23,2006. I am still
with my soon to bes babys daddy we have
known each other for 3 year and almost
been together for 2 years off and on after
we found out that I was pregnant we split
up for a little while because he was
getting mad that I never wanted to do
anything because I had morning sickness
really bad. But we got back together he
is 18 we plan in getting married in april.
Any body else got any stories that
relate to this or been throught labor
already because that is what im scared
of.
put that baby up for
adoption, your to young, trust me I was 16
when I had my 1st child. I would have
saved him a lot of pain if I hadn't been
so selfish thinking everything would be
ok.
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19mommy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Oct 2005 Posts: 179
Posted: 11-01-05 02:49am
baby_girl12306
wrote:
ok well for one my parents
do know and they are not gonna get him for
rape and the state already knows dumb f**k
and im waiting til I am 16 to get married
and making sure that everything is ok with
me and him so that way it doesnt seem like
I am just doing it for the baby. And I
am going to continue to go to school
because they have a daycare there that
will help me out!
you do whats best for you, all the
negative people on the board trying to get
to you dont let them. Certainly dont
stress yourself out over it.
Congratulations again
cherylannb
put that baby up for adoption, your to
young, trust me I was 16 when I had my 1st
child. I would have saved him a lot of
pain if I hadn't been so selfish thinking
everything would be ok.
I've been reading your posts, and the
things you have to say annoy me. Just
because you had a rough time doesnt mean
everyone else would. I know people
who've had 2 kids b4 they even got out of
their teens and have taken care of their
kids and yes they state it but they do it,
love doing it and can do it. Who are you
to tell someone else to put their child
for adoption because of age? It isnt
your place to determine who is going to be
a good parent or not. U've had your
chance to live and learn now I think you
should keep you comments to yourself and
let others do the same. Its ridiculous
you trying to make someone give up their
child just because of "your" experiences.
And dont you think there are already
enough people out there given up children
for adoption? If every teen were to do
so then the world would be an even sadder
one.
And to dalicialynn no she isnt a child
shes a teenager thats why it would be
statutory rape rather than child
molestation. And I do not think the
state can throw her baby's father is jail.
Because then that will cause alot of
people going on welfare and receiving
stamps. I dont care if im in canada and
your in the us, I think ur tryna scare
people n your talking a wholeeeeeeeeeeeeee
lotta edit
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babyrae
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2004 Posts: 2957 Location: Manitoba, Canada
Re: 15 And Pregnant Posted: 11-01-05 09:06am
cherylannb
wrote:
baby_girl12306
wrote:
im 15 and 28 weeks pregnant
I didnt intend for this to happen I was
taking birth control. Im having a girl
im due on january 23,2006. I am still
with my soon to bes babys daddy we have
known each other for 3 year and almost
been together for 2 years off and on after
we found out that I was pregnant we split
up for a little while because he was
getting mad that I never wanted to do
anything because I had morning sickness
really bad. But we got back together
he is 18 we plan in getting married in
april. Any body else got any stories
that relate to this or been throught labor
already because that is what im scared
of.
put that baby up for
adoption, your to young, trust me I was 16
when I had my 1st child. I would have
saved him a lot of pain if I hadn't been
so selfish thinking everything would be
ok.
your in no place to tell her to put her
child up for adoption. So you regret
your choice.. And? That doesnt mean
she has to decide just cuz u feel a
certain way. Give her advice not tell
her what to editdo.
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19mommy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Oct 2005 Posts: 179
Re: 15 And Pregnant Posted: 11-01-05 09:44am
babyrae
wrote:
cherylannb
wrote:
baby_girl12306
wrote:
im 15 and 28 weeks pregnant
I didnt intend for this to happen I was
taking birth control. Im having a
girl im due on january 23,2006. I am
still with my soon to bes babys daddy we
have known each other for 3 year and
almost been together for 2 years off and
on after we found out that I was pregnant
we split up for a little while because he
was getting mad that I never wanted to do
anything because I had morning sickness
really bad. But we got back together
he is 18 we plan in getting married in
april. Any body else got any stories
that relate to this or been throught labor
already because that is what im scared
of.
put that baby up for
adoption, your to young, trust me I was 16
when I had my 1st child. I would have
saved him a lot of pain if I hadn't been
so selfish thinking everything would be
ok.
your in no place to tell her to put her
child up for adoption. So you regret
your choice.. And? That doesnt mean
she has to decide just cuz u feel a
certain way. Give her advice not tell
her what to f**kin
do.
thats what im saying :x
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CHERYLANNB
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Oct 2005 Posts: 31 Location: MA.
Re: 15 And Pregnant Posted: 11-01-05 09:58am
babyrae
wrote:
cherylannb
wrote:
baby_girl12306
wrote:
im 15 and 28 weeks pregnant
I didnt intend for this to happen I was
taking birth control. Im having a girl
im due on january 23,2006. I am still
with my soon to bes babys daddy we have
known each other for 3 year and almost
been together for 2 years off and on after
we found out that I was pregnant we split
up for a little while because he was
getting mad that I never wanted to do
anything because I had morning sickness
really bad. But we got back together
he is 18 we plan in getting married in
april. Any body else got any stories
that relate to this or been throught labor
already because that is what im scared
of.
put that baby up for
adoption, your to young, trust me I was 16
when I had my 1st child. I would have
saved him a lot of pain if I hadn't been
so selfish thinking everything would be
ok.
your in no place to tell her to put her
child up for adoption. So you regret
your choice.. And? That doesnt mean
she has to decide just cuz u feel a
certain way. Give her advice not tell
her what to f**kin
do.
ok, heres my
advice, "put that baby up for adoption,and
stop being so selfish"! Talk to other
adults that have been there,most will tell
you the same! Why are you asking other
teens for advice? They know as much as
you do. Don't you realize if a child asks
another child if he should eat candy for
breakfast, the other child will say yes
it's ok. But ask a responsible adult and
you will get a completly different answer.
Learn from others mistakes, don't make
your own. It's so much easier. Go to
barnes n noble, they have a self help
section with lots of good books on this
subject. Why do you think they are
writing these books? They are trying to
get through to people who don't know the
answers. Also check statistics on how
many teen marriages fail. You don't have
to belive me, it's in every educated book
out there, not in teen magazine!
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CHERYLANNB
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Oct 2005 Posts: 31 Location: MA.
Posted: 11-01-05 10:02am
19mommy
wrote:
baby_girl12306
wrote:
ok well for one my parents
do know and they are not gonna get him for
rape and the state already knows dumb f**k
and im waiting til I am 16 to get married
and making sure that everything is ok with
me and him so that way it doesnt seem like
I am just doing it for the baby. And I
am going to continue to go to school
because they have a daycare there that
will help me out!
you do whats best for you, all the
negative people on the board trying to get
to you dont let them. Certainly dont
stress yourself out over it.
Congratulations again
cherylannb
put that baby up for adoption, your to
young, trust me I was 16 when I had my 1st
child. I would have saved him a lot of
pain if I hadn't been so selfish thinking
everything would be ok.
I've been reading your posts, and the
things you have to say annoy me. Just
because you had a rough time doesnt mean
everyone else would. I know people
who've had 2 kids b4 they even got out of
their teens and have taken care of their
kids and yes they state it but they do it,
love doing it and can do it. Who are you
to tell someone else to put their child
for adoption because of age? It isnt
your place to determine who is going to be
a good parent or not. U've had your
chance to live and learn now I think you
should keep you comments to yourself and
let others do the same. Its ridiculous
you trying to make someone give up their
child just because of "your" experiences.
And dont you think there are already
enough people out there given up children
for adoption? If every teen were to do
so then the world would be an even sadder
one.
And to dalicialynn no she isnt a child
shes a teenager thats why it would be
statutory rape rather than child
molestation. And I do not think the
state can throw her baby's father is jail.
Because then that will cause alot of
people going on welfare and receiving
stamps. I dont care if im in canada and
your in the us, I think ur tryna scare
people n your talking a wholeeeeeeeeeeeeee
lotta sh*t
are you twelve years old?
Go read a book!
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19mommy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Oct 2005 Posts: 179
Re: 15 And Pregnant Posted: 11-01-05 10:27am
cherylannb
wrote:
babyrae
wrote:
cherylannb
wrote:
baby_girl12306
wrote:
im 15 and 28 weeks pregnant
I didnt intend for this to happen I was
taking birth control. Im having a
girl im due on january 23,2006. I am
still with my soon to bes babys daddy we
have known each other for 3 year and
almost been together for 2 years off and
on after we found out that I was pregnant
we split up for a little while because he
was getting mad that I never wanted to do
anything because I had morning sickness
really bad. But we got back together
he is 18 we plan in getting married in
april. Any body else got any stories
that relate to this or been throught labor
already because that is what im scared
of.
put that baby up for
adoption, your to young, trust me I was 16
when I had my 1st child. I would have
saved him a lot of pain if I hadn't been
so selfish thinking everything would be
ok.
your in no place to tell her to put her
child up for adoption. So you regret
your choice.. And? That doesnt mean
she has to decide just cuz u feel a
certain way. Give her advice not tell
her what to f**kin
do.
ok, heres my
advice, "put that baby up for adoption,and
stop being so selfish"! Talk to other
adults that have been there,most will tell
you the same! Why are you asking other
teens for advice? They know as much as
you do. Don't you realize if a child
asks another child if he should eat candy
for breakfast, the other child will say
yes it's ok. But ask a responsible
adult and you will get a completly
different answer. Learn from others
mistakes, don't make your own. It's so
much easier. Go to barnes n noble, they
have a self help section with lots of good
books on this subject. Why do you think
they are writing these books? They are
trying to get through to people who don't
know the answers. Also check statistics
on how many teen marriages fail. You
don't have to belive me, it's in every
educated book out there, not in teen
magazine!
i think your being very closed minded.
Not every child will say that, my brother
is 10 and when others try to get him to do
something wrong he has a common sence to
do the right thing. If she feels she can
in no way take care of this child why
would she keep it? Why didnt you ask
people for advice and give your child up
for adoption? Why didnt you go to barns
and nobles? Why didnt you take care of a
newborn for at least 5-6 hours when you
found out you were pregnant. And many of
the people on the board are well set and
well prepared. They may not be married
and they may not be as old as you, but
they are determined to love and care for
their child and not take an easy way out.
And if you look at the stats many adult
marriages end in divorce many. I do agree
that she should read up on it before
having the baby so she knows what shes
getting herself into, but dont try and
discourage her, thats the last thing she
needs at this point.
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19mommy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Oct 2005 Posts: 179
Posted: 11-01-05 10:32am
Cherylannb
i am not 12 im 19, and even though ur old,
your styll not sensible :x and I think
you should read a book and get off da
internet, you a grown woman
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babyrae
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2004 Posts: 2957 Location: Manitoba, Canada
Posted: 11-01-05 12:22pm
You know what? I have talked to other
adults which have gone thru this and the
answer is always the same "i wouldnt
change what happened" some may wish things
went about differently.. But the way u
make it seem is that you and everyone else
around you regrets having children. Thats
not true! Offer advice.. Dont try to
change someones opinion based on your own.
All this girl wanted was for someone to
talk too. She never asked whether she
should put her child up for adoption or
have an abortion and you jump in trying to
convince her to get one. Thats not your
place to try and tell her what to do.
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nurse_sarah
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2005 Posts: 48
Posted: 11-01-05 12:26pm
dalicialynn
wrote:
1. You're 15 and wanting
to get married? Uh yeah okay.
2. Your boyfriend's age & yours is
illegal, which means when you give the
hospital the fathers name they'll arrest
him for child molestation in the 2nd
degree.
shock here she goes again!!!!!
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britney0581
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2005 Posts: 31 Location: n/a
Ok Posted: 11-01-05 16:14pm
Alright this is ridiculous....I don't
consider a 15-19 year old "woman" a
child.. What are you trying to say...That
the day you turn 20 your whole life
mysteriously gets put into place and
everything is perfect....Obviously if she
is having a baby and she is still
maintaining the relationship with the
baby's daddy and is still going to
school(many girls stop going) she is going
to have to be and is being
responsible....Just because times have
changed doesn't mean that ethics
have...Shoot, in the early 1900's everyone
got married at 15 and 16...If the person
is mature enough to love and care for
another person/baby....Then let
them...Don't tell them to give up there
most precious thing and called it
selfish...I just had a miscarriage a
little bit ago and it was awful...I can
only imagine willfully giving him
up....Some people who feel as though they
cannot love the child maybe should let him
go with a family who will...But if they
want to keep it let them...Sometimes
adoptions make things harder on children
as well...Hun...If you want the baby and
you know you will be able to love it and
care for it....I would say to keep
it....But its your decision...Just do what
you know is best.
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Kimwall27606
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Nov 2005 Posts: 33 Location: raleigh nc
Your Not the Only One I Promise Posted: 11-02-05 02:35am
Im 15 and pregnant to my due date is
2morrow :roll: I have had a very
miserable pregnancy but I got through it
my babys daddy is 18 to and they arent'
going to do anything about it but im not
with him because he cheated on me with my
14 year old cousin and his mom hates me
cause im young and im white she dont
belive in mixing races but girl im scared
to but I know that every thing is going to
be good because I have alot of support
from my family and don't listed to how
much caca ppl talk on here because they
don't know the position your in I do
cause im right there to you good luck
:wink:
Yeah, give your babys father's name to the
hospital when they ask, it's their job in
every state it's illegal in to report
something like that.
I'm telling you, they'll go after him
& arrest him if he doesnt run.
I've seen it happen so many times, so to
be honest, think about it all before you
act. Do some research to help you
understand better.
If my mom worked on a case like that,
she'd loose her job if she didn't report
it, for the simple fact that it's illegal
in the state i'm in. But if its not
illegal in the state your in, which you
can find out online by researching, then
your probably safe.
But the girl who made this post, is from
my state & isnt very far from me.
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