i put my baby up for adoption because I
knew at a young age i'd be a health
question mom, and I sure as hell would
rather see my baby being raised by a
loving family who cant have children
rather than at the time, a young little
girl who should of been more careful about
opening her legs.
I have no guilt for what i've done, i've
only learned from the experience I went
through & that only made me stronger.
Ryansmommy16 for your information, you
promiscuous person.
Just because i'm young doesn't mean i'm a
bad mother. I knew my son would get
everything he needed before I even had
him.But if you think giving yours up was
the right thing to do then that's you. I
just didn't see why you told someone else
to put theirs up like in their situation
they couldn't have handled it.You didn't
know that. Oh and how old are you
exactly? Well honey i'm not in 9th grade,
i'm in 11th and I home school where I can
be with my baby all day. I not a child I
will turn 17 next month. And if you
haven't gathered this much... I am
married and I didn't need my parents
consent only consent that was needed was
my husbands and mine so I got married on
my own like a "big girl". I'm sorry to
hear about your other babies daddy. And
i'm glad you have someone in your life
now. If you are happy then why do you get
on her and be so bitter towards everyone?
I have been in a real bad mood the last
couple of days and the worst has come out
in me. I just want everyone to know i'm
not this mean b*tch that I have made
myself out to be. I'm actually a decent
person. So there with that said I drop
this subject. Good luck with the baby and
I hope you go on to have a happy life. I
know I will.
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CHERYLANNB
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Oct 2005 Posts: 31 Location: MA.
Posted: 11-06-05 22:28pm
michelle1981
wrote:
cherylannb
wrote:
who said I gave my son up?
Your a
looser.
i must have misread in anger.....
So you're giving this young girl advice on
something you know nothing about???
Why?... Because you regret leading your
life for your son at 16....
That sounds selfish to me!
If you wanted to have your life than you
should have kept your legs closed tight.
You sound like a horrible old hag! Get a
life, and stop feeling sorry for
yourself!
I never said I regret
leading my life for my son, I don't regret
what I could have done, I regret the pain
he had to go through, with a jerk for a
father, he's never been good to him, if I
wanted to do everything for myself and I
didn't care about him don't you think I
would have put him in daycare and went to
work doing something without him? No, I
stayed home and spent every second with
him, I never even left him with sitters, I
always sacrificed so I could be with him,
he was my life. Old hag, i'm 35, when
you "grow up" you'll understand. Go play
some video games or something you can
relate to!
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CHERYLANNB
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Oct 2005 Posts: 31 Location: MA.
Posted: 11-06-05 22:47pm
babyrae
wrote:
haha im an angry person?
Your a person who has problems. Here u
say people work just to get flashy
clothes? Uh no! Two people work so
they can provide a house for their child,
some people need two vehicles and I know
that for a fact becuz otherwise I couldnt
get my child to daycare so I could work,
so I can provide her with food, clothing,
shelter and I get to spoil her. U say
its so wrong for a child to go into
daycare becuz thats when they learn most?
Well what the f*ck do u think they do in
daycare? My child has learned many
things in daycare. She has made friends,
has learned how to make cookies and draw
pictures for her mommy.. So dont try
saying to me that I put my kid in daycare
cuz im selfish and want flashy clothes.
U honestly should have put your son into
adoptive care.. It seems you have
probably ruined his life with your weird
ideas and thoughts on life.. Its more
like your the selfish
one.
please go to barnes n
noble.Com and buy the book "stupid things
parents do to mess up their kids" it's
only $12.00, read chapter 2 "don't have
them if you won't raise them" , i'm not
the only stupid old hag that thinks this
way, people are writing books about people
like you!
I never said I regret
leading my life for my son, I don't regret
what I could have done, I regret the pain
he had to go through, with a jerk for a
father, he's never been good to him, if I
wanted to do everything for myself and I
didn't care about him don't you think I
would have put him in daycare and went to
work doing something without him? No, I
stayed home and spent every second with
him, I never even left him with sitters, I
always sacrificed so I could be with him,
he was my life. Old hag, i'm 35, when
you "grow up" you'll understand. Go play
some video games or something you can
relate to!
so then why are you telling these girls to
give their babies up for adoption?
Why?..... Because your sons' father
wasn't around? My father was never around
and my mother was the soul provider for
both my sister and myself..... And what?
I appreciate my mother so much more
because of it.
Daycare and putting your child up for
adoption are not even close to being a
like..... One is a sitter so you can put
a roof over your childs head, food on the
table, clothes on their backs and a whole
lot of love in their hearts for doing all
of the above.... The other is the
opposite.
If they ask for advice on adoption...
Then open your mouth... Otherwise do us a
favor and swallow... 'cause we all know
that can't get you pregnant!
I never said I regret
leading my life for my son, I don't regret
what I could have done, I regret the pain
he had to go through, with a jerk for a
father, he's never been good to him, if I
wanted to do everything for myself and I
didn't care about him don't you think I
would have put him in daycare and went to
work doing something without him? No, I
stayed home and spent every second with
him, I never even left him with sitters, I
always sacrificed so I could be with him,
he was my life. Old hag, i'm 35, when
you "grow up" you'll understand. Go
play some video games or something you can
relate to!
so then why are you telling these girls to
give their babies up for adoption?
Why?..... Because your sons' father
wasn't around? My father was never
around and my mother was the soul provider
for both my sister and myself..... And
what? I appreciate my mother so much
more because of it.
Daycare and putting your child up for
adoption are not even close to being a
like..... One is a sitter so you can put
a roof over your childs head, food on the
table, clothes on their backs and a whole
lot of love in their hearts for doing all
of the above.... The other is the
opposite.
If they ask for advice on adoption...
Then open your mouth... Otherwise do us
a favor and swallow... 'cause we all
know that can't get you
pregnant!
who ever said my sons
father wasn't around? Do you think I
would have a baby without being married?
I just said my husband, wasn't a good
father, so, being the stupid , selfish
person I am, I divorced him when my son
was almost 3, because he wasn't doing the
right thing, and I wanted my kid to have a
better life. I know 2 people who were
adopted, and they are very happy and are
thankful their real moms gave them up so
they could have better lives. And guess
what? Both of them had stay at home moms.
Your right, there not even close to being
the same thing. Daycare is a selfish act,
and adoption is something you do when you
feel your not able to give your child the
happiness they deserve and you don't want
to abort it, it takes a very loving and
selfless person to be able to put their
child up for adoption, instead of choosing
the alternatives. I hope your baby won't
have the same trash mouth you have, are
you really a girl? I thought only guys
talked like that!
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babyrae
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2004 Posts: 2957 Location: Manitoba, Canada
Posted: 11-06-05 23:37pm
cherylannb
wrote:
babyrae
wrote:
haha im an angry person?
Your a person who has problems. Here u
say people work just to get flashy
clothes? Uh no! Two people work so
they can provide a house for their child,
some people need two vehicles and I know
that for a fact becuz otherwise I couldnt
get my child to daycare so I could work,
so I can provide her with food, clothing,
shelter and I get to spoil her. U say
its so wrong for a child to go into
daycare becuz thats when they learn most?
Well what the f*ck do u think they do in
daycare? My child has learned many
things in daycare. She has made
friends, has learned how to make cookies
and draw pictures for her mommy.. So
dont try saying to me that I put my kid in
daycare cuz im selfish and want flashy
clothes. U honestly should have put
your son into adoptive care.. It seems
you have probably ruined his life with
your weird ideas and thoughts on life..
Its more like your the selfish
one.
please go to barnes n
noble.Com and buy the book "stupid things
parents do to mess up their kids" it's
only $12.00, read chapter 2 "don't have
them if you won't raise them" , i'm not
the only stupid old hag that thinks this
way, people are writing books about people
like you!
haha funny how you know what that book is
and what chapter specifically pertains to
you. I think its so sad how you try to
make me out to be a bad parent. Why?
Because im attending college so my child
is in dycare? Oh no dear lord I am such a
horrible mother :roll: get your caca
straight. You may think people will be on
"your side" becuz you were a lousy stay at
home mom obsessed with ruining her
children's lives, but you can think that
way on your own. Cuz I am one damn good
mother and my child loves me, so obviously
I am doing nothing wrong.. Though I cant
say the same for you
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madremajikGal17
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Nov 2005 Posts: 16 Location: Puyallup, WA
Posted: 11-06-05 23:40pm
Wow...What an incredibly stupid thing to
say, that you were incredibly stupid and
selfish for divorcing the father when your
son was 3...Even though aparently "he
wasn't doing the right thing, and I wanted
my kid to have a better life." ...If all
of that was true, then why on earth do you
regret doing the right thing? Don't tell
these people that...Don't encourage
staying with someone who treats your kid
like crap! I mean...Doing that is
selfish...Leaving someone like that, no
matter what, is not...Not having a father
in your life is far better than having a
father who treats you badly! Don't even
begin to come on here trying to tell these
people any different!!!
who ever said my sons father
wasn't around? Do you think I would have
a baby without being married? I just
said my husband, wasn't a good father, so,
being the stupid , selfish person I am, I
divorced him when my son was almost 3,
because he wasn't doing the right thing,
and I wanted my kid to have a better life.
I know 2 people who were adopted, and
they are very happy and are thankful their
real moms gave them up so they could have
better lives. And guess what? Both of
them had stay at home moms. Your right,
there not even close to being the same
thing. Daycare is a selfish act, and
adoption is something you do when you feel
your not able to give your child the
happiness they deserve and you don't want
to abort it, it takes a very loving and
selfless person to be able to put their
child up for adoption, instead of choosing
the alternatives. I hope your baby won't
have the same trash mouth you have, are
you really a girl? I thought only guys
talked like
that!
so it's ok to give a child up for adoption
but it's not ok to have a baby out of
wedlock? Wow... I guess it makes sense
coming from someone who thinks daycare is
a selfish act :roll:
being a stay at home mom doesn't make you
a better person or a better mother. Some
ppl have no choice but to work.... I know
it sounds so horrible :shock:
i have never met someone so ignorant and
idiotic in my life. So if you have yet to
receive an award for anything in your
life(including #1 mother).... Here it
is... Congrats... :roll:
Don't they have a forum for crazy women
over forty???
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CHERYLANNB
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Oct 2005 Posts: 31 Location: MA.
Posted: 11-06-05 23:58pm
madremajikgal17
wrote:
wow...What an incredibly
stupid thing to say, that you were
incredibly stupid and selfish for
divorcing the father when your son was
3...Even though aparently "he wasn't doing
the right thing, and I wanted my kid to
have a better life." ...If all of that was
true, then why on earth do you regret
doing the right thing? Don't tell these
people that...Don't encourage staying with
someone who treats your kid like crap! I
mean...Doing that is selfish...Leaving
someone like that, no matter what, is
not...Not having a father in your life is
far better than having a father who treats
you badly! Don't even begin to come on
here trying to tell these people any
different!!!
wow... What an
incredibly stupid person you are " I was
being sarcastic when I said I was stupid
and selfish, because thats what she said
I was earlier. And if it were true I
wouldn't have done what I did!
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CHERYLANNB
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Oct 2005 Posts: 31 Location: MA.
Posted: 11-07-05 00:08am
michelle1981
wrote:
don't they have a forum for
crazy women over
forty???
I don't know, but I
think they have one for white trash under
20"....
I don't know, but I think
they have one for white trash under
20"....
do you need a reminder?... Ppl who live
in trailer parks shouldn't throw
stones.....
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CHERYLANNB
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Oct 2005 Posts: 31 Location: MA.
Posted: 11-07-05 00:15am
babyrae
wrote:
cherylannb
wrote:
babyrae
wrote:
haha im an angry person?
Your a person who has problems. Here u
say people work just to get flashy
clothes? Uh no! Two people work so
they can provide a house for their child,
some people need two vehicles and I know
that for a fact becuz otherwise I couldnt
get my child to daycare so I could work,
so I can provide her with food, clothing,
shelter and I get to spoil her. U say
its so wrong for a child to go into
daycare becuz thats when they learn most?
Well what the f*ck do u think they do
in daycare? My child has learned many
things in daycare. She has made
friends, has learned how to make cookies
and draw pictures for her mommy.. So
dont try saying to me that I put my kid in
daycare cuz im selfish and want flashy
clothes. U honestly should have put
your son into adoptive care.. It seems
you have probably ruined his life with
your weird ideas and thoughts on life..
Its more like your the selfish
one.
please go to barnes n
noble.Com and buy the book "stupid things
parents do to mess up their kids" it's
only $12.00, read chapter 2 "don't have
them if you won't raise them" , i'm not
the only stupid old hag that thinks this
way, people are writing books about people
like you!
haha funny how you know what that book is
and what chapter specifically pertains to
you. I think its so sad how you try to
make me out to be a bad parent. Why?
Because im attending college so my child
is in dycare? Oh no dear lord I am such
a horrible mother :roll: get your health
question straight. You may think people
will be on "your side" becuz you were a
lousy stay at home mom obsessed with
ruining her children's lives, but you can
think that way on your own. Cuz I am one
damn good mother and my child loves me, so
obviously I am doing nothing wrong..
Though I cant say the same for
you
" i'm a damn good
mother, and my child loves me.,so
obviously I am doing nothing wrong."
words of guilt, from the
mother who wasn't there"
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CHERYLANNB
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Oct 2005 Posts: 31 Location: MA.
Posted: 11-07-05 00:44am
michelle1981
wrote:
cherylannb
wrote:
I don't know, but I think
they have one for white trash under
20"....
ppl who live in trailer parks shouldn't
throw
stones.....
fyi we just sold our
home for 252,000, and are closing on our
next one on the 10th, which was 300,00,
far from trailer trash, we don't have
trailers in the town where I live, your a
waste of time, i've got packing to
do.........
haha im an angry person?
Your a person who has problems. Here
u say people work just to get flashy
clothes? Uh no! Two people work
so they can provide a house for their
child, some people need two vehicles and I
know that for a fact becuz otherwise I
couldnt get my child to daycare so I could
work, so I can provide her with food,
clothing, shelter and I get to spoil her.
U say its so wrong for a child to go
into daycare becuz thats when they learn
most? Well what the f*ck do u think
they do in daycare? My child has
learned many things in daycare. She
has made friends, has learned how to make
cookies and draw pictures for her mommy..
So dont try saying to me that I put my
kid in daycare cuz im selfish and want
flashy clothes. U honestly should
have put your son into adoptive care..
It seems you have probably ruined his
life with your weird ideas and thoughts on
life.. Its more like your the selfish
one.
please go to barnes n
noble.Com and buy the book "stupid things
parents do to mess up their kids" it's
only $12.00, read chapter 2 "don't have
them if you won't raise them" , i'm not
the only stupid old hag that thinks this
way, people are writing books about people
like you!
im sorry but you are an fool....Who are
you to say that putting your child into
daycare makes someone a bad parent? Why
the hell should we go on welfare and drop
out of school to have our child spend
every waking moment with us? So they
can be ashamed of their mommy when they
grow up? Daycare does not only take
care of the child it teaches them how to
interact with other people. When my
child starts kindergarten, he wont want to
go because he doesnt know how to interact
with anyone else but me. If you think
this stupid book is sooo great buy each
and everyone of us a book, you say its
only 12 dollars then buy it for all of us
and I will read chapter 2, if I knew I
couldnt take care of my child and I knew I
didnt want to take care of my child I will
more then likely and happily give him up
to a family that wants to love him and can
love him. So cherry seriously you go
read the books you recommended and please
dont have anymore children because if they
grow up with your knowledge then I feel
sooooooo sorry for them
:x :x :x :x :evil: :evil: :evil:
:evil:
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