Joined: 01 Nov 2005 Posts: 16 Location: Puyallup, WA
Posted: 11-07-05 02:49am
Ummm...Not sure if you know this...But
this is a teen pregnancy site...Like...For
teens...Not 30-something-year-old hags who
is trying to say that all teen mothers
should give their child up for
adoption...Go on a forum for people your
own age!!!! God! None of us like you on
here...Noone wants you here....You're just
pissing everyone off...So get off the
forum for teenagers b**ch!!!
lmao....I didnt see that before I :(
whats done is done
lol
ahahaha
poopie.
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babyrae
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2004 Posts: 2957 Location: Manitoba, Canada
Posted: 11-07-05 08:46am
[/quote] " i'm a damn good mother, and
my child loves me.,so obviously I am doing
nothing wrong." words
of guilt, from the mother who wasn't
there"[/quote]
words of guilt? Haha! Mor like words of
pride! Which is more than I can say that
your own children will feel for you! I
feel more pity on you than anything..
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BrianBaby
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2005 Posts: 1383
Posted: 11-07-05 11:17am
cherylannb
wrote:
who ever said my sons
father wasn't around? Do you think I
would have a baby without being married?
I just said my husband, wasn't a good
father, so, being the stupid , selfish
person I am, I divorced him when my son
was almost 3, because he wasn't doing the
right thing, and I wanted my kid to have a
better life.
okay....Get down off your little high
horse your sitting on because you my dear
are no more perfect than any other mom out
there. So why did you marry and have a
child with someone who is a bad
father?????? Did you know your poor son
is going to grow up in a broken home
without his father? Tsk tsk...How
incredibly sad. What poor judgement on
your part as a mother. Should have
thought about that before getting
pregnant. Oh well....Maybe you should
put your son up for adoption that way he
can live in a happier more stable family
were he has a dad.
Oh and let me make this clear. I am not
bashing any women out there who are
raising there children without there
fathers. I'm just pointing out to miss
chery that her life isn't as grand as she
thinks...
cherylannb
wrote:
are you really a girl? I
thought only guys talked like
that!
lol...What is this? Are we living back
in the 1950's?? How sad....
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19mommy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Oct 2005 Posts: 179
Posted: 11-07-05 14:05pm
This is for cherrylamb...I want to know
not placing your children in daycare and
staying home with them
what have you seriously acomplished with
your life? Did u finish high school? Get
your ged? Do a correspondence course for
college or university? Get your license?
Buy anything with money you made and not
your baby daddy's money? What have you
accomplished?
I know alot of girls have accomplished
alot even the ones younger then you.
I am in university my major is psycology
i drive
have a good bf and father for my child
getting a job
have my own place
and I am the proud owner of a fish named
charley
and soon to be proud mommy of a little boy
named isiah
and im only 19 years old.....
I can tell you barbara.... She has become
a mean, resentful, old hag that has
accomplished nothing positive.
Chery, grow up and stop feeling sorry for
yourself! Nobody here cares about your
sorry life... You are a poor excuse for a
mother!
Oh ya.... Eat sh*t, k!
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19mommy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Oct 2005 Posts: 179
Posted: 11-07-05 15:41pm
michelle1981
wrote:
i can tell you barbara....
She has become a mean, resentful, old hag
that has accomplished nothing positive.
Chery, grow up and stop feeling sorry for
yourself! Nobody here cares about your
sorry life... You are a poor excuse for
a mother!
Oh ya.... Eat sh*t,
k!
lol thats soooo true michelle, you just
made my day 10 times over with that
comment...Lol
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frantic4mommy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Aug 2005 Posts: 61 Location: San Antonio, Texas
Posted: 11-07-05 16:09pm
Damn now it seems that every one is off
the first subject!!! Lol all I know is
that some of us posted on this site in the
first place to help the 15 yr. Old girl.
And people took offence to some things
that were said that prob. Souldnt have
been said. Has any one relized that the
1st person who was asking for advice hasnt
replyd to any of this? I wounder why?!
She doesnt want to have any part in what
is going on on her post board. So what
dont we leave it where it is and forgot
about this subject on this board. It
doent look like shes comming here any
more. So can we all just drop it? And
save us all from getting so frustrated and
pissed off over some person over the
internet that we dont even know? Whats
the point any more?
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ryansmommy16
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Nov 2005 Posts: 72 Location: alabama
Posted: 11-07-05 17:03pm
Exactly frantic4mommy. :) I couldn't have
said it better myself.
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Kristina86
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Nov 2005 Posts: 69 Location: Houston, Tx
Posted: 11-07-05 17:32pm
cherylannb
wrote:
kristina86
wrote:
cherylannb
wrote:
19mommy
wrote:
cherylannb
wrote:
19mommy
wrote:
cherylannb
wrote:
19mommy
wrote:
cherylannb
i am not 12 im 19, and even though ur old,
your styll not sensible :x and I think
you should read a book and get off da
internet, you a grown
woman
I think you should
check out a dictionary and learn how to
spell simple words! Grown women
shouldn't use the internet? I
didn't realize it was only for kids?
My mom gets paid $900.00 a week at her
job and all she does is use the
internet!!!!!!!! Get a clue
!
lol, simple words? Im sorry its
called slang and I there is a spell check
on this site so if I wanted every single
word spelt the way it is suppose to I
would use it. And grown people can
use the net, but when it isnt for useful
things then they shouldnt even bother with
it. Like seriously what person
tells every person thats below a certain
age to put their child up for adoption.
There are people on this site who
arent in their teens anymore and they give
great advice like michelle1981 so unlike
you she has sense and isnt as ignorant
like you
:evil:
so adults shouldn't
bother giving advice about situations
where they've been through the same
things? Then why are some teens on
here asking for advice? Most of them
are asking for it from (other people who
have been there). I think past
experience and advice are useful things!
And I didn't tell every person under a
certain age to give up their child.
In some situations I think it's best for
the child. Like totally ya
know!!
i think having a child at a young age
fried you poor brain. I didnt say
that adults shouldnt give advice I even
stated that michelle1981 gave great advice
and she is a pleasure to talk to, but i've
read your post. I've read how many
times you've told pregnant girls to not
keep their child and give it up for
adoption. And your basing your
experiences as though they would apply to
everyone. Just because u think you've
had it hard doesnt mean they will....Even
though I dont agree with everything
dalicialynn says, but take her for
example, 17 own place, job and has her
head on very straight. Im not saying
it will be a picnic, but she knows her
responsibilities and is working to make
her child happy and that is the type of
advice you should be trying to give
people....Letting them know that if you
truly can not handle the responsibilities
of being a parent then adoption is an
option, but if your like dalicia and feel
you can do it and you work hard to achieve
it then take care of your
own.
and where is her baby
while shes at work, probablly at
daycare!!!!!! Why have a child if your
gonna pay someone else to raise it!!
There better off being put up for
adoption!!
huh...B/c some people need to work to pay
bills, you can't make money by just
sitting at home with your baby...If you
can let me know please. And how are
they raising the
baby
you can do what I did
when I was a teen mom, run a daycare, duh
! You can make money and be a mother!
Or are you not patient enough to do that,
or are you not willing to sacrifice your
job for your child to have a mom
around?
well first off if I lived in a house then
I would do the baby sitting thing, and for
your info my child does not go to day
care, he stays home with either me or my
husband, I work mornings and my husband
works nights, so my child is with one of
us all the time. Also are you going to
home school if not are you going to be
sitting right next to your child in school
making sure you are always there, the
other reason mothers put there kids in day
care is to let there children interact
with other kids. And how am I not around,
if my son was in day care I would still be
around health question you just make no
sense at all
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Kristina86
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Nov 2005 Posts: 69 Location: Houston, Tx
Posted: 11-07-05 17:35pm
cherylannb
wrote:
michelle1981
wrote:
don't they have a forum for
crazy women over
forty???
I don't know, but I
think they have one for white trash under
20"....
excuse you.......
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Kristina86
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Nov 2005 Posts: 69 Location: Houston, Tx
lol thats soooo true
michelle, you just made my day 10 times
over with that
comment...Lol
i'm glad.... Moms can laugh too, although
we should check with chery to see if it's
alright :lol:
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Pamer
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Nov 2005 Posts: 7
Posted: 11-07-05 22:19pm
This seems to have gotten out of hand.
However, I wanted to address the issue of
statutory rape concerns.
Almost every state in the united states
would not prosecute this case because the
ages are close together. Many have laws
that state the victim must be under 16 and
the perpetrator must be 3 or 4 years
older.
I looked into missouri because that is
where you are from according to your login
name. There are to laws for stautory
rape.
In the first degree the victim must be
under 14 years of age...Safe there
in the second degree the victim must be
less than 17 years of age and the
perpetrator over 21.
There is not a criminal problem. Hope
that sets your mind at ease that way.
This will be difficult for you. I hope
you consider everything available to you.
You are not a bad person if you decide to
keep yoru child, nor if you give it up for
adoption. It seems people put a stigma
on both.
Good luck in whateve ryou choose to do.
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frantic4mommy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Aug 2005 Posts: 61 Location: San Antonio, Texas
Posted: 11-07-05 22:51pm
Pamer, you have said what I have been
saying in to manny words! Lol thats
exactley how I think of the situation,
thanks!
Look up the age consent for missouri, its
illegal. It says it on every site. She's
15 almost 16 and her bf is 19. I dont
have to try to prove a point because it's
stated online everywhere.
Look it up.
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CHERYLANNB
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Oct 2005 Posts: 31 Location: MA.
Posted: 11-08-05 07:43am
19mommy
wrote:
cherylannb
wrote:
babyrae
wrote:
haha im an angry person?
Your a person who has problems.
Here u say people work just to get flashy
clothes? Uh no! Two people
work so they can provide a house for their
child, some people need two vehicles and I
know that for a fact becuz otherwise I
couldnt get my child to daycare so I could
work, so I can provide her with food,
clothing, shelter and I get to spoil her.
U say its so wrong for a child to go
into daycare becuz thats when they learn
most? Well what the f*ck do u think
they do in daycare? My child has
learned many things in daycare. She
has made friends, has learned how to make
cookies and draw pictures for her mommy..
So dont try saying to me that I put
my kid in daycare cuz im selfish and want
flashy clothes. U honestly should
have put your son into adoptive care..
It seems you have probably ruined his
life with your weird ideas and thoughts on
life.. Its more like your the
selfish one.
please go to barnes n
noble.Com and buy the book "stupid things
parents do to mess up their kids" it's
only $12.00, read chapter 2 "don't have
them if you won't raise them" , i'm not
the only stupid old hag that thinks this
way, people are writing books about people
like you!
im sorry but you are an fool....Who are
you to say that putting your child into
daycare makes someone a bad parent?
Why the hell should we go on welfare and
drop out of school to have our child spend
every waking moment with us? So they
can be ashamed of their mommy when they
grow up? Daycare does not only take
care of the child it teaches them how to
interact with other people. When my
child starts kindergarten, he wont want to
go because he doesnt know how to interact
with anyone else but me. If you think
this stupid book is sooo great buy each
and everyone of us a book, you say its
only 12 dollars then buy it for all of us
and I will read chapter 2, if I knew I
couldnt take care of my child and I knew I
didnt want to take care of my child I will
more then likely and happily give him up
to a family that wants to love him and can
love him. So cherry seriously you go
read the books you recommended and please
dont have anymore children because if they
grow up with your knowledge then I feel
sooooooo sorry for them
:x :x :x :x :evil: :evil: :evil:
:evil:
I can't communicate with
such uneducated children, your a waste of
time!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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CHERYLANNB
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Oct 2005 Posts: 31 Location: MA.
Posted: 11-08-05 07:43am
19mommy
wrote:
cherylannb
wrote:
babyrae
wrote:
haha im an angry person?
Your a person who has problems.
Here u say people work just to get flashy
clothes? Uh no! Two people
work so they can provide a house for their
child, some people need two vehicles and I
know that for a fact becuz otherwise I
couldnt get my child to daycare so I could
work, so I can provide her with food,
clothing, shelter and I get to spoil her.
U say its so wrong for a child to go
into daycare becuz thats when they learn
most? Well what the f*ck do u think
they do in daycare? My child has
learned many things in daycare. She
has made friends, has learned how to make
cookies and draw pictures for her mommy..
So dont try saying to me that I put
my kid in daycare cuz im selfish and want
flashy clothes. U honestly should
have put your son into adoptive care..
It seems you have probably ruined his
life with your weird ideas and thoughts on
life.. Its more like your the
selfish one.
please go to barnes n
noble.Com and buy the book "stupid things
parents do to mess up their kids" it's
only $12.00, read chapter 2 "don't have
them if you won't raise them" , i'm not
the only stupid old hag that thinks this
way, people are writing books about people
like you!
im sorry but you are an fool....Who are
you to say that putting your child into
daycare makes someone a bad parent?
Why the hell should we go on welfare and
drop out of school to have our child spend
every waking moment with us? So they
can be ashamed of their mommy when they
grow up? Daycare does not only take
care of the child it teaches them how to
interact with other people. When my
child starts kindergarten, he wont want to
go because he doesnt know how to interact
with anyone else but me. If you think
this stupid book is sooo great buy each
and everyone of us a book, you say its
only 12 dollars then buy it for all of us
and I will read chapter 2, if I knew I
couldnt take care of my child and I knew I
didnt want to take care of my child I will
more then likely and happily give him up
to a family that wants to love him and can
love him. So cherry seriously you go
read the books you recommended and please
dont have anymore children because if they
grow up with your knowledge then I feel
sooooooo sorry for them
:x :x :x :x :evil: :evil: :evil:
:evil:
I can't communicate with
such uneducated children, your a waste of
time!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Pamer
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Nov 2005 Posts: 7
Posted: 11-08-05 08:10am
dalicialynn
wrote:
look up the age consent for
missouri, its illegal. It says it on
every site. She's 15 almost 16 and her
bf is 19. I dont have to try to prove a
point because it's stated online
everywhere.
Look it up.
you look it up. I looked it up in the
actual legal code. It is missouri staute
566.032 for rape for the first degree and
566.034 for rape in the second degre,
statutory rape. I took the wording
verbatim from the actual legal code.
It is not illegal in missouri or most
other states for a 15 year old and an
18-19 year old.
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lil_blaze2004
Supporter
Joined: 29 Oct 2004 Posts: 6492 Location: ,
Thanks: 1
Thanked:0
Posted: 11-08-05 08:10am
cherylannb
wrote:
fyi we just sold our home
for 252,000, and are closing on our next
one on the 10th, which was 300,00, far
from trailer trash, we don't have trailers
in the town where I live, your a waste of
time, i've got packing to
do.........
oooh, you showing off now, who you trying
to impress? I know I don't give a fuck about
how much you sold your house for, anyone
else??
