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Kourtney08

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Posted: 11-02-05 12:37pm

Dalicia, you don't have a damn clue what you're talking about.

They're not going to report him, do you know what the hippa law is? Hospitals aren't even allowed to tell a parent if their child is pregnant. It's illegal for them to give out information like that. The only person that can press charges against him, and send him to jail is *her* parents.

Please stop talking out of your ass, it's hurting my head.
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DaliciaLynn

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Posted: 11-02-05 12:53pm

In my state, which she is from it's not up to the parents anymore, it used to be though.

They'll ask what the father's full name is, they'll ask how old he is and everything, and the only way to be safe about it is to lie.

But hey, im not trying to prove myself, just wait until she gives them the fathers name, they will report it to social services, its illegal. They have to. The cops will come up & the hospital & ask the mom & parents questions about why they let their daughter with a 18-19 year old.

When I was younger, my ex went to jail. We wrote letters & I went to his visitation. Well I had heard he ended up cheating on me, which wasn't true. So I wrote in a letter "how'd you feel if I was w/ some other guy & you heard I was rubbing up on him?"

the lady brought my mom back to the room & asked her questions about it. The lady said, "you know we have to report things like this if something is going on" and my mom was like yeah i'm firmiliar with this etc etc.

Hippa law is totally different, you sign that so they cant give information to anyone in your family or anyone in the doctors office or etc without your permission, that has nothing to do with an 18-19 year old going with a 15 year old. That's statutory rape in most states.

She's from missouri, i'm not talking out my ass.
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Kourtney08

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Posted: 11-02-05 13:09pm

You're wrong, wrong, wrong, wrong.

The end, theres no way around it.

I know plenty girls from missouri, I can have some from another board come on over here and talk to you.

They will not, and can not press charges against him, her parents can though. She's 15, he's 18, they've been together 3 years.

Think about it sweetie. Seriously.
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Kourtney08

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Posted: 11-02-05 13:17pm

Oh and fyi

hipaa law : protecting the privacy of patients' health information

http://aspe.Hhs. Gov/admnsimp/final/pvcfact2.Htm

i'm actually posting all of this on another forum I attend, they all agree that you're a person.

10 me, you 0.
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BrianBaby

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Posted: 11-02-05 13:36pm

Excuse me, yes you really are talking out of your ass. If what your saying is even true the hospital would first have to do some sort of blood test ot proove he really is the father. They can't just arrest him because she says he the father.
Secondly, the hospital could give a caca and care less. If the parents have a problem with it, then ya...That's a different story.
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Posted: 11-02-05 14:06pm

Congrats!!!!

Things will be hard just be strong, keep going to school and see of they offer correspondance while you are on mat leave!

You may want to look at getting a part time job before you show so you can have some money to buy baby stuff and if you have to go to a second hand store....

I hope all goes well and good luck!!

Jess
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DaliciaLynn

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Posted: 11-02-05 14:12pm

They fell for each other across a table at a mexican restaurant. He was a 24-year-old waiter and she was a 14-year-old san jose high school student.

They had sex. He went to prison.

Three years ago, the case probably never would have even landed on a prosecutor's desk, let alone in court.

But state officials want to return to an earlier, more innocent era. Authorities are now aggressively prosecuting adults 18 years or older who have sex with minors, specifically when there is an age difference of five years or more.

The reasons for reviving these old rules run the gamut from welfare reform to concerns about teenage pregnancy to fears that increasingly more minors are being exploited, state authorities say.

For the third year in a row, governor pete wilson has spread more than $8 million among 53 counties to prosecute statutory rape cases as part of his partnership for responsible parenting initiative.

In the last 21 months, 1,298 adults have been convicted of having sex with minors, according to the state's office of criminal justice planning. Of those, 302 were from the bay area.

As part of the initiative, the department of health services has recently begun a multimillion dollar radio and print campaign on billboards and bus placards. The message -- ``sex with a minor is a major crime.''

mark daryl baker, the 24-year- old waiter, learned the hard way. Last year, a jury convicted baker of statutory rape, and a judge sentenced him to two years in prison.



Says nothing about the parents having to press charges, that's under new laws for statutory rape in missouri, they're reviving old laws & making new ones.


Parents not being able to decide came out as a new one a few years ago.


Girls say if they marry their man when it's statutory rape, that will help them not go to jail.

Mr. Koso is 22. The baby's mother, crystal, is 14. He is charged with statutory rape, even though they were wed with their parents' blessing in may, crossing into kansas because their own state prohibits marriages of people under 17.


They are from missouri & moved out of the state, just so he wouldnt go to jail, they're parents gave them permission to marry, but its still illegal.



Mr. Koso faces up to 50 years in prison, and mr. Bruning said he was considering additional charges based on complaints that mr. Koso had sex with other young girls in the past. Mr. Koso's lawyer would not allow him to discuss that, but his mother said he told her that he had dated only one other girl under 16 and that they did not have sex.
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DaliciaLynn

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Posted: 11-02-05 14:17pm

Obviously her mom agreed with it because they got married, does the law care?


Edit
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DaliciaLynn

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Posted: 11-02-05 14:29pm

brianbaby wrote:
excuse me, yes you really are talking out of your ass. If what your saying is even true the hospital would first have to do some sort of blood test ot proove he really is the father. They can't just arrest him because she says he the father.
Secondly, the hospital could give a health question and care less. If the parents have a problem with it, then ya...That's a different story.


no dip you edit


if you even want benefits from the state, food stamps and etc, social services will ask you the fathers name & will find him and do a blood test. He'll get nailed with child support if he's not living with you. They keep that caca on file before you even have the baby.


Another easy way : the baby either has the mothers blood type, or the fathers.
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BrianBaby

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Posted: 11-02-05 14:30pm

You really are a person.
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DaliciaLynn

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Posted: 11-02-05 14:31pm

Mhm yeahedit
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BrianBaby

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Posted: 11-02-05 14:32pm

Your 17 right?


Well I hope your b/f or whoever knocked you up runs real fast when you give brith or they're gonna arrest him....lmao
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DaliciaLynn

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Posted: 11-02-05 14:34pm

My babys father is deceased.

But my boyfriend is 19.

It's not illegal so I can do all the bunny humping I want.

I get a check each month for the death of my babys father to help support the baby. He'd be 18 now.
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DaliciaLynn

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Posted: 11-02-05 14:35pm

He won't run, i'm getting married next year.


He's also in the process of moving in with me.


Hahaha but if he did, i'd probablyeditto be totally honest.


But I really doubt it.
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Kourtney08

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Posted: 11-02-05 14:39pm

dalicialynn wrote:
mhm yeah.



Suck a nut promiscuous person.



are you on crack edit theres something mentally wrong with you.

You've been proved wrong, and now all you can say is"edit"

lyk omgz ur totaly acteng ur adge.


Grow up little girl, you aren' edit
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DaliciaLynn

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Posted: 11-02-05 14:46pm

I am on crack, some good a$$ crack.
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DaliciaLynn

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Posted: 11-02-05 14:46pm

You want some?

I'll share.
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diamondsz

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Posted: 11-02-05 15:32pm

Missouri state law

i had to research this, once you hit 14 in canada your on your own!
Anyways in the state of missouri you have to be 15 wpc and 16 without (wpc is with parental consent) at 17 you can pretty much date anyone up to the age of 21.


Hope this helps!!
I just find it weird I was 17 when I met hubby and he was 25 but its not stat rape after 14....

Jess
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Kourtney08

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Posted: 11-02-05 15:34pm

dalicialynn wrote:
you want some?


I'll share.


oh no thanks hun, I actually care about my child.
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BrianBaby

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Posted: 11-02-05 15:45pm

dalicialynn wrote:
i am on crack, some good a$$ crack.


ya....Real funny to joke about putting your unborn childs life at risk.
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