Joined: 30 Oct 2005 Posts: 17 Location: SWMississippi
Harmones Or Hismones? Posted: 10-31-05 01:07am
Ok ladies, this one hits home for me and
being a man, I would appreciate a
professional opinion especially from the
female gender which certainly deserves a
degree of expertise. Now here's the
question(s):
my wife (a registered nurse) filed for a
divorce one year ago and we did battle in
court until recently. We have two
beautiful childred (boy/girl twins).
These kids were planned not oops born only
after fertility treatments and seven
months of her being confined to the bed by
her obgyn since she had troubles carrying
in the past resulting in miscarriage in
the early stages.
Some months into what became the "war of
the roses" I decided that it might be a
good idea to get a vasectomy. I knew I
would be dating after the divorce and I
could see my life could get complicated
especially for my two children because of
an unplanned pregnancy with another person
who may also prove incompatible.
To make it short we attempted a
reconciliation that is not working no
matter how hard I try and comply to her
demand$. Upon my return to the marital
domicile she asked me to go by her
pharmacy and pay for and retrieve her
'scripts. I was surprised to see the
prescription was birth control pills. We
had not had sex in over a year and not
much before then. Further, she knew of my
vasectomy since I put the bill on her
health insurance provided by her employer.
When questioned she replied it was only
for harmonal purposes to regulate her
period. Don't they make other pills for
that? Finally, if someone were to put a
gun to your head and ask you to answer
correctly or die and the question was: is
she screwing around on me? What would be
your answer?
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Jennifer23
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Oct 2005 Posts: 76 Location: Texas
Posted: 11-01-05 12:25pm
I have always had irregular periods and
everytime I go see the dr, they want to
put me on birth control pills to regulate
my period. Even when I was trying to get
pregnant, my dr wanted me to be on birth
control pills for about 6 months, first.
I'm sure there are other types of pills
that can do that, but (from my experience
only) dr's usually will start with a birth
control pill and go from there. It also
helps regulate the hormones in a woman's
body.
As far as her screwing around on you ...
Based on what you said, I don't have any
reason to believe that she is. She's
just trying to regulate her body. But, I
could be wrong.
