Joined: 31 Oct 2005 Posts: 9 Location: lancaster,california
Trying to Get Pregnant......please Help :? Posted: 10-31-05 14:54pm
Hi my name is cherron i'm 18.5. I've
been with this guy for 3 months and we've
talked about having a baby. We've tried
for the past 2 months and nothing has
happened. I'm not sure if its me or him
but we both stress alot and that seems to
be the only time we're both relaxed. My
period has never been late it just comes
earlier and earlier. I've had really bad
headaches and often do feel nausea but
never no vomiting i've also had alot of
dizziness and now expierencing soreness of
the nipples. I've had some thick white
but not chuncky discharge and it smells
like milk. Anyone kno or have anything
to say to help me understand me better?
Do u kno of something I can do to better
my chances?
Last edited by alwayzwonderin on 10-31-05 15:35pm; edited 1 time in total
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alwayzwonderin
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Joined: 31 Oct 2005 Posts: 9 Location: lancaster,california
Posted: 10-31-05 15:05pm
Please people tell me wat u think :!:
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wife2jason_mom2ryley
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Joined: 19 Sep 2005 Posts: 288 Location: Amherst VA
Posted: 10-31-05 16:03pm
I think that you should be sure that you
know that this is the guy you are ready to
spend the rest of your life with first of
all. I only knew my boyfriend (now
husband) for about 4 months before we got
pregnant (while I was on the pill)...And
it has been very hard. I think that you
should wait untill you are married atleast
untill you try for a baby. Fall deep in
love with your man before you have a baby
to fall in love with. Ya know?? If you
are desperate to get pregnant and you will
be happy no other way then go to your
doctor and talk to him/her about some
fertilitly pills. I really don't think
that is neccessary yet though seeing as
though you have only been trying for 2
months. Some couples try for years before
finally conceiving. A friend of mine and
her hubby are trying for a baby and can't
get preggy. She went to her doctor and
she told her that she needed to try for
atleast a year and if it doesn't happen
then she will put her on some pills.
Well, good luck in whatever you decide to
do. Think and pray about this.
Teresa
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alwayzwonderin
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Joined: 31 Oct 2005 Posts: 9 Location: lancaster,california
Posted: 10-31-05 16:08pm
Thanks I have come to the conclusion that
it will happen when the time is right and
not to stress about it but he still wants
to try how do I explain this to him so
that he can see it from my point of view?
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wife2jason_mom2ryley
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Joined: 19 Sep 2005 Posts: 288 Location: Amherst VA
Posted: 10-31-05 16:39pm
Are you saying that you have decided to
wait to have a baby??
Teresa
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alwayzwonderin
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Posted: 10-31-05 16:45pm
Yea but i'm not sure how he'll take it.
Hes very understandin' but he really wants
this.
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wife2jason_mom2ryley
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Joined: 19 Sep 2005 Posts: 288 Location: Amherst VA
Posted: 10-31-05 17:07pm
Okay, how old is he?? Are both of you out
of school?? Do you both have good paying
jobs?? Sorry about all your
questions..I'm just trying to better
understand your situation. I'm 19 by the
way.
Teresa
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alwayzwonderin
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Posted: 10-31-05 17:15pm
Umm yea i'm out of school hes in the
military hes 24 i'm currently doing child
care.
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wife2jason_mom2ryley
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Joined: 19 Sep 2005 Posts: 288 Location: Amherst VA
Posted: 10-31-05 17:50pm
So, you know that the two of you can
support a child?? Are you guys living
together?? What does he say about wanting
a baby??
Teresa
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alwayzwonderin
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Posted: 10-31-05 18:19pm
Yes with out a doubt our child would be
supported. Yes we r living together. He
just want a family of his own and when we
first got together I was going threw
depression and told him I wouldn't feel
complete untill I had my husband and child
so i'm not to sure if thats why he wants
one or wat.
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wife2jason_mom2ryley
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Sep 2005 Posts: 288 Location: Amherst VA
Posted: 11-01-05 15:40pm
It sounds to me like he is just trying to
make you happy!! Sounds like a great guy.
You should tell him that for now you feel
complete with just him. (if that is the
case) and that you don't need him to be
your husband or need a baby yet. (once
again if that is how you feel.) I think he
will understand. Wow!!! It didn't take
you two long to find a place and get moved
in together!!! New relationships are
always so much fun!! Anyways, i'm sorry
to hear about your depression, I hope you
are better now. I just think that you
should spend more time with this guy, give
yoursleves a chance to experience life
together without a baby before you have
one. It's so hard to find time for each
other when a baby is in the picture.
Teresa
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alwayzwonderin
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Joined: 31 Oct 2005 Posts: 9 Location: lancaster,california
Posted: 11-01-05 16:04pm
Thank you so much teresa u've really
helped!! If u don't mind me asking r u
wht or blk?
