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monique3603
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Oct 2005 Posts: 7 Location: houston
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Please Help Me!!!
Posted: 10-31-05 22:25pm
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I am only 14 and me and my boyfriend just
recently had unprotected sex like a week
ago and he isnt quite sure if he had cum
in me or watever and we are scared that I
might be pregnant cuz I was suppose to be
getting my period on the 29 and I havent
got it or had any cramps or been cranky.
I am really scared and yeah I know I am
stupid for doing that at a young age but I
really need yalls help.
Thank u so much
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19mommy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Oct 2005 Posts: 179
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Posted: 11-01-05 03:21am
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I think you should just take a test.
Unless someone on the board is a ob/gyn we
cant say for sure. Well I hope you get
the answers you want
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monique3603
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Oct 2005 Posts: 7 Location: houston
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Posted: 11-01-05 17:32pm
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Yeah but I dont know how to get the test
cuz I would get caught cuz my mom dont
work and she is always home and especially
right now cuz she is sick
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Worried_preg
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Nov 2005 Posts: 11 Location: Rhode Island
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Posted: 11-01-05 18:44pm
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I would have your boyfriend pick one up
and take one at one of your closest
friends or maybe at your boyfriends
house.
Hun.....I've ben caught up in the moment
too..I am 18 and pregnant....But the only
advice I can give is please, please wear a
condom next time
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izaskizzer
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Nov 2005 Posts: 2
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Posted: 11-01-05 18:56pm
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Yer best bet is to get a test they're
fairly cheap, 10-20 $'s. If its + always
remember you have options and go to yer
local clinic. They'll help you and
usually for free, they'll tell you what
your options are. If its - you should
still go to your lacal clinic and set
yourself up for the future. You can get
free condoms, birth controll pills ect.
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19mommy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Oct 2005 Posts: 179
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Posted: 11-01-05 22:26pm
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| monique3603
wrote: | | yeah but I dont know how to
get the test cuz I would get caught cuz my
mom dont work and she is always home and
especially right now cuz she is
sick |
i know it sounds weird but if you buy a
test at the mall, you can take it in the
mall washroom. :shock:
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Worried_preg
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Nov 2005 Posts: 11 Location: Rhode Island
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Posted: 11-02-05 09:39am
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I think that many young girls are scared
to go to doctors or planned parenthood or
even ask their parents to go on birth
control becasue it is hard for some
paretns to adjust to the idea.
So I can understand where this girl is
comin from but like I have stated before
always use protection and nowadays girls
are actually ready with condoms rather
then the boys.
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Worried_preg
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Nov 2005 Posts: 11 Location: Rhode Island
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Posted: 11-02-05 13:31pm
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I was scared to tell my mom but I got over
that and now my mom is more supposrtive
also my whole family
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gaidens_momma
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Nov 2005 Posts: 4
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Re: Please Help Me!!!
Posted: 11-02-05 17:21pm
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| monique3603
wrote: | i am only 14 and me and my
boyfriend just recently had unprotected
sex like a week ago and he isnt quite sure
if he had cum in me or watever and we are
scared that I might be pregnant cuz I was
suppose to be getting my period on the 29
and I havent got it or had any cramps or
been cranky. I am really scared and yeah
I know I am stupid for doing that at a
young age but I really need yalls help.
Thank u so
much |
well, that can be very scray. The only
thing you can do is take a test and try
not to stress about it. Easier said then
done. Alot of stress can cause people to
have their period late.
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monique3603
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Oct 2005 Posts: 7 Location: houston
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Posted: 11-02-05 20:25pm
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Okay well thank u all guys. U really
helped me a lot and I told my cousin about
it so she is going to buy the test for me
and I am going to take it at her house.
But when I find out I will let u all know.
Thank u so much
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aprilb
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Nov 2005 Posts: 8
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Posted: 11-02-05 22:38pm
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I am 25 and married and pregnant. It cost
a lot of money to have a baby. We are
going to struggle for the next year or so
and you really aren't even old enough to
get any job much less a good paying job.
If you are not pregnant- please protect
yourself- I thought that I was in love
when I was your age and no one I know is
still with the boyfriend that they had at
14. You really do want to wait to have
sex when you are ready to handle the
consequences. If you are pregnant I would
suggest going to a clinic but also even
though you might not want to go to your
mom. She might be very, very angry with
you at first but if she loves you she will
help you out a lot.
If you are not pregnant please think about
your future- you are way too young to have
a baby right now- you should be having fun
going to school and playing sports or
going to proms- if you have a baby chances
are you will not be able to do those kinds
of things.
Also I know this is every womans decision-
but if you are pregnant think about
adoption before you would abortion- I seen
my baby on a sonogram at 6 weeks and the
heart was beating and it was moving
around. They are real and have heart
beats really early on.
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SadMommy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Sep 2005 Posts: 194 Location: California
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Posted: 11-04-05 18:57pm
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Go get a barbie and be a kid......... It
is so sad to see how fast we think we have
to grow up nowa days......
T~
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monique3603
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Oct 2005 Posts: 7 Location: houston
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Posted: 11-05-05 20:09pm
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Okay well I took a test .Finaly. And it
came out positive. So all I need to do is
try to tell my mom. Any ideas how???
Thanks. The mall tip really worked.
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monique3603
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Oct 2005 Posts: 7 Location: houston
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Posted: 11-09-05 17:16pm
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Hey well thank u. I told her and it wasnt
the easiest thing. And yeah u are right I
am her baby. I am the only girl and the
youngest in this hose except for my mom.
And my mom kinda understands wat I am
going through cuz she was only 16 when she
got married. And 17 when she was preg.
So yeah thank yall so much and if yall
still wanna keep in thouch with me and
know how I am doing than just e mail me at
renee_9
764@yahoo.Com and I will still keep
yall posted on all the news until the end
of all this drama and even after I go
through with having the baby. Thanks so
much!!! Luv ya all lots!!!!
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hollie686
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Oct 2005 Posts: 195 Location: USA
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Posted: 11-09-05 20:24pm
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Wow. I hope everything works out for you.
Keep us posted:)
hollie
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19mommy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Oct 2005 Posts: 179
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Posted: 11-09-05 21:10pm
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| monique3603
wrote: | | hey well thank u. I told
her and it wasnt the easiest thing. And
yeah u are right I am her baby. I am the
only girl and the youngest in this hose
except for my mom. And my mom kinda
understands wat I am going through cuz she
was only 16 when she got married. And 17
when she was preg. So yeah thank yall so
much and if yall still wanna keep in
thouch with me and know how I am doing
than just e mail me at renee_9
764@yahoo.Com and I will still keep
yall posted on all the news until the end
of all this drama and even after I go
through with having the baby. Thanks so
much!!! Luv ya all
lots!!!! |
now you can transfer to the teen pregnancy
forum. There are many girls around your
age I think 15 or soo...But I hope your
pregnancy goes easy for you and hope your
bf is supporting you. Its gonna be hard I
tell you that.
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monique3603
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Oct 2005 Posts: 7 Location: houston
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Posted: 11-10-05 17:27pm
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Ok well if I dont keep posted here I will
be in the teen preganancy forum but still
u can e mail me just in case. Luv yall
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