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Q: Please Help Me!!!
asked by: monique3603 on October 31st, 2005
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I am only 14 and me and my boyfriend just recently had unprotected sex like a week ago and he isnt quite sure if he had cum in me or watever and we are scared that I might be pregnant cuz I was suppose to be getting my period on the 29 and I havent got it or had any cramps or been cranky. I am really scared and yeah I know I am stupid for doing that at a young age but I really need yalls help.

Thank u so much
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19mommy
replied on November 1st, 2005
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I think you should just take a test. Unless someone on the board is a ob/gyn we cant say for sure. Well I hope you get the answers you want
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monique3603
replied on November 1st, 2005
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Yeah but I dont know how to get the test cuz I would get caught cuz my mom dont work and she is always home and especially right now cuz she is sick
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Worried_preg
replied on November 1st, 2005
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I would have your boyfriend pick one up and take one at one of your closest friends or maybe at your boyfriends house.

Hun.....I've ben caught up in the moment too..I am 18 and pregnant....But the only advice I can give is please, please wear a condom next time
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izaskizzer
replied on November 1st, 2005
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Yer best bet is to get a test they're fairly cheap, 10-20 $'s. If its always remember you have options and go to yer local clinic. They'll help you and usually for free, they'll tell you what your options are. If its - you should still go to your lacal clinic and set yourself up for the future. You can get free condoms, birth controll pills ect.
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19mommy
replied on November 1st, 2005
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monique3603 wrote:
yeah but I dont know how to get the test cuz I would get caught cuz my mom dont work and she is always home and especially right now cuz she is sick


i know it sounds weird but if you buy a test at the mall, you can take it in the mall washroom. :shock:
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Worried_preg
replied on November 2nd, 2005
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I think that many young girls are scared to go to doctors or planned parenthood or even ask their parents to go on birth control becasue it is hard for some paretns to adjust to the idea.

So I can understand where this girl is comin from but like I have stated before always use protection and nowadays girls are actually ready with condoms rather then the boys.
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Worried_preg
replied on November 2nd, 2005
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I was scared to tell my mom but I got over that and now my mom is more supposrtive also my whole family
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gaidens_momma
replied on November 2nd, 2005
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Re: Please Help Me!!!
monique3603 wrote:
i am only 14 and me and my boyfriend just recently had unprotected sex like a week ago and he isnt quite sure if he had cum in me or watever and we are scared that I might be pregnant cuz I was suppose to be getting my period on the 29 and I havent got it or had any cramps or been cranky. I am really scared and yeah I know I am stupid for doing that at a young age but I really need yalls help.

Thank u so much


well, that can be very scray. The only thing you can do is take a test and try not to stress about it. Easier said then done. Alot of stress can cause people to have their period late.
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monique3603
replied on November 2nd, 2005
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Okay well thank u all guys. U really helped me a lot and I told my cousin about it so she is going to buy the test for me and I am going to take it at her house. But when I find out I will let u all know. Thank u so much
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aprilb
replied on November 2nd, 2005
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I am 25 and married and pregnant. It cost a lot of money to have a baby. We are going to struggle for the next year or so and you really aren't even old enough to get any job much less a good paying job. If you are not pregnant- please protect yourself- I thought that I was in love when I was your age and no one I know is still with the boyfriend that they had at 14. You really do want to wait to have sex when you are ready to handle the consequences. If you are pregnant I would suggest going to a clinic but also even though you might not want to go to your mom. She might be very, very angry with you at first but if she loves you she will help you out a lot.
If you are not pregnant please think about your future- you are way too young to have a baby right now- you should be having fun going to school and playing sports or going to proms- if you have a baby chances are you will not be able to do those kinds of things.
Also I know this is every womans decision- but if you are pregnant think about adoption before you would abortion- I seen my baby on a sonogram at 6 weeks and the heart was beating and it was moving around. They are real and have heart beats really early on.
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SadMommy
replied on November 4th, 2005
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Go get a barbie and be a kid......... It is so sad to see how fast we think we have to grow up nowa days......


T~
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monique3603
replied on November 5th, 2005
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Okay well I took a test .Finaly. And it came out positive. So all I need to do is try to tell my mom. Any ideas how??? Thanks. The mall tip really worked.
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monique3603
replied on November 9th, 2005
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Hey well thank u. I told her and it wasnt the easiest thing. And yeah u are right I am her baby. I am the only girl and the youngest in this hose except for my mom. And my mom kinda understands wat I am going through cuz she was only 16 when she got married. And 17 when she was preg. So yeah thank yall so much and if yall still wanna keep in thouch with me and know how I am doing than just write me and I will still keep yall posted on all the news until the end of all this drama and even after I go through with having the baby. Thanks so much!!! Luv ya all lots!!!!
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hollie686
replied on November 9th, 2005
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Wow. I hope everything works out for you. Keep us posted:)
hollie
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19mommy
replied on November 9th, 2005
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monique3603 wrote:
hey well thank u. I told her and it wasnt the easiest thing. And yeah u are right I am her baby. I am the only girl and the youngest in this hose except for my mom. And my mom kinda understands wat I am going through cuz she was only 16 when she got married. And 17 when she was preg. So yeah thank yall so much and if yall still wanna keep in thouch with me and know how I am doing than just write me and I will still keep yall posted on all the news until the end of all this drama and even after I go through with having the baby. Thanks so much!!! Luv ya all lots!!!!


now you can transfer to the teen pregnancy forum. There are many girls around your age I think 15 or soo...But I hope your pregnancy goes easy for you and hope your bf is supporting you. Its gonna be hard I tell you that.
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monique3603
replied on November 10th, 2005
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Ok well if I dont keep posted here I will be in the teen preganancy forum but still u can e mail me just in case. Luv yall
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