Well everyone, today would have been my
sister-in-law, tiffaney, 22nd birthday.
My brother and his girlfriend are coming
to my house today to be with kaitlyn (my
nicec, josh and tiffaney's daughter).
They are bringing a cake and some balloons
for katy to "let go".
Well, I just wanted to share this with you
all since most of you are "family".
Happy birthday tik.
I love you,
chanda
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 12-08-03 16:55pm
Aww im so sorry. Hang in there chanda. I
know shes watching you and shes proud.
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sparklypixie12
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003 Posts: 3099
Posted: 12-08-03 17:05pm
Thanks so sad chanda I hope in time
that this becomes easier 4 ur family but
im sure it'll take a long time. I think
it's really nice that u do something on
her birthday 2 honour her.-dont 4get that
r loved ones r never far away,theyre
always watching over us.
Liz x
Joined: 01 Oct 2003 Posts: 811 Location: Brookfield, N.S.
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Posted: 12-08-03 19:43pm
It'll be ok sweetie! You're strong I know
you can get through this! **hugs** much
love girlie ~melissa
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CrombieChic16
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Oct 2003 Posts: 745
Posted: 12-09-03 10:20am
Chanda,
i'm here for you girl! I understand what
you're going through and those feelings
that just can't be expressed. I went
through the same thing 6 days ago, even
though I go through it everyday. I think
it's great that you did something in
memory of her. I'm sure it helped and
hurt at the same time...I know everybody
tells us it's going to be okay and it'll
get easier, but it doesn't. And I want
you to know that I know how you feel, and
i'm here for you anytime of the day or
night. I don't care if its 3 o clock in
the morning, if you need me, you call me.
Because I know grief doesn't go home after
a certain time, it's always there. But
know that even though tiffaney's not here
physically, she's with you inside, where
it counts. She watches over you everyday
and helps you make decisions, she's been
with you since the day she passed, and she
will continue to be with you until you
meet again. She'll be walking right
beside you down the aisle when you get
married, and when you have your babies,
she'll be there. She loves you chanda,
and that will never go away. I know I
feel jenna at times, i'll be looking at
her picture, or reading her letters, and I
just feel her. It doesn't seem real, but
it is. I know it's her. You need to
allow tiffaney to come through so that you
know she's okay. Don't be afraid of
death, because we don't die, we just go to
a better place. Our spirits are always
here, we just can't see them. Write down
how you feel when you get depressed, it'll
make you feel so much better. I have a
journal that I write in all the time
expressing my feelings. This isn't the
end chanda, in time the pain will heal,
and all that you'll have left are the
priceless memories of her, and all the
good times. Her smile, her laugh, the
scent of her perfume. All in time, those
things will make you smile again. Just
dont give up. I'm here for you though,
and if you ever need someone to talk to,
please don't hesitate. And I hope I can
do the same with you...Because I know
there are many times where I could use a
good friend to talk to. Keep your head
high okay? I'm gonna cry now...I love you
girl!
*big hugs to everyone*
nessa
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Yazmine
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Oct 2003 Posts: 156
Aw Posted: 12-09-03 18:59pm
Im sorry.....Im sure shes in a better
place watching over all of u!....Thast
sweet ur havin a lil mini party 4
her.....We're here if u need to
talk...Stay sweet hun!
I hope in time
that this becomes easier 4 ur family but
im sure it'll take a long time. I think
it's really nice that u do something on
her birthday 2 honour her.-dont 4get that
r loved ones r never far away,theyre
always watching over us.
