Chance of Pregnancy??? Please Help! Posted: 11-01-05 06:25am
So, I last night, I messed around with a
girl. Although we didn't have sex, I may
have ejaculated (i'm not sure if I held
back or not), then partially penbetrated
her for about 3 seconds. She then told me
she was ovulating. I have never been so
freaked out. What are the chances that
she will get pregnant? She said she is
opposed to the 72 hour pill, and I am
freaking out, because I don't want to have
a baby from just messing around with no
intercourse. Somebody please help!
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dudeman
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Posted: 11-01-05 08:33am
What are the chances of pregnancy? Has
anybody else had this happen? What were
the results?
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priscilla914
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Posted: 11-01-05 08:36am
Well if she was ovulating then yeah there
might be a big possiblity that she is but
if she told you that she was going to take
the morning after pill I dont think you
have nothing to worry about. So why dont
you just take a chill pill :lol:
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dudeman
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Posted: 11-01-05 08:39am
No, she told me she wouldn't take the 72
hour pill.
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mia7
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Posted: 11-01-05 08:40am
Well, the chances are usually slim....
But it could happen. Don't freak out
though.
I never kept track of when I was ovulating
or not but I am 3 and a half months
pregnant right now by my fiancee and when
I found out I was pregnant I couldn't
believe it. Why? Well because we were
trying not to mess around but one day we
kinda did. We began to do a little
something, but it was hurting as it was
going in. So we stopped........ And
that's it! I got pregnant lol! No
"actual intercourse" just the tip.
From what I know and hear it's not that
common to get pregnant like that and I
wouldn't worry about it too much.
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dudeman
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Posted: 11-01-05 08:43am
Ahhhh.
Thanks for peace of mind. I'll take any I
can get at this point...
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19mommy
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Posted: 11-01-05 09:51am
Dudeman, if she was ovulation then your
boys have a better chance of reaching her
girls. She may be pregnant. But why is
she opposed to the 72 hour pill? And make
her have a test when her period is getting
close I dont mean to be rude or step on
any toes, but do you trust her?
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dudeman
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Posted: 11-01-05 10:22am
I don't know why she's opposed to it.
She said she can't kill a baby, but to me,
it isn't any more of a person than it was
before we did anything. I don't feel
that I have any right to tell her what to
do with her body (one of many reasons I
don't support george w bush), but is there
a way to ask her without violating her
rights as a woman? I'm a college student
with plans to have a big family
(deifnitely not with her), but I can't
support a baby right now, and i'm afraid I
can't love one either. I told her I
don't want to be the father of a child who
I resent every time I see. I realize
that I wasn't ultra-responsible here, but
I also wasn't ultimately irresponsible.
I feel it's more irresponsible to bring a
child into the world that neither one of
us can care for than to take a 72 hour
pill. Am I wrong here? Also, how long
will it be before she can get a pregnancy
test?
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19mommy
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Posted: 11-01-05 11:04am
Well I dont think that the 72hour pill is
a form of termination, because you wouldnt
even know 100% sure if you are or arent
pregnant. But it has some side affects
which makes many women not want to take
it. I hear where your coming from, and I
understand why you wouldnt want a child,
but with you saying you dont want a big
family with her makes me feel in a way you
dont trust her. She can test at least 4
days before her next period with early
response, if she is then when she gets a
docs. Appt. Go with her to see how far
along she is and when you guys concieved,
if the ultrasound and the doctors
predictions dont match, I think you should
have a talk with her. But for now just be
calm and wait and pleaseee dont be a jerk
towards her
