Hey everyone! About a month ago I got
back with the guy I loved & the guy I
plan to spend my future with. I had to
break up with the guy I was with at the
time cause I missed my ex, he was creepin
around with another girl & we were
just having problems. Well, we went about
1 week without talking & he called my
best friend one night & I happened to
be with her so I got on the phone just to
see how he was doing. This guy claimed to
be inlove with me & always said he
couldn't survive without me. But yeah he
called me when I got home that night &
we talked for hours about life, and about
how much he really missed me & how
much he made a mistake by treating me the
way he did. He says i'm the best thing
that's ever happened to him. Well we
talked all the time for a few weeks &
he was planning on picking me up last
saturday but he got really sick, so I
understood why he couldn't make it. I
talked to him sunday while he was at work
& he was supposed to call me back
& he never has..I don't know. I
really miss this guy so much, I do. But
then again he seems like a player to
me..He treated me very well when we first
got together but he was scared I was going
to run back to my ex so he got scared. I
don't know what to do I miss him, I care
for him & I do love him. When we do
talk he always talks about getting
together & having a future together.
I already found the person I wanna do this
with but idk i'm really confused. Does
anyone have any advice at all?
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hellburn
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Sep 2005 Posts: 59 Location: vic australia
Posted: 11-02-05 03:12am
I had it. It just went bye byez. Sorry I
had like the best advice and the it
justwent on holidays. Mind blank. My
bad. Um... Just go with the flow???
Sorry I couldn't help more. If it come
back to me i'll let ya no.
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hellburn
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Sep 2005 Posts: 59 Location: vic australia
Posted: 11-04-05 10:40am
Well I still can't remember but live life
the way you want to ive it and not the way
everyone else does. So if you have an
inner loony let it out and be a loony.
:d
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Dianegirl85
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Nov 2005 Posts: 28 Location: Fort Smith, Arkansas
Posted: 11-16-05 15:20pm
No matther what, I wil tell you my story
about my ex-boyfriend fell in love like a
crazy! He told me when he turn 24 years
old he will buy house. He was 20 and I
was 16! That look like he turn 24 and I
turn 20 years old. Sound like he want
to ask me to marry him!
I really can't wait to be with him all
my heart I really love him so much. He
told me he really want me to go to live
with him he want us to be together. The
problem is now it broken, everybody are
trying my ex-boyfriend and me to break up
because of he too old for me and I am too
young for him. Then he leaving me!!
:cry: I lost him I don't know where he
live, I can't find his phone number too.
He gone! ::cry:: I still love him so
much as I know he still loves me so much
too. My parents are forced him to leave
me too because of too old for me. I am
still maddest of people make us to break
up! I am really mad!!
But I feel maybe my parent were right
he using me but inside to my heart I knew
he loves me so much. My parent told me he
using you and too old for you. If you
ask him to marry you, he says he is not
ready, in 2 years later, ask marry again,
he still said not ready? Sounds like he
dont want to marry you because he didn't
want to hurt your feeling. If you want
him to come see him. He got sick, he
didn't want to see you maybe? I know he
love you and you love him in beleives so
much of loves mad. People says they got
break up if it really scared. You will
never know what will be together or break
up. It is your choice which one you
want your ex-boyfriend back or you want
stay with him. Thinking about it what
you want the best of your life. I know
it is hard to thinking. Feel like what
you belelive or doubit (using or truly)
to your heart you feel and thinking about
it. Good luck to you of your choice!!
( yeah, we are break up, we are not
finish talk about he want break up with me
or not but I knew he left me)
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~baby~g~
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Jul 2005 Posts: 221 Location: Ohio
Posted: 11-17-05 12:08pm
Hey thanks for the advice!! I'm still a
little confused about this situation but I
kinda just put it in the back of my head.
I'm still with my bf, things are a little
bumpy with us but everything is starting
to get better. I talked to the ex on
monday *the first time in 2wks* and he
told me that he needs to know if there is
a chance that him & I will ever get
back together...I seriously don't know
& I told him that...I still miss him
& care about him but I couldn't
imagine life without my bf in it...I need
my ex in my life though because he was the
one I could always run to with my problems
& he would always comfort me with his
touch & caring words..I've been waking
up crying because I had a dream about him
or I see his picture & I loose it.
It's so confusing...I need them both but I
can't have both of them..My bf now we've
been together 10 months tomorrow &
we've only been broken up about 2-3 wks in
those 10 months. I'm really attached to
him but i'm emotionally attached to my ex!
I haven't talked to him since monday
& he said he would 'try' to get ahold
of me sometime, that really upset me
because if he loved me so much wouldn't he
be doing more then what he is or he says
he doesn't want to inerfere with my mine
& my bf's realtionship which I have to
respect him for. He tells me his house is
so lonely without me & he can't even
look at another girl without seeing my
face. Mind you he's 20 & i'm 16.
Another thing keeping me with my bf is
that I may be pregnant with his child..I
couldn't leave him, I want my baby to have
it's mommy & daddy together and
happy..Ahh idk lol!
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Kgirl16
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Nov 2005 Posts: 137 Location: Canada
Posted: 11-18-05 14:01pm
Okay look I completely understand your
situation. First of all, find out if
you're pregnant, and depending on your
morals and values I suggest an abortion
for 2 reasons: not only are you still in
love with someone else and too young to
care for the baby, but secondly...You're
too young to care for a baby! I
personally don't know you and i'm sure
you're a very nice girl, all I mean is a
16 year old needs to live out their young
adult years and party and go crazy. Don't
fantasize about "ouu mommy loves daddy and
baby loves everyone" and so on. Please,
think with a realistic future in mind.
About the boys, just think about who you
get along with more, who you have more in
common with, who you're with when you're
happiest, why this person makes you happy,
and how you would feel if one of them was
with someone else.
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SadiyahBaby
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Oct 2005 Posts: 27
Posted: 11-18-05 14:48pm
Ok I suggest you be with the one you
trurly love b/c your not doing your
current relationship any favours if your
in love with someone else... I don't
think you need to stay with your current
b/f just cause you think your pregnant
..You will regert it if you do... But I
don't suggest and abortion like kgirl16
that's just stupid... You decided to open
up your legs and have sex at 16...
Knowing that there is a big chance of you
getting pregnant now deal with what you
have done...Don't run to abortion b/c you
feel its easier...
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~baby~g~
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Jul 2005 Posts: 221 Location: Ohio
Posted: 11-18-05 22:36pm
I know, I would never have an
abortion...Im not preggo ne ways, I
started my . ! Im gonna stay with my bf
now..He was my first love, we've been
together for 10 months today..And he's
just great. I just really miss my ex
cause we were so close but we're not
anymore, I guess its just part of getting
over someone? This guy i'm with now were
just meant for each other..We've been
through so much together & I can't
give it up for some jerk off ex..I know
i'm only 16 but i've been through a lot
with guys and this one makes me sooo
happy...And he's been talking about
engagement when he turns 18 in about a
year...I can't wait...So i've made up my
mind...!! Thanks for all the advice
though girls!
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heather200718
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Aug 2006 Posts: 14 Location: elizaville
Hey Posted: 08-16-06 01:23am
I kissed my ex and he kissed me and he has
a gf is that called cheating or no I need
to know
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pretty_baby
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Aug 2006 Posts: 12
Posted: 08-16-06 02:36am
For me I think it is cheating going out
with him knowing that your in a
relationship is a big "cheating". At this
moment it also an eyeopener letting you
realize who is really the one you love.
It is ok to make a white lie but be sure
that you'll tell your bf what is your true
feeling for him. Be honest with yourself
you'll hurt both yourself and your man.
