Major Ed Problem

How often do you masturbate/ejaculate?

Now, not at all, nothing, before two months maybe once a week

Can anyone give me any advice or details

What are you masturbaiting to?

You might of swiched and now are in need of something different, maybe more fetish.

I dont masturbate at all for the past two months, I have a hard time making it through each day. Last night I had a break down, and couldt stop thinking about suicide. Today I feel a little bit better and made an appointment with a counselor but its three weeks away. The only thing stopping me from suicide is that I dont want to hurt my parents.

You are doing the best thing you can if your thinking about suicide and that's going to see a counselor.

Does know one else have this problem, or any one gotten over it. Is this permanent?

I am no doctor so take my advice for what it's worth. If the wellbutrin is currently working continue taking it until you visit the counselor as they will have advice that will help you get through your situation. The problem with prescription medication is that it can make you dependant and the feelings you have now may be influenced entirely by the drugs. My girlfriend used to take mood enhancing medications. I could see her emotions change on a daily basis and her sex drive was slim to none. When she stopped taking the medication she went into a deep state of depression, so from what I have seen first hand this is a normal experience. Your body is going through a state of withdrawal and craving the feeling you have when you are on the drugs. She is now completely off the medication and her mood has completely stabilized. Take a deep look at your life and all of the things you find negative and positive about it. Focus on the positives and the things you enjoyed doing before taking the drugs. Explore some new hobbies and keep your mind active. Suicide is not the answer. Stay strong and fight any negative urges you may have. Your sex drive will return and you will be a stronger person in the end. I hope this helps.

Hey man

it actually makes me feel bad to read what your going thru I want to let you know that I had similiar issues and I got past them and improved, and u can as well

my email is beant owninfl@yahoo.Com

beleive me i've been thru hell and came back and it was a long process because I tried many things till I found out what worked for me

i've found a few things that helped me out.



1. You must fix what probably is now a chemical imbalance in your head, so you can think more clearly there are some legal supplements that can help you

2. You must fix the pain from past memories that puts fear in your mind, u can, and think of more resourceful ideas related to your goals,u should google emotional freedom technique Dr. Mercola

3. U should take up exercise and running and eating better, this will heal your body



and listen to what the guy before my post said that's some good advice

You wanna die just because your weiner wont jump up on command or at all?

Go overdose on some viagra boy!

I got the same thing man

im 20/m/virgin

Are you thinking about commiting suicide too, or just have the same sexual problem as him?

The ssri you are on is most likely causing the erectile dysfunction. This is a common side effect. Perhaps change you anti depressant and see if that helps?

I just now started taking the wellbutrin and have had the ed problem for the past year and a half without the ssris. The only thing I remeber that happened before the ed was having nose surgery. Is that a possible cause?

Hi there! You are not alone in either situations but it is not worth throwing your life away which you understand that.
It does take a while for some of the anti-depressants, anti-anxiety meds to take full effect, you might talk to your regular dr see if he wants to change or add some meds, just be up-front with him espccially if he is the one wwho prescribed the meds and if your counselor did prescribe them. Let his office staff give him a message from you about what is going on .I do agree though with cd998776..

Sandyallen is right, speak to your doctor about the meds.

The meds I was on for surgery I took for about three days after surgery and then stopped and a week later is when the ed occured during sex. I have been on wellbutrin for the past month, but in between I was on no drugs and the ed has still been there for the past year and a half.

Has anyone heard of prolactin. People are saying I should get it tested as high levels of prolactin can cause ed, loos of sex drive and other things. Is this something to look into or should I just focus on mental state of mind?

Goin through same caca as you, bout 8 months now. Done all the tests read everything and seem to be currently improving.
Ok prolactin
yes really high levels of prolactin do kill libido. The chances of having such ridiculously high prolactin levels are slim to none. Literally I mean you prolly have a better chance of winning the lottery then suffering from that.
Nothing wrong with you physically it's all mental. Trust me on this. The bad part is since it's mental it's so hard getting through it. I don't got time now but imma try to write you a long post on my experience because its like yours, one day I just lost everything and it never came back.
Just remember, it's mental the more you think it's anything else the harder it becomes. It took me months of uncertainty to figure that out and when I finally did and believed myself thats when progress started to happen. I had no clue how powerfull the mind is, I always thought the desire to have sex was an irresistable physical force that overroad all else and could not be ignored or reduced until satisfied. For now relax, you will get better takes time but you will.