Lilypad
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Location: Ohio, USA
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Life Is So Unfair
Posted: 11-02-05 01:26am
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Why why why does my friend get pregnant
during a time she cheated on her husband
why does my other friend get pregnant
accidently
why does my old roomate who doesnt even
have custody of her 5 year old (he is with
her parents 2 hours a way) and who has had
2 doing it abortions get pregnant with her
"man of the month"
and then there is me...Happily married
for 2 years, 27 years old, healthy, lose
my first pregnancy at 5 months due to a
rare umbilical cord accident and now
trying again for 2 months...Why cant I
just have a baby
too???????????????????????????????????????
???????????????????
I am so heartbroked and jealus...Why not
me? Sorry I just needed to vent, I am
feeling so emotional and frustrated. :(
:( :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:
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19mommy
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Posted: 11-02-05 01:50am
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Im really sorry to hear about your loss.
But dont stress, it will come and you will
have a beautiful baby :)
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Lilypad
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Posted: 11-02-05 01:51am
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Thanks for replying...Having a hard day :(
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nnclyn
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
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Posted: 11-02-05 07:19am
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Ugh lily...It is so hard. Thing is the
people who get pregnant asap are the ones
that are so vocal. Those of us who have
a hard time getting pg end up holding it
in and keeping quiet...But you'd be
suprised at how many of "us" there are.
I am close with 5 gf's and three of us had
major if problems. Another of them had
bad endo. That means only one of this
group of friends conceived easily.
I hope you're feeling better today!
Nancy
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michelle1981
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Posted: 11-02-05 07:50am
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Hey lily....Keep smiling, your day will
come!
I'm thinking about you, and wishing you
all the baby dust in the world!
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pinkdragoneye
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Location: surrey
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Posted: 11-02-05 10:07am
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I'm so sorry to hear that.. I no kind of
how you feel.. My brother and his
girlfriend havebeen together for about 4
months she was on the pill but cause of
antibitotics she feel pregnent
accidently.. Also his girlfriend is not
nice and slept around alot
me and my boyfriend have been together 1
year and a half and been trying to get
pregnent for 3-4 months i'm still not
pregnent
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Lilypad
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Posted: 11-03-05 08:54am
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Thank you all for your support!!! I am
feeling better now I was just having a bad
day again. Its only been 3 months or so
since we lost joseph and I think that I am
still a little tender. I guess I just
need to relax...Technically we have only
been really trying again for like a month
so I dont know why I get so impatient.
But I will take all the baby dust I can
get !! :)
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michelle1981
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Posted: 11-03-05 10:40am
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You're allowed to be impatient about
it.... Anyone can understand that!
Take care of yourself.... If you need to
talk, i'm here :)
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Lilypad
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Posted: 11-03-05 10:45am
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| michelle1981
wrote: | you're allowed to be
impatient about it.... Anyone can
understand that!
Take care of yourself.... If you need to
talk, i'm here
:) |
thank you I just might take you up on
that
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michelle1981
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Posted: 11-03-05 11:01am
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| lilypad
wrote: |
thank you I just might take you up on
that |
i can relate a little; I lost mine in june
at 13 weeks :(
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Lilypad
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michelle1981
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SadMommy
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Posted: 11-03-05 19:03pm
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Hey lily and michelle,
i am right there with you girls, most
things don't make sense to me
anymore.......... All these women that
really could care less have babies at the
drop of a hat and were are longing and
hurting........I have to believe (or I
will really go insane) that everything is
meant to be. Lily, your time will come
and just think of how happy you are going
to be, nothing will replace your baby but
waiting for something for so long makes it
that much better when you get it! I will
be think of you girls tonight while I am
cooking dinner!!!
~~~baby dust~~~~~
t~ :lol:
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michelle1981
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Posted: 11-03-05 19:32pm
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Very cute tammy :lol:
i also believe that things happen for a
reason. Life isn't perfect....When we are
put to the test, we either fail or become
stronger. Let strength win!
Good luck girls :)
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Lilypad
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Posted: 11-04-05 08:42am
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I am trying to be stronger but sometimes I
think why did I lose my baby? He was
healthy and so am i. Why would this
happen to me?? I just feel like there is
a reason and its bothering me because I
dont know why,
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SadMommy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
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Posted: 11-04-05 13:58pm
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It bothers you because you long for your
baby. I am so sorry you feel that pain, I
know it all to well myself. I am getting
alittle stronger but I have my days were I
just want to scream..............
It is hardest for me when I get my period,
because I work myself up by thinking this
will be the month.........And
nothing.......... :cry:
i am glad you are talking about it though,
it always makes it easier when you can
verbalize what you are feeling.
How is your day going today? I really was
thinking of you girls when I was frying my
porkchops!!!!
Love, tammy
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jenn_smithson
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Posted: 11-04-05 20:43pm
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Stress can do some amazing things to the
body even when we don't realize it.
Working yourself up and getting your hopes
up for a pregnancy is putting more stress
onto your body. This stress will likely
make it harder for you to conceive. My
best advice to you would be to relax and
to enjoy the act of trying to conceive.
Your body will respond better to your
efforts if you are relaxed, receptive, and
willing to shake off negative thoughts and
feelings when (if) your period does
arrive. Enjoy the sex while you can.
God knows it's hard to get in the mood
with a child in the house. Best of
luck!
Peace,
jenn
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Jessica_CF20
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
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Location: NM
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Preg.
Posted: 11-04-05 21:18pm
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Hey girls I am usually on this site for
other reasons but today I came to this
forum and I am sorry about you losses. I
believe there is a plan for each of us and
we can't always see it but when the time
is right for each of us we will indeed
carry the one thing we desire the most in
this world. I am 20 yrs old I have been
with my hubby for a yr and a half but we
have been trying for 8 mon and no luck and
I too get depressed when I get my period
but then I remember that its just not my
time but when my time does come as each of
yours will how great that day will be.
Keep the faith and in time it will happen
maybe when you least expect it lol good
luck to you all and always god bless
jessica
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michelle1981
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Re: Preg.
Posted: 11-04-05 21:31pm
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| jessica_cf20
wrote: | hey girls I am usually on
this site for other reasons but today I
came to this forum and I am sorry about
you losses. I believe there is a plan
for each of us and we can't always see it
but when the time is right for each of us
we will indeed carry the one thing we
desire the most in this world. I am 20
yrs old I have been with my hubby for a yr
and a half but we have been trying for 8
mon and no luck and I too get depressed
when I get my period but then I remember
that its just not my time but when my time
does come as each of yours will how great
that day will be. Keep the faith and in
time it will happen maybe when you least
expect it lol good luck to you all and
always god bless
jessica |
thanx jessica... Good luck to you too :)
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Lilypad
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Location: Ohio, USA
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Posted: 11-05-05 02:33am
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Thanks that is good advice. And I know it
is so true. So I am trying to relax.
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