michelle1981
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What Ever Happened to Cooties???
Posted: 11-02-05 19:47pm
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Not sure how to handle this......My six
year old son came up to me today and asked
if he could write a letter to his
girlfriend...Yes I said girlfriend(read my
heading again), because he is too shy to
tell her he loves her. I was completely
dumbfound :shock:
after I picked my mouth up off the ground
I told him I will speak with him
tomorrow....
How would any mothers out there deal with
this...What would you say to him?
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19mommy
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Re: What Ever Happened to Cooties???
Posted: 11-02-05 21:09pm
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| michelle1981
wrote: | not sure how to handle
this......My six year old son came up to
me today and asked if he could write a
letter to his girlfriend...Yes I said
girlfriend(read my heading again), because
he is too shy to tell her he loves her.
I was completely dumbfound :shock:
after I picked my mouth up off the ground
I told him I will speak with him
tomorrow....
How would any mothers out there deal with
this...What would you say to
him? |
that is sooooo cute, lol....But now a days
children are getting older mentally I dont
know what it is, maybe the water lol but I
would ask him about him gf dont make him
feel as if what he did was wrong, itss
just puppy love nothing more, but if they
did get married that would be great!! Lol
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michelle1981
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Re: What Ever Happened to Cooties???
Posted: 11-02-05 21:16pm
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| 19mommy
wrote: | | that is sooooo cute,
lol....But now a days children are getting
older mentally I dont know what it is,
maybe the water lol but I would ask him
about him gf dont make him feel as if what
he did was wrong, itss just puppy love
nothing more, but if they did get married
that would be great!!
Lol |
it's so strange, I asked about his gf when
he first told me about her(a week ago).
He even pointed her out to me at school.
I asked him why does he feel he needs a gf
now, and he said because she already had a
bf(???) and because she is cute! I was so
caught off guard :lol:
i guess I should let him write his
letter.....
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Posted: 11-02-05 21:31pm
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I remember when I was that age...(imagine
that) and there were 2 girls and 2 boys in
our class that were boyfriend/girlfriend
and every week they'd trade. We saw the
older kids doing that and wanted to be
cool so we had girlfriends and boyfriends
because that's what grown-ups did.
Nothing really, just the i'll sit by you
at lunch and stuff, then to be dramatic
they'd break up for a day and make a big
huge make up thing. No mushy stuff, just
for fun. We even had weddings on the
playground at recess, pastor and all!
It's just kids wanting to be cool in the
sight of those big kids probably.
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Posted: 11-02-05 21:35pm
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| chrissy721
wrote: | | i remember when I was that
age...(imagine that) and there were 2
girls and 2 boys in our class that were
boyfriend/girlfriend and every week they'd
trade. We saw the older kids doing that
and wanted to be cool so we had
girlfriends and boyfriends because that's
what grown-ups did. Nothing really,
just the i'll sit by you at lunch and
stuff, then to be dramatic they'd break up
for a day and make a big huge make up
thing. No mushy stuff, just for fun.
We even had weddings on the playground at
recess, pastor and all! It's just kids
wanting to be cool in the sight of those
big kids
probably. |
ya, I guess that makes sense.
How old are you chrissy? I have no
recollection of that....Maybe i'm too old
:lol:
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19mommy
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Re: What Ever Happened to Cooties???
Posted: 11-02-05 21:36pm
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| michelle1981
wrote: | | 19mommy
wrote: | | that is sooooo cute,
lol....But now a days children are getting
older mentally I dont know what it is,
maybe the water lol but I would ask him
about him gf dont make him feel as if what
he did was wrong, itss just puppy love
nothing more, but if they did get married
that would be great!!
Lol |
it's so strange, I asked about his gf when
he first told me about her(a week ago).
He even pointed her out to me at school.
I asked him why does he feel he needs a gf
now, and he said because she already had a
bf(???) and because she is cute! I was
so caught off guard :lol:
i guess I should let him write his
letter..... |
yah let him write his letter, but look
over it....We you dont wanna be a
grandmother now lol...Just playing
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michelle1981
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Posted: 11-02-05 21:47pm
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Yea barbara, I don't need to be a nana
anytime soon....As you see making babies
come younger now a days :lol:
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Posted: 11-02-05 21:55pm
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Well he is too young to make you a grammy
anyways...Let the kid write the letter its
only puppy love and its cute.
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Posted: 11-02-05 22:02pm
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| luv4kyle2007
wrote: | | well he is too young to make
you a grammy anyways...Let the kid write
the letter its only puppy love and its
cute. |
we were just playing....I know I can't
become a grandma now :lol:
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Posted: 11-03-05 10:59am
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Just an update: brian wrote the letter, it
stated "i love you, from brian"
he handed it to her today at school and
she told him she didn't want it....It
crushed him...He started to cry
i'm broken-hearted...It crushed me too :(
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Posted: 11-03-05 12:40pm
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Poor little guy.....I'm 21 but my class
had only 17 kids in it, so I can remember
alot because they went to school with me
until I graduated, and i'm still friends
with those kids. Only one of them had
babies, which happened before we
graduated, but he's doing well, married
the girl and is a great daddy. The other
ones are in college or working somewhere
and not married yet, or even dating for
that matter. :d
your little boy sounds so sweet.
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Posted: 11-03-05 13:50pm
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| michelle1981
wrote: | just an update: brian wrote
the letter, it stated "i love you, from
brian"
he handed it to her today at school and
she told him she didn't want it....It
crushed him...He started to cry
i'm broken-hearted...It crushed me too
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oh poor sweetie...
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Posted: 11-03-05 16:31pm
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| chrissy721
wrote: | | poor little guy.....Your
little boy sounds so
sweet. |
he's so sensitive....Which is a great
quality at times, but annoying at others.
I haven't heard anything new yet...He's
still at school. I really hope he's ok.
He's going to need more hugs today, I
just know it! :d
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Posted: 11-03-05 21:31pm
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| michelle1981
wrote: | just an update: brian wrote
the letter, it stated "i love you, from
brian"
he handed it to her today at school and
she told him she didn't want it....It
crushed him...He started to cry
i'm broken-hearted...It crushed me too
:( |
awwwwwwwwww, thats terrible, but your
little boy is a cutie he'll bounce
back...I bet she wasnt that cute anyways
:x
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Posted: 11-03-05 21:49pm
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| jlee77
wrote: | awww....Poor baby. I hope
he did fine at school today. Give your
little boy xoxoxxo for me. I have a 6
month old and that would crush my heart
too!
I'm demanding my son never associate with
girls. Haha,
kidding! |
he's determined to get her!!! They sit
beside each other in computers so he says
he wants to try again :lol:
good luck with the girl thing... Well it
could happen... Lol....Jj
regarding the kisses and hugs.... I'm
lucky he still wants them(even at school)
thanx jamie
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Posted: 11-03-05 21:51pm
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| 19mommy
wrote: | | awwwwwwwwww, thats terrible,
but your little boy is a cutie he'll
bounce back...I bet she wasnt that cute
anyways :x |
thanx barbara....Lol
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