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Kimwall27606
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Joined: 02 Nov 2005
Posts: 33
Location: raleigh nc
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15 & Pregnant to
Posted: 11-02-05 21:13pm
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Look I have been reading what all the
girls have been telling every one give up
your baby or you dont' know how to take
care of a baby or what are your parents
gonna say thats bull s#!* its not your
place to tell them what to do I am 40
weeks pregnant today and I didn't tell my
parents till I was 5 months and I live
with my mom and she was devistated and my
dad said that I needed to throw my baby in
a trash can well then 2 weeks later they
came to reality after yelling at me for
two weeks straight and they are both
helping me in any and every way that they
can and I am not with the babys daddy hes
18 and I dont' care about him any more he
cheated on me with my 14 year old cousin
his mom hates me because im white and she
don't belive in mixing races or what ever
so young girls can do it I did it well not
delivery yet but I know that I can just
have faith in your self and dont' let
other people put you down
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BareBackJack
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Joined: 03 Nov 2005
Posts: 15
Location: Ontario
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Amen
Posted: 11-03-05 09:44am
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Excellent point. You can't generalize
everyone into one catergory. It may be a
struggle, but young moms stilll have a
fighting chance.
Glad to hear your parents came around,
now i'm not so scared to tell mine...I
know they'll freak, but hopefully they'll
come to their senses too
best of luck with your pregnancy
jackie
xox
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oh_mommy
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Joined: 04 Sep 2005
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Location: vancouver island, bc canada
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Posted: 11-05-05 02:23am
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Yeah telling your parents can be scary.
It would be differnt if u were marriedfor
a year or two then your parents would be
way more accepting, but if you a teen
living at home your parents freak. If I
end up being preg, my dad will freak but
not say much, its my grandparents who will
bite my head off, as for my mom I think
she will be the most accepting of my
family. I know my brothers will also yell
at me. As for my bf's family, that just
scares me even more
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Baby_Girl12306
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Joined: 30 Oct 2005
Posts: 11
Location: Kansas City, Mo
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Posted: 11-06-05 16:24pm
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Im in the same situation as you are im
fifteen but I am 29 weeks I am still with
my babys daddy but for me to tell my
parents I didnt tell them that I was
pregnant til I was 5 months pregnant
because thats when I started to show good
luck to you if you need any one to talk to
im here because I get the situation that
you are in
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ryansmommy16
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Joined: 03 Nov 2005
Posts: 72
Location: alabama
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Posted: 11-06-05 20:25pm
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Hi. Everybody my name is tiffany and I
have a 7 month old. He was born april 6,
2005. I have now found myself pregnant
again. I was on birth control but I had
to stop because it made me so moody and
sick. So as soon as I was able to make
another doctors appointment for another
kind I found myself pregnant. Today I am
11 weeks. I got pregnant with my first
when I was 15 I had him at 16. I am now
16 I will be 17 dec. 8. Being a young
mom has been hard but also joyful. I love
my son with all my heart and I know I
would have never been able to give him up
or abort him. But hey i'm running around
in circles what I started writing for is
to tell all of you pregnant or new teen
moms there is a great yahoo support group
that you should join. I love all the
girls on there. If you are interested pm
me or e-mail me at tiffson1
5@yahoo.Com. C-ya.
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CHERYLANNB
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Joined: 31 Oct 2005
Posts: 31
Location: MA.
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Re: 15 & Pregnant to
Posted: 11-06-05 22:51pm
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| kimwall27606
wrote: | | look I have been reading
what all the girls have been telling every
one give up your baby or you dont' know
how to take care of a baby or what are
your parents gonna say thats bull s#!* its
not your place to tell them what to do I
am 40 weeks pregnant today and I didn't
tell my parents till I was 5 months and I
live with my mom and she was devistated
and my dad said that I needed to throw my
baby in a trash can well then 2 weeks
later they came to reality after yelling
at me for two weeks straight and they are
both helping me in any and every way that
they can and I am not with the babys daddy
hes 18 and I dont' care about him any more
he cheated on me with my 14 year old
cousin his mom hates me because im white
and she don't belive in mixing races or
what ever so young girls can do it I did
it well not delivery yet but I know that I
can just have faith in your self and dont'
let other people put you
down |
go to barnes n
noble.Com, buy the book by laura
schlessinger "stupid things parents do to
mess up their kids", I think you'll like
it.
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michelle1981
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Re: 15 & Pregnant to
Posted: 11-06-05 23:13pm
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| cherylannb
wrote: | | go to barnes n noble.Com,
buy the book by laura schlessinger "stupid
things parents do to mess up their kids",
I think you'll like
it. |
chery.... Eat sh*t k!!!
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michelle1981
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Re: 15 & Pregnant to
Posted: 11-06-05 23:15pm
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| kimwall27606
wrote: | | look I have been reading
what all the girls have been telling every
one give up your baby or you dont' know
how to take care of a baby or what are
your parents gonna say thats bull s#!* its
not your place to tell them what to do I
am 40 weeks pregnant today and I didn't
tell my parents till I was 5 months and I
live with my mom and she was devistated
and my dad said that I needed to throw my
baby in a trash can well then 2 weeks
later they came to reality after yelling
at me for two weeks straight and they are
both helping me in any and every way that
they can and I am not with the babys daddy
hes 18 and I dont' care about him any more
he cheated on me with my 14 year old
cousin his mom hates me because im white
and she don't belive in mixing races or
what ever so young girls can do it I did
it well not delivery yet but I know that I
can just have faith in your self and dont'
let other people put you
down |
you can do it hun... Be proud of
yourself.... Don't let anyone bring you
down :)
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Kimwall27606
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Nov 2005
Posts: 33
Location: raleigh nc
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Thanks
Posted: 11-22-05 00:18am
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Thanks 2 every1 that posted I had my baby
nov. 6 he weighed 7lbs 5 oz it was not as
painfull as I thought it would be I had no
pain meds. I got there at 8am and had him
at 10:16 am when I got there I was dialted
8cm so if you want pain meds. Go when you
start having contractions well..... I
didn't even know that they were
contractions ....I was only pushing for 5
mins. Only 5 pushes when they tell you to
push make sure you push during a
contraction and push till you can't breath
no more thats what I did and belive me it
worked so if you need any advice or have
any questions pm me or e mail me at kimwa
ll27606@yahoo.Com and thanks again
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CASEY217
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Joined: 14 Nov 2005
Posts: 10
Location: Canada
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Hey...
Posted: 11-22-05 00:29am
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This is for kimwall...How did you gather
up the courage to tell your parents???
Im 16 and about 1 and 1/2 months pregnant
(as far as I know) and I really dont know
what to say. I still havent decided if I
want to keep the baby or not (i know my
boyfriend doesnt want me to but yea...).
I dont think I can go through an abortion.
I really feel strong about keeping this
baby. But yea...I just dont know how to
go about telling my parents. I dunno how
all you gurls have gathered up the courage
to tell them?? Please...Write back.
Kayla
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Audrie
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Joined: 16 Nov 2005
Posts: 14
Location: Marlin, Texas
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Posted: 11-22-05 10:34am
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Hey im about 25 weeks and I didnt tell
anyone until I was about 4 1/2 months. I
was scared to tell my family which who
took it really good. And im with my
baby's daddy and his family was not so
shocked about it neither. Well we've
been together off and on for about 3
years, so I think that broke the ice!!!
If yall need anythinkg just tell me!!
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michelle1981
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Re: Thanks
Posted: 11-22-05 11:46am
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| kimwall27606
wrote: | | thanks 2 every1 that posted
I had my baby nov. 6 he weighed 7lbs 5
oz it was not as painfull as I thought it
would be I had no pain meds. I got there
at 8am and had him at 10:16 am when I got
there I was dialted 8cm so if you want
pain meds. Go when you start having
contractions well..... I didn't even
know that they were contractions ....I was
only pushing for 5 mins. Only 5 pushes
when they tell you to push make sure you
push during a contraction and push till
you can't breath no more thats what I did
and belive me it worked so if you need any
advice or have any questions pm me or e
mail me at kimwa
ll27606@yahoo.Com and thanks
again |
congrats!
Good luck :d
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diamondsz
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Posted: 11-22-05 16:05pm
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Congrats!!!!
Yeah the pain isnt as bad as everyone
usually makes it sounds, good luck and
try to get as much sleep as possible, it
is possible and power nap if you can any
sleeps helps!!!
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