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chrisgirl

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Posted: 11-02-05 23:45pm

How can I get my man to want a baby and get married I don't know what to say? To him I really want to tell him how I really feel and everyday i'm so depressed :cry:
just because hes not ready I love him and he loves me but hes not ready to make a move yet y?
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michelle1981

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Posted: 11-02-05 23:49pm

Don't pressure your bf to get married and have a baby with you. You'll probably scare him away with all that baby talk...How old are you?
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Lilypad

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Posted: 11-03-05 11:02am

Slooooooooooooooowwwww down or you will drive him away
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Zengki

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Posted: 11-03-05 14:55pm

Most guys are just not ready for commitment... I mean like babies and marriage... I know you are but don't push him! It will drive him crazy and he may just leave you. Just take things one day at a time and just have fun for now. Like lily I think said sloooooooooooooowwwwwwwwwwwww down!!!
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oh_mommy

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Posted: 11-04-05 20:01pm

Thats not neccarrily true, in my case, my boyfriend would love for all that to happen, but im not old enough, and we want to wait awhile before we do let that happen, maybe try bringing the subject up just a lil and make it sound like a couple years from now, see what he says.
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michelle1981

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Posted: 11-04-05 20:45pm

oh_mommy wrote:
thats not neccarrily true, in my case, my boyfriend would love for all that to happen, but im not old enough, and we want to wait awhile before we do let that happen, maybe try bringing the subject up just a lil and make it sound like a couple years from now, see what he says.


i got engaged and pregnant at 17.... But she wants her bf to feel the way she does.... And if you read her post again, he's not ready.
You can't push something on someone that isn't ready. The only thing she'll be doing is pushing him out of her life!
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Lilypad

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Posted: 11-05-05 04:05am

michelle1981 wrote:
oh_mommy wrote:
thats not neccarrily true, in my case, my boyfriend would love for all that to happen, but im not old enough, and we want to wait awhile before we do let that happen, maybe try bringing the subject up just a lil and make it sound like a couple years from now, see what he says.


i got engaged and pregnant at 17.... But she wants her bf to feel the way she does.... And if you read her post again, he's not ready.
You can't push something on someone that isn't ready. The only thing she'll be doing is pushing him out of her life!

i second that
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