Hey! I have posted two other messages,
but this one is different. My . Was
suppose to come on october 31st. It
hasn't came on yet. My fiance and I are
hoping it's because i'm pregnant. We had
sex on the days I was fertile. I took a
cheap pregnancy test on sunday, it showed
negative. Do some test work better than
others? Is there a chance I could be
pregnant? I really pray that I am. My
breast are extremely sore and I sleep for
several hours at a time. I also use the
restroom a lot. I just want a little
advice. I am planning on going to our
local health dept. For a blood test.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
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SadMommy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Sep 2005 Posts: 194 Location: California
Posted: 11-03-05 16:27pm
Go live your life and be young, have fun,
go to college, get to know each other, get
a dog, get a good paying job, go to prom.
You are so young, can I ask why you are in
a rush?
Best wishes............
T~
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AshleyNorman_17
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Sep 2005 Posts: 41
Posted: 11-03-05 17:08pm
sadmommy
wrote:
go live your life and be
young, have fun, go to college, get to
know each other, get a dog, get a good
paying job, go to prom.
You are so young, can I ask why you are in
a rush?
Best wishes............
T~
sadmommy, I am not in a rush. I plan on
attending college after I graduate. My
gpa is 3.45 and I have a 27 on my act. I
am a great student. My fiance is a
freshman in college. He graduated from
high school with a 30 act and a perfect
4.0 gpa. It's not that we're rushing.
We just planned our life early. Do you
have any advice concerning me being
pregnant? Please help, if you can.
Ashley, it may have been too soon. Blood
test are more accurate, get that done asap
so you can start taking pre-natal
vitamins.
If you're not pregnant, try to enjoy your
lives... Believe me it's much harder to
continue your education when you have a
baby to look after.
I wish you all the best!
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SadMommy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Sep 2005 Posts: 194 Location: California
Posted: 11-03-05 18:08pm
Ashley, my advise if you already maybe
pregnant is to go to the clinic as soon as
possible.
As much as you may think that you are
ready, there is nothing that prepares you
for becoming a parent. I am not downing
you, you may very well have a good head on
your shoulder and be very much able to be
a mother now, but why the rush? I am just
saying to go live life and have fun. We
are only young once and as much as we may
wish, there is no going back. I think
when you are older you will
understand.............
I wish you all the best, I really do
sugar..................
as much as you may think
that you are ready, there is nothing that
prepares you for becoming a parent. I am
not downing you, you may very well have a
good head on your shoulder and be very
much able to be a mother now, but why the
rush? I am just saying to go live life
and have fun. We are only young once and
as much as we may wish, there is no going
back. I think when you are older you
will understand.............
I wish you all the best, I really do
sugar..................
Love, tammy
ditto
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AshleyNorman_17
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Sep 2005 Posts: 41
Posted: 11-04-05 16:55pm
michelle1981
wrote:
sadmommy
wrote:
as much as you may think
that you are ready, there is nothing that
prepares you for becoming a parent. I
am not downing you, you may very well have
a good head on your shoulder and be very
much able to be a mother now, but why the
rush? I am just saying to go live life
and have fun. We are only young once
and as much as we may wish, there is no
going back. I think when you are older
you will understand.............
I wish you all the best, I really do
sugar..................
Love, tammy
hey, thanks I understand completely what
you are saying. I went to the doctor.
I am 4 weeks and 3 days pregnant.
Ditto
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AshleyNorman_17
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Sep 2005 Posts: 41
Posted: 11-04-05 16:58pm
michelle1981
wrote:
sadmommy
wrote:
as much as you may think
that you are ready, there is nothing that
prepares you for becoming a parent. I
am not downing you, you may very well have
a good head on your shoulder and be very
much able to be a mother now, but why the
rush? I am just saying to go live life
and have fun. We are only young once
and as much as we may wish, there is no
going back. I think when you are older
you will understand.............
I wish you all the best, I really do
sugar..................
Love, tammy
hey, thanks I understand completely what
you are saying. I went to the doctor.
I am 4 weeks and 3 days pregnant.
Ditto
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SadMommy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Sep 2005 Posts: 194 Location: California
Posted: 11-04-05 17:19pm
Hi ashley, I was just wondering how you
were feeling? Are you scared? It is
always normal to be alittle nervous even
if you have been trying....
I am here if you would like to
talk..........
Love, tammy
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AshleyNorman_17
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Sep 2005 Posts: 41
Posted: 11-04-05 17:30pm
Yes, I am kind of scared. I don't know
how to tell my parents. My fiance is so
excited. I just want to know the right
foods to eat. My next appointment is in
december. Why so late?
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SadMommy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Sep 2005 Posts: 194 Location: California
Posted: 11-04-05 17:48pm
At the begining of your pregnancy you will
only go see your dr about once a month (
unless you your dr feels you need more)
every situation is diffrent, but for a
"normal" pregnancy once a month is normal.
It is a lot to take in and handle. I
think you should just be open and honest
with your mother, that is always the best
way to handle a situation. I know it is
not easy, and it is over whelming. Having
a baby is a big deal, there is allot to
get prepared for sugar......
Did the dr tell you everything looked good
so far? I will be thinking about you
today!!
Love, tammy
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AshleyNorman_17
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Sep 2005 Posts: 41
Posted: 11-04-05 17:53pm
Yes ma'am. She said everything was fine.
She gave me some books for me to read.
I also got my prenatal vitamins. She
said, I didn't have to start them today.
I took one anyway, because I want my baby
to have a healthy brain and spinal cord.
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SadMommy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Sep 2005 Posts: 194 Location: California
Posted: 11-04-05 18:02pm
You should also go buy some folic acid 400
mg pills and take them as well. Thats
what my dr told me to do anyway, he said
they dont put enough in prenantal pills.
You might want to ask. But it if anything
your only help the baby more so I did it.
I also started to see allot about it on
the news.
i too conceived my first child at 17.
That was 7 years ago :)
my husband and I have been together for 8
years....It can happen.
Good luck hun :d
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Kristina86
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Joined: 04 Nov 2005 Posts: 69 Location: Houston, Tx
Posted: 11-04-05 19:24pm
Congrats on your pregnancy.....
When you first become pregnant you will
only see your doc like every month or so
depending on your doc, when you get about
6 months to 7 months you will start to go
2 times a month, then towards the end you
will start to go once a week.
Food to eat: there is a great book that is
call what to eat when expecting (i think
that is it) I read it when I was pregnant
with my son and it helped a lot, and there
is also another book call what to expect
with expecting and that just goes through
the whole pregnancy, questions to ask your
doc and everything, those 2 books are
really good books
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AshleyNorman_17
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Sep 2005 Posts: 41
Posted: 11-07-05 15:49pm
I haven't told my parents yet. I don't
know what to say. My mother already
knows my period is very late. I just
don't know the right words to say. My
doctor said I should really think about it
before I tell her.
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Lilypad
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Joined: 10 Oct 2005 Posts: 1043 Location: Ohio, USA
Warning! Posted: 11-08-05 10:33am
sadmommy
wrote:
you should also go buy some
folic acid 400 mg pills and take them as
well. Thats what my dr told me to do
anyway, he said they dont put enough in
prenantal pills. You might want to ask.
But it if anything your only help the
baby more so I did it. I also started to
see allot about it on the news.
Have you told your
mom?
okay just my personal experience.
Prenatal vitamins + 400micrograms of folic
acid= horrendous gas
i mean you will clear rooms!
That much folic acid is
unnecessary...According to my obgyn
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kitty2luv
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Joined: 22 Oct 2004 Posts: 1089 Location: with my love
Posted: 11-08-05 10:39am
Ashleynorman_17 are u pregnant? Or are u
trying? I didnt get the hole post
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SadMommy
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Joined: 15 Sep 2005 Posts: 194 Location: California
Posted: 11-08-05 14:17pm
Well I guess to each their own, cause I
dont really care if it gives me gas as
long as my baby has a better chance at
being healthy......
T~
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SadMommy
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Joined: 15 Sep 2005 Posts: 194 Location: California
Posted: 11-08-05 14:19pm
Ashley, how are you doing? Have you told
your mom yet? I was just thinking about
you ................
