Ok I am very confused and have no one to
talk to I am just looking for a little
advice. Well I am 19 my husband is 21 we
have been married for a year and 4 months.
We dated for 2 and a half months before
he propsed to me and 3 weeks after that we
got married it all seems so rushed now and
I am having so many doubts I dont know if
I still love him the way I used to
especially since I still have some kind of
feelings for some one from my hometown.
I dont feel like I am appreciated in this
marriage he is in the military and I sit
here at home and wait for him when I dont
have to I could have moved back home and
not thought twice about it. I dont know
if I should follow my heart and leave and
pursue happiness with the other guy or if
I should try to tough it out... I feel
like I am goin crazy!!!!
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Jennifer23
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Oct 2005 Posts: 76 Location: Texas
Posted: 11-04-05 12:58pm
Well, first of all, it seems like you were
being really selfish marrying this man
when you still had feelings for someone
else. That's not being honest with
yourself or your husband.
Now, if you are unhappy in the
relationship you are in, then you need to
do whatever you have to do to make
yourself happy. If that means divorcing
your husband and pursuing a relationship
with another man, then so be it. Your
husband deserves to have an honest woman
that loves him and if you can't provide
that then you need to move on and let him
find someone that can give that to him.
Do some soul searching and figure out
what's going to be best for the
relationship and for yourself. I wish
you all the best! :-)
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MissMeBaby
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Nov 2005 Posts: 3 Location: florida
Posted: 11-05-05 21:03pm
I knkow I need to do some soul searching I
am goin back home for a few months to sort
things out hopefully I will figure things
out while I am there I dont want to keep
him with me if there is something better
for him out there.
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Jennifer23
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Oct 2005 Posts: 76 Location: Texas
Posted: 11-05-05 21:54pm
That sounds like the best thing you can do
for yourself and for your husband. He
should respect you more if you let him
know how you feel and you're not leading
him on when your heart could possibly
belong to someone else. I hope
everything works out for you guys. Good
luck! :-)
