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lonely_angel
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Sex Doesn't Feel Good At All
Posted: 11-04-05 18:31pm
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Ok well when me and my bf were having sex
he kept rubbing my clit but it really
hurt. I mean most people says it feels
good but it has no effect on me and every
time we have sex it doesn't feel good. I
mean I have only had intercourse 7 times
but nothing. I hope there is nothing
wrong with me. Is it just he's to rough
or what I am so like grr.... When I have
to like fake it feeling good. Does anyone
have a soulution to this
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michelle1981
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Posted: 11-04-05 20:21pm
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He may be doing it a bit rough...Try using
lubricant and a slower motion.
If you masturbate, you can feel what is
good and what isn't... Try doing it
alone, then with him :)
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jma1
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Posted: 11-07-05 14:31pm
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I suggest masturbating also-he doesn't
know what feels good to you if you dont
know. Try stimulating yourself. Tell him
if it hurts, because he doesn't know. My
husband would play with my clit and use
the tip of his finger, his nail was
hurting me so bad. Finally I told him,
that hurts. I told him to use his finger
and not the tip; rub soft and slower, not
hard and fast. Make sure it is well
lubed. If he is rubbing fast and hard
without proper lube its like giving it a
rug burn. Sometimes men (not all men) can
get so nervous and uptight about trying to
make you cum that they dont do a good job.
It seems like they try to rush to get you
close. I tell him what I like and let him
know what I don't. I am not laying down
for just him, I need pleasing too. Why
waste your energy and then get nothing in
return.
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sandals527
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Posted: 11-08-05 19:37pm
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" I am not laying down for just him, I
need pleasing too. Why waste your energy
and then get nothing in return. "
well said!!! I agree with everything u
said and couldn't have said it better, and
also, if you have only had sex 7 times,
you may also need to give it some time,
give your body some time,.... And find
out what really turns you on... Very
seldom do my fiance and I have sex and one
of us doesn't cum... Good luck!!!
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wife2jason_mom2ryley
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Posted: 11-09-05 17:44pm
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| michelle1981
wrote: | he may be doing it a bit
rough...Try using lubricant and a slower
motion.
If you masturbate, you can feel what is
good and what isn't... Try doing it
alone, then with him
:) |
great advice...I would have given you the
same! Really try it...It works for me,
and my husband thinks it sexy.
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michelle1981
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Posted: 11-09-05 18:02pm
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| wife2jason_mom2ryley
wrote: |
great advice...I would have given you the
same! Really try it...It works for me,
and my husband thinks it
sexy. |
my husband loves it too...Lol
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wife2jason_mom2ryley
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Posted: 11-09-05 18:08pm
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It just makes sex so much better. I
masterbate during sex... That way I
orgasm everytime for sure :wink: I love to
watch my hubby too...I don't know what it
is!! Lol!!
Teresa
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truestarrs21
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No Period For 7 Months
Posted: 11-11-05 12:02pm
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I am 31 years of age. 3years ago I had
one ovary removed because
i had an ovarian cyst. I have had many
problems for many years since I had my
second child. He is now eleven years old
and the problems never go away. I have
always gone to the doctors to check the
sexual pain that I have during and after
intercourse. If I have intercourse today
I will become inflamated for two weeks
straight non stop maybe even a month
sometimes I don't have to have sex and I
will have inflamated 1 or twice a month.
I have always complained to my gyn doctor
they always run tests and all my tests
always come back normal and negative.
I am only having sex with one person.
And his tests are also good I have never
had any sexual transmitted diseases. I
have tried different methods like seeking
other gyn doctors but all test results
are always negative and normal
i am kind of getting scared because I
haven't gotten my period now since the
ending of march 2005 and I don't seem to
get better I still have a lot of pain
and I am wondering if I should ask my
doctor to remove my uterus because I
cannot take the pain anymore and
it has been 11 years with the same pain
not to mention that in my family there is
a lot of women who have had their uterus
removed
what should I do please help
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habichuelo
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Try This Urgent!
Posted: 03-03-07 18:44pm
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Try This Urgent!
Posted: 03-03-07 5:14pm
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Try this urgent!
Posted: 03-03-07 4:58pm
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nobody has told you the real way to get an
extreme delicious orgasm to the
woman,,,just try this,,,follow this
instructions,,...
1)the woman have to laid on one side and
lift one leg wide and high,,exposing her
vaginal area and her anal area.
2)the man have to hold her lifted leg on
one of his shoulder,,and...
3) with his fingertips he will caress and
tickle her anal hole and vaginal center
area with a lubricant.
4)do that for a while until the woman is
very wet and very desperate for
intercourse
5)now the man can start penetrating the
woman in her vagina slowly,,
but only penetrate the penis head in the
vagina several times until she get wildly
desperate to be penetrated with his full
lenght penis "" do it!!!."
6)this is the most important
step,,,,,ok,,,,now while penetrating her
vagina,,,the man will tickle and caress
her anal hole,,,,also the man can
penetrate only one fingertip into her anal
hole and unplugin it quickly.
7)by doing this the orgasm on her will be
extremely delicious and
unforgotable,,,,,she will be extremely
hook on this way of having sex,,,that she
will be wanting it everyday more and more.
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AlexxFlammablee
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doesnt hurt but doesnt feel good =/
Posted: 01-29-08 22:46pm
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so ive been having sex now for 2 months
and after the first 4 times it stopped
hurting but now it doesnt even feel good
is it something im doing wrong or is he
doing wrong or what?
please help me.
=/
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Tylanas
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Posted: 01-29-08 23:36pm
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It sounds like you're doing it very wrong,
yes... Check out some of the advice in
these topics.
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LadyAllie
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cant orgasm durring sex yet...
Posted: 01-29-08 23:58pm
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ive been having sex with my boyfriend for
almost three months now. we've done it
alot, but i still cant cum without playing
with myself at the same time.
i do the same thing with sometimes...
faking it... cuz i know that he would be
super dissapointed if he couldnt get me
there. it does feel good, but i cant get
there.
he does try to make it go really fast
tho.. he doesnt last super long.
especially when he really really wants.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 01-30-08 10:17am
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Most women can't orgasm without clitoral
stimulation. You're totally normal.
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AlexxFlammablee
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Posted: 01-30-08 14:29pm
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| Eiri
wrote: | | It sounds like you're doing
it very wrong, yes... Check out some of
the advice in these
topics. |
well how are we doing it wrong?
and how can we fix that.
can you actually give me some advice this
time....
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Tylanas
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Posted: 01-30-08 23:18pm
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If it hurts, then either something is
wrong with how you're doing it:
1. Not enough foreplay
2. Not enough lube
3. Him being too rough
4. You being too nervous
Or, there's something actually "wrong"
with your vagina. You may have one of
several conditions that are mentioned
around this forum. I don't know their
names off the top of my head.
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AlexxFlammablee
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Posted: 01-31-08 15:26pm
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it doesnt hurt, it just doesnt feel good.
kinda like a neautral feeling.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 01-31-08 22:31pm
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Well the advice above should still help. A
truly "numb" vagina is extremely rare -
I've never heard of one.
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AlexxFlammablee
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Posted: 02-01-08 18:14pm
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its weird its not pain nor pleasure its
like i dont feel anything at all.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 02-01-08 18:58pm
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Well, do you masturbate? Do you know your
own body and what gives you pleasure? You
may actually be feeling pleasure and
simply don't know how to interpret it
because you don't know what it feels
like.
Trust me, I am 99.9% sure you can indeed
feel a penis sliding in and out of your
vagina.
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