Get out of unhealthy relationships,
i watched oprah the other day, she
reconfirmed what I already knew,
you need to love yourself, respect
yourself, treat yourself to knowledge,
read books at the library that will
improve your self esteem, to be
independent, etc.
Sho, love yourself, get out, forgive
yourself,move on
rainfall, I really liked what you wrote in
that post there,
i made a huge mistake, I dated a guy who
happens to have two very different
personalities. When I learned of this, I
was in shock. I thought he loved me, but
that is not love, the whole laundry list
of unacceptable things. One minute
things are fun great and loving, and then
the next my safety well being, my spirit
is being attacked, I am there to defend
myself
my belongings are being thrown out and
about, I have to walk home
as he kicks me out, or threaten to,
clothes ripped off, hair pulled, spit
at?
Despite all the cards,flowers, kisses, and
the positive aspects of him
no way! I left him. I missed the
positive aspects of him for a long time
sure, but I had to mourn this,
i do not understand why he is the way he
is, I mean really, what was that all
about, what did he gain? I contributed
some money to our food, outings, but
nothing huge. I did not live with him.
We were just boyfriend, girlfriend, I
don't know what he got out of it? Unless
he truly is very sick.
I may never understand, why anyone for
that matter is like this
i pray for my safety everyday still. I
have not heard from him by the grace of
god, I hope he has found another
relationship. I pray for that.
I talk to my guardian angels for me to be
protected.
He started all the nonsense by him
constantly accusing me of cheating on him,
when I honest to god never did, I do not
understand that at all
i am a good, regular person, with great
morals, values, but just a regular person,
and my jaw is still on the ground as I do
not understand why
he thought what he thought, he would just
create all these serenios, storys in his
mind, playing mind games, changing
stories, making them up, to the point
where I started to question my own memory,
and I thought I was about to go "crazy"
i do not know if I will ever date again
i wish this planet did not have unhealthy
people on it
life is hard enough...
I pray for everyone to love themselves,
respect themselves and others
and get help if needed, and to be safe!
