This is something that might have been
asked before - but since a lot of the
cases vary according to specific
situations, I wanted to get feedback from
someone more aware of the medical facts.
I am 31 yrs old, technically still a
virgin - I say technically, because I have
been going to stip clubs regularly for the
past 1.5 yrs. I usually do not ejaculate
from lap dances ( I think that has
happened to me 3-4 times) and rarely kiss
any females. But the last time I had a
few dances, I ended having long kisses
with the girl and also ejaculated and
noticed a stain (about the size of 2-3
water drops) on my trousers afterwards ( I
was wearing boxer shorts underneath).
Also, the female continued her dance (she
was wearing a flimsy lingerie piece on
her bottom).
I have never been tested for any std
before and I have never indulged in actual
intercourse. The closest I have come to
actual sex is lap dances and a couple of
hand jobs.
Should I be seriously worried about:
a) stds
b) the dancer getting pregnant
this might sound stupid, but should I be
rushing to a test center and/or asking the
dancer to take some birth control steps!!!
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cd998776
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Aug 2005 Posts: 996 Location: Ohio
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Posted: 11-06-05 23:23pm
Chances are the stains were just dried
semen. There is, of course, always the
risk of getting an std when involved in a
sexual activity, but chances are since she
didn't give you a blowjob, and you didn't
have sex with her, that you most likely
didn't receive one, but it's always better
to be safe than sorry.
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HappyHarry
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Oct 2005 Posts: 10 Location: New Jersey
Wow Posted: 11-07-05 00:53am
Your 30 years old and still a virgin? And
youve only gone to strip clubs. While you
may have gotten stds from that ho who gave
you a lap dance, you most likely did not.
Secondly it is close to impossible to get
a woman pregnant through clothes! You
first need to take yourself possibly to a
real club and meet some girls, and then
get yourself some game and maybe you can
actually bring a real girl home with you,
that is one that you dont have to pay!
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redzonebikes
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Nov 2005 Posts: 47
Posted: 11-18-05 20:57pm
What are you waiting for in life? Hit the
dance clubs or bars everyweekend until you
find a girl or many girls and have fun(but
be respectful to them). Today maybe your
last day and live like it. Iam guessing
you have no disabilities, so I dont get
it, even if your not good looking, that
dosent matter, your personality can win
you hundreds of girls as long as you are
confident in yourself. Live life to the
fullest
