Getting It Up..the Other End Posted: 11-08-05 00:19am
My boyfriend has this huge obession with
my ass, and he's always wanting to have
sex up the butt with me, we tried it a
couple times, but it hurts so bad, and I
just end up crying. Is there any possible
way I can get up to that level that it
doesnt hurt really bad at all, or am I a
lost cause?
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just_curious
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Nov 2005 Posts: 8
Hey Gurl! :) Posted: 11-08-05 10:08am
I've heard it can be a little easier if
you have a bowel movement earlier in the
day that you're going to try anal.
Practice makes perfect!
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lmw80
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Oct 2005 Posts: 59 Location: Bristol, PA
Posted: 11-08-05 10:36am
Lube - lots of lube. Tell him you
respect the fact that he wants to have
anal, but he needs to respect that without
lots of lube he will not be having any
anal. Also, tell him he needs to work it
in there slowly, he can't just shove it
in.
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Jessica_CF20
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Nov 2005 Posts: 207 Location: NM
Posted: 11-09-05 22:16pm
Amen sister imw yes lots of lube. It
helps to push out while hes entering
clenching causes unneccessary discomfort
(not from experience) a high level of
arousal enlivens the posterior cave,
making it much more receptive to touch.
Keep up the genital caresses during anal
it comforts and distracts . . . . .
It may take hours weeks or months for the
shy & tender rear to relax and blossom
fully just tell him to be patient
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sbslove
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Jul 2005 Posts: 82 Location: Vail, IA
Posted: 11-10-05 18:00pm
The biggest key to anal sex is to relax.
Try not to think about it and tense up.
Thats when it hurts. Remember to use
lots and lot and lots of lube. U can't
use to much. At first it will be
extremely uncomforatable and feel like u
need to have a bowel movement but the more
times u do it the better it will feel.
Depending on which angle he is in u
matters to, so try it in differnt
positions and try fingering urself during
it and u'll forget he's even in there
:wink: . Good luck on ur new discovery.
